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Dear Readers,
I found my mom's vibrator and also alot of other digusting things in her drawer.....!!! I was just trying to find my car charger for my phone .....she even was the one to send me in there......!!! Was she trying to tell me that way or did she think I was just STUPID!!! Any way I found it ........what should I do?????........PLEASE COMMENT ON THIS........I NEED TO KNOW....!!!
Thanks,
Elizabeth Little (link)
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I would just put it back and pretend you never saw it. As hard as it is to not say anything because it's so embarassing to you, I'm sure it'd be awfully embarassing for your mom. I found a vibrator in my mom's bedroom as well, I was about 18 years old at the time, so I mentioned it to her and she told me it was a 'gag gift' from a co-worker because it was her 50th birthday or something! Disgusting!
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If i'm on birth control can I have sex? (link)
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Yes you can have sex. Personally though, I would always use a back-up form of contraception, like a condom as well. I have worked and befriended a lot of younger/teenage mothers and most if not all of them were on the birth control pill but still had unprotected sex. Birth control pills are usually 99% effective, but you never know! If you're taking multiple medications, miss a pill, etc.. there's a couple of reasons of how you could end up pregnant. Definitely use a back-up, it's better to be safe than sorry!
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I'm 15 and this has kinda been an emotional year. My dog has died, I hate my job, I have had to deal with high school drama which I get is normal for my age but this year I've seemed more sad then I ever have before and I'm not the only one who has noticed. Summer vacation just started and its only the second day and I've been crying for most of it for random reasons or for no reason at all? Is there something wrong with me I just can't hold my tears in and I don't know why? (link)
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Sorry to hear you've had such a crap year so far. I don't know why you're feeling down, but could you talk to a friend or a close family member that you trust? Even if it's just talking about your day, you'll feel better having someone there to confide in. Also, you may be a bit sad that school is over, therefore you don't have people around you 24/7, it can be depressing, I know I used to get sad during summer because I never saw any of my friends and when I did see them it was like once every other week or something. Also if you hate your job, could you not look for a different job for the summer? I'm sure people will be looking to hire temporary employees over the summer! Sorry you're so stressed out - i hope you're summer starts looking up for you soon!
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I have a big crush on the trainer at the gym. I use to go there everyday. He would stare at me all the time and he was also very helpful towards at me at the front desk in checking me in and stuff. I had the feeling he liked me but nothing ever happened between us. Now the last several weeks I've been really busy with work and haven't had much time to go like I use to. Now I only go once in awhile. When I go he just looks at me for a little bit then goes on talking to other people. Do you think he liked me but now since I'm not around as much he forgot about me? (link)
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I don't think he forgot about you. Clearly you didn't forget about him. I'm sure you sprung up in his mind every so often but since you hadn't been by in a while he may have figured you'd stop going or something. If you have a big crush on him, keep making it a habit to go to the gym and try to talk to him or at least give him a smile or something like that, to make him know that you like him! ;)
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We had sex last night and she started crying. What can I do to comfort her ? (link)
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Why was she crying? Was she in pain?
All I can advise is to take it as slow as you can and if she wants you to stop, than stop. Don't push it. Also, if sex is painful, it might be best to try lube - that way it'll help.. I know it can be extremely painful to have sex sometimes if I don't have lube, so much so that I almost start crying! Other than that just ask her if she's OK and if she wants you to stop, if she wants you to stop than just cuddle her. I hope it gets easier for you both!
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My best friend is always whining and crying because she cannot get a boyfriend, I tell her to wait and eventually she will find a guy that likes her a lot but she just ignores it. Every time she see's a couple, she will start moaning and pitying herself. HELP!!!!! (link)
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How old is she? You're exactly right though, there's not much more she can do than wait. And she may be waiting for a long time! Even though she sees a couple and they look happy, they might not be and they could turn out to have the most unhappy relationship! Just keep reassuring your friend not to rush into things and just take it slow, she'll find someone eventually that she'll love but for now she's got to calm down. Also, if you're around her a lot try to take her places or distract her if there are couples around, that way hopefully she doesn't complain!
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Im sssoooo in love with this boy named Jesse and really wanna kiss him so freaking bad on the lips when to kiss him? fyi:Im 11!! sos!! (link)
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Are you and Jesse friends? Personally I think you're a bit too young to kiss any boys, if anything - kiss him on the cheek for now ;)
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What's your opinion and why? (link)
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My opinion is each to their own. If someone wants to have sex with another person when they aren't dating then that's fine, as long as both people are on the same wavelength and they're understanding that they're just friends or friends w/ benefits then it's OK. Obviously it's not if one person thinks they're dating and the other doesn't.
