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how to break up with somone


Question Posted Saturday July 3 2010, 5:35 pm

I really need to get out of this relationship before I hurt my boyfriend and do somthing to him ill regret we don't even talk soo this is wierd for me how do I tell him its over but without beeing harsh
im a 13 year-old girl


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maxgrey answered Wednesday July 7 2010, 11:20 am:
Tell him flat out you don't want to continue with your relationship. Don't try to be friends with him, but don't go out of your way to ignore him and be unnecessarily rude either.
Be honest about why you're breaking up with him when he asks, just don't get confrontational.

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waiting25 answered Tuesday July 6 2010, 1:44 am:
there isnt a way just tell him you ahve grown apart.. you want to be friends..(even though it will never happen)

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chakra answered Sunday July 4 2010, 12:16 pm:
If you two don't talk much then he may not even be upset if you break up, he may be feeling just a wierd about the relationship as you do.

Please don't do as the last person said, ie write him a note or get a friend to do it for you. I got my friend to break up with someone for me when i was your age (we didnt speak either cos i didnt like him that much) and it really hurt him.

So, ask to talk to him on his own, sit down and just tell him that you would like to just go (back) to being being friends again as you don't feel that the relationship between you is working and it just doesnt feel right.

That way, he knows it's the relationship thats not feeling right, and that it's nothing to do with him as a person.

good luck :-)

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amygwen answered Sunday July 4 2010, 12:06 am:
He's your boyfriend but you guys don't talk? Why don't you get a friend to tell him or write him a note. Or just keep not talking to him and he'll get the hint! :D

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