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me and my boyfriend got a new kitten a few days ago. he's about 3 weeks old. when we first got him, he meowed alot, and wanted tons of attention. he crawled all over everything, and on top of us. which i can understand, him being scared and wondering who we are. but he still does it. he always wants to sleep with us, and next to us, he crawls all over us, paws on our faces, everything. even when we're eating, he gets on top of us and wants to get our food. i really am starting to feel like me and my boyfriend arent getting a whole lot of alone time, cause the cat wants to be with us. is this normal for a kitten? or are we doing something wrong? (link)
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yes!!
the older they get the more alone and sleep they want but that affection never goes away. i have two cats one never leave you alone and will bite you if u dont pet her. you just have to set limits remember your the boss!!
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I am from Malaysia. Married with 4 kids. Age 40. Husband 47. I caught my husband 6 months after he was having an emotional relationship with one of his chat-mates. That person sent her photos which seems to be a mexican actress photos(not her real photos because i found out that she was from BENIN, west africa).I read some of her mail to my husband. I was extremely hurt and angry and i comfronted my husband. He appologised and told me that it was ended dec 2009.I have no choice but to accept but still hurt and couldnt forget what he had done.After that I secretly traced his working on the internet and found out that he already deleted all of the downloded site which link to the DATINGs site. I checked his mail and so far there are no suspicious email.The problem is he always goes outstation and i wont know whether he is faithful to me or not. Question is what should I do. Can I trust him. Pls advice.
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i just went through the same thing. The only way you can trust him is to find out why he was doing this. the other woman is not the problem. its HIM. you need to lay down the line tell him to get some help or go together. i think an emotional cheat is WAY WORSE than a sexaul relationship. why did he go looking for it.
if you feel that he is serious and loves you dont give up.
if you want to stay together let him know you dont trust him DONT LET HIM TURN IT ON YOU! dont ever let him make you think your paranoid or jealous. you have every right to feel how you do. just go with the flow take it slow. if you can give each other space. find the real love between you two.
trust takes time. if he is willing to deal with that then go for it. MAKE SURE YOU DONT LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU CAUGHT HIM... the less he knows about what you know the better trust me.. this way if he does it again he can say goodbye.
dont let him get off either.. ride the guilt trip for a while
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what are the solution of obesity
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balanced diet and exercise. manditory. surgery can fix bad habits.
no excuse of my knees hurt so i cant walk or jog.
most people who have a weight problem dont realize they eat too much sugar. just cutting out sugar you can loose 5 to 20 pounds.
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Is 131 a normal weight for a fifteen year old girl? If it isn't, please tell me the target weight I should get down to, I'm pretty short, around 5'3 and I come from a family of biiiig bones. Haha. Thanks! (link)
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im 5'3 and i jump from 130 to 135. its not the WIEGHT. alot of stuff has to do with if u exercise as well. but right now ur perfect!
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Why do I get cramps after sex? its not rough or anything, but like an hour or two after I'll get wicked bad cramps and I'm just wondering why. Could it be because I'm new at it. (link)
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not really "normal" but if you are doing it with someone witha large penis then maybe he is hurting you. std or an infection will also cause with. you should see a doctor just in case.
think about any other symptoms you may have.. just in case. but also try other positions to see if that helps
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When you masturbate is it bad for your health? (link)
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helllllll no....
im as healthy as a horse
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Hello i have a question. I have started growing as of you know and I am about turn 13 i havent got my period yet alot of my friends say thats unnormal is that true??? And I dont like talking to my mom about it it makes me feel un comfertable so i need help thanks alot (link)
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no some girls dont have it untill they are 16-18
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I gave this guy head at my school. He really wanted me to do it so I did. No, it wasn't my first time giving a blow job though.
Now I heard that he has some STD or something. I don't know much about it. It could be a straight rumor for all I know about this. I just want to know if I'm clean because I've been doing some stuff with my BF lately.
My boyfriend would totally kill me if I gave him something. haha
Can you get STDs in your throat or mouth or am I safe? Can I test myself some way without having to go all the way to the doctor? (link)
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yes you can.. gonorrhea and hiv(in som cases)
did you use a condom? no.. then utoh
im sur there are other things u can catch.. but i dont know sorrrrrry
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Okay, due to my past, my heart has literally turned black. I don't trust guys and it find it very hard to even maintain a conversation with them. Like they'll ask to meet with me (because honestly the guys that try to talk to me are from like Mocospace and chatlines or whatever and yes I know they are bad places or whatever), but then I shut down and never talk to them again.
I will not lie, I am a BBW (or in layman terms, "Obese") and on the account of my low-self esteem, I have been talken to and used for sex numerous times, to the point where I don't even want to have sex anymore. I get turned off by the idea of having sex with a man and kinda would rather want to do it with a female... that's how severe it has been.
Why is it that I shut down when it comes to guys now? I tell them the truth about myself as far as my looks are concerned but I still stop talking to them....
There is another guy that I have known for a year who adores me, and I admit that I have slept with him before and then I shut down on him to. After it happened I stopped talking to him. Then he found me again and is trying so hard for me to date him, but to be honest, I am not really attracted to him and he is a little cocky for me...
I don't know what to do. I am at a complete loss. What can I do? Where can I meet guys? I am in college but attend a large college so talking to guys is scary especially if your are new to campus.
I know have a lot of good qualities about me... but I think guys can't get past my exterior... so Idk... any advice will be greatly appreciated...
How can I stop shutting down on guys and where can I meet decent guys that will likely accept me for me? (link)
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friends first. that would be my suggestion. if guys ask you on a date say your not datting now. be friends. if someone likes you and they rally want YOU they will do what the have to be near you.
join clubs.. sports and typ of organization to meet people.
get a group going. make friends that are girls and guys.. you can meet pople through other people.
stay away from the internet.
i hate to say this but maybe if you have ben burned maybe you need to take some time off from being with guys.
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ooook! so if my boyfriend and i havent had sex for a few weeks because i was scared i was pregent, but i had my period yesterday.. is there a chance im pregnant? because ive read that if you have your period then your good but ive also read that some women still had there period even though they were prego?!! (link)
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did you take a test?
is your period on its normal time? is it normal? are you in pain..
check just to be sure, but yes there could be a slim chance for you to be prego!
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can i have sex with 2 men at the same time? (link)
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yes. just make sure you have boundaries and you are comfy with everything..
i guess could have sex with 4 at once if you really wanted..
vaginally.. anally, oraly and your hand... lots of work though...
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So I'm italian, and I'm pressured by family/friends/media to have a tan because most italians have tanned skin.
I'm naturally light skinned (not pale) but I do tan easily. The thing is, I'm so tired of tanning..and I don't want to ruin my skin. And I hate fake tanning products! I tried it and it's so annoying having to waste my time reapplying each day. But, I feel like every guy prefers girls to have tanned skin; on TV all you see is tanned skin! I'm fine with my skin color overall. Do guys really care what your skin tone is? Does it matter