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I really need to get out of this relationship before I hurt my boyfriend and do somthing to him ill regret we don't even talk soo this is wierd for me how do I tell him its over but without beeing harsh
im a 13 year-old girl (link)
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He's your boyfriend but you guys don't talk? Why don't you get a friend to tell him or write him a note. Or just keep not talking to him and he'll get the hint! :D
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I went into Rue 21 the other day and while I was checking out, one of the workers was spraying perfume all over the store. I went online to see their perfumes when I got home but I see they have like five different kinds. Do they spray whichever one they feel like, or is there a certain one they spray? I really really really liked it but I don't think I could remember what it smelt like if I went back and smelled them all. So yeah..anyone work there or something would know? Thankss (link)
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I doubt there's a certain one that they spray. They probably change up the perfumes and colognes they spray constantly. I would go to the actual store because they always have testers and you can see which one it may have been.
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What's a good store to shop for pajama pants at? I'm a size 18, so plus size. I'm looking for more plain type pajamas, even pajamas you can wear outside or whatever. I live at college and feel weird in my hello kitty pjs.
All help is appreciated! (link)
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Old Navy is a great place to buy plus sized pajama pants at and they're stylish. Wal*Mart like the other person below me said is really cheap and you can sometimes find some really good buys there.
Try Old Navy first though, you'll be happy you did!! :)
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i just came on here to be assured by somebody. i know the way to *not* get pregnant is abstinence, but that's not the point.
anyway, i'm sexually active. he pulls out before he cums (while wearing protection) and then after he does, he always offers to check for holes - by looking then *blowing* into it, like a balloon. this is very sweet, i just wanna add :]
so yeah, basically, i just wanted assurance from a stranger saying it sounded pretty safe. i get nervous with things like this. thanks.. :] (link)
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Yeah, of course it's safe.
But, I'm a bit weirded out that he would cum into a condom and then blow on it. That's really disgusting not sweet.
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what's a really good tanning lotion that'll get me dark fast? i want to hear about ones you've PERSONALLY tried and were satisfied with.
i've heard Black by Designer Skin is good, has anyone tried this and would recommend it?
i'm not too concerned with the price because i'll be buying from ebay, so anything you got will be good.
i DONT want any of the tingle/sizzle lotions though and none that smell like hemp. (link)
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Hey there.
Paint it black is by far the best I've ever used. It was recommended to me by some of my friends and my tanning salon & I thought I'd try it. After looking it up on the internet is by far one of the highest rated tanning lotions. And it's fairly cheap compared to other lotions.
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why do dogs lick people? (link)
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It's because licking is the only way they can express themselves. Basically, if your dog licks you it's trying to bond with you. And, also because we sweat & we taste like salt - so they think it's yummy (funny but very very true).
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Im supposed to be going away to school this fall. I graduated in 2008 and stayed home for my first year and commuted to community college but Ive been accepted to a state university and am supposed to start. My main problem is I dont really want to go, I know that I will have a hard time finding good jobs and such if I don't. But I just really dont want to go. Do you think I should? Or should I stick around and try to find a job somewhere? (link)
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Hey there.
I'm kind of in the same situation. I graduated in 2008 & did my first year @ a Community College school and planned to go off to a state university this Fall. But for some reason I really don't want to. I already have two jobs, so that's the main reason why I'm staying here because I would hate to lose them. But, if I were you I would really just sit down and weigh your options. You should try and apply at all the jobs you can right now before you are supposed to off to this university and see if you have any luck. There are ALWAYS jobs out there you just have to find the right ones.
If you genuinely just don't want to go off to school at all, then you don't have to. Spend your next year at a CC and then transfer next year - just try and find a job. I can't make this decision for you - but if I were in your shoes I wouldn't go off to a university if I didn't want to. Even though when you get there and experience it you may absolutely love it. It's ultimately your decision and I'm sure you'll choose what's best for you.
Talk to family and friends and see what they would do, too! :)
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17 / F [Sorry if this is lengthy]
Okay, well I met this guy back in 2007. And we became really close friends. He asked me out three months after we met. And we really liked each other. We were together for 3 months and then he had to move to another state. I manage to cope with it. We didn't stay together because we were both young (I was 14) and we didn't believe in long distance relationships. Well, he eventually moved back and we became close again. Well, we've been together for 7 months now. And we really care about each other. (I'm not going to say I love him, because I don't know that yet. And I'm not like those stupid little teens who say they love someone because they're with them. But I really, really care about him.) But we still don't believe in long distance relationship. But I don't know, there's something there that we want to start believing because we care so much. I'm 17 and he's turning 19 in a couple of months. So, it's not much of an age difference. But I'm scared that he'll move on when he moves. I really do care about him and I don't want him to leave, but I know that he has to.
So my questions are...
- Have any of you been in a situation like this? If so, how did you deal it?
- Should we continue what we have even though he's far away?
- If we talk more about a long distance relationship, do you think we'll be in one?
I want to make him some CDs so he can remember him. And I already have CDs of our songs. But I want to make more.
- What are some songs about having someone you care about moving / leaving and you're just not the same without them there?
Thanks in Advance! (link)
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Hey there!
Well just so you know long distance relationships are possible if you make them work. I know that you say you both don't "believe" in them, but have you tried? I understand completely if you don't want to but you should atleast try especially if you care so deeply about him.
I was in a similar type of situation like this when I was younger. When I was 15 I was dating a guy and moved to a different state - while we still talked we weren't "together" I would come back occasionally once every year or twice and we'd see each other, and we'd act like we were dating but we actually weren't. Now that I'm 19 it's been a while and when I see him I can say that I genuinely cannot stand him. I think he's the most irritating person and I think it's because I just got bored of him after a while and we grew up differently I just felt like he was so immature. So, now we don't talk - but I'm sure if we would've been around each other more or if we would've talked more then it might've been easier to cope with.
Anyways - to answer your questions. It's really up to the both of you if you want to continue what you have. It's definitely going to be a difficult thing to get through, but like I said earlier if you both care then you should atleast try it and see how it happens. A lot of people say that the only way you can tell if you love someone is if they're not around and you miss them like crazy and just want them. Obviously if you're open to date other people when he moves that's OK too, but if your both on the same mindset that you care about each other more then anything then yeah. You just both need to be on the same page about your relationship and you have to have great trust in one another.
The only way that you both will be in a long distance relationship is if you both agree that you think it's a good idea and you're willing. You can't just assume that if you discuss being in a long distance relationship with your bf that it will just "happen" you both have to promise that you think it's a good idea.
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is six flags closing and why? (link)
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No they aren't closing.
My dad works for them and they did declare bankruptcy but thankfully Disneyworld is buying it from them. So, it will stay exactly the same it will just be ran by different people.
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About what side bra do you think this girl wears? I'm considering breast implants and i would like to be her size. Can someone throw a random guess out there what side bra you think she wears and how much you think she weighs she's about 5ft tall maybe she is really short. Thanks.
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She looks short so probably 5' and 120 pounds easy. And her bra size maybe a 36C or 38B.
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My boyfriend and I are both 17. I lost my virginity to him not too long ago and we've been having sex for about 3 months. We have sex A LOT. With protection of course! Well I think it's a lot but we both have really high sex drives. I enjoy all of it and never feel pressured into doing it. This past week we've had sex 9 times in 7 days. That's about average. The first time I slept over at his house we had sex once at 3am, again at 7am and again at 9. We went on vacation together recently and made it our mission to have sex all over the rental house. We did it 6 times within 3 and a half days. We're not even kinky people we just do it a lot! We've been walked in on by friends a lot who all have the comment "you two f*** like bunnies". He always tells me that he can't believe he found a girl who has the sex drive of a guy yet still looks so innocent. He doesn't even have to do anything to turn me on, he can be covered in dirt working on a car and I'll think about how much I love him and it just makes me want him so bad and I know its the same for him. We do other stuff too like go fishing,movies,out to dinner,cooking at home,shopping,go for drives/walks,party...its just that we always find time for sex somewhere in the day. We'll both be going away to college in the fall and don't know how we'll deal with being apart. Neither of us would ever cheat but it's going to be hard.
But is this much sex really normal for a teen couple? We've talked to another couple that we're friends with about this but they said they were only like this when they first started having sex and they've slowed down a lot now. (link)
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Yeah, I definitely agree with the first person and you!
When I first got with my boyfriend we would literally have sex AT LEAST two times a day ( this was in the summer too ). Then we both started working and we would only be able to have sex like 4 times a week, and it was pretty hard to cope with at first but it was fine. Then we both went away for college and saw each other only two or three times a month, of course we'd have sex - but sex felt a lot more special everytime we were together just because it was so rare.
It's COMPLETELY normal and there's nothing wrong with having a lot of sex! :)
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my birthday is coming up soon. i can't decide what i want. there are two things that i'm thinking about asking for. i either want this coach purse or an ipod touch. i already have 2 coach purses. the last time i got one though was a little after christmas. so i kind of want a new one. the coach purse i want is soooo adorable, its one of the new poppy ones.. all of those are so cute, actually. i really love coach, its like my favorite thing. but if i'm good and stuff, when my mom goes to buy herself a new purse, she will buy me one too.. so that's my reason why i'd rather have an ipod touch.
the only thing is, i'm not that obsessed with going on the computer. i mean i go on it, like once a day, but i don't know. what do you think is better?
oh.. & if you don't like, like coach purses, replace it with something else you really like..
& if you have ipod touch please tell me anything and everytyhing you possibly can about it!!! (link)
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I would definitely go with an iPod touch. If you think there's a chance that you'll get that purse another time then it will give you something to look forward to.
You don't have to be obsessed with the computer to go on your iPod, although it's very convenient because you can get wifi on it & stuff. But if you're just going to be using it for movies/tvshows/music then you just have to upload them and then download them onto your iPod and you won't have to worry about plugging it in the computer until the battery runs low.
I personally love purses but I would definitely prefer to get an iPod just because they're so much more fun & they'll last a long time before you have to get a new one! Plus this poppy purse - you may not even be interested in it anymore after a few months, making you want to get a new purse anyways!
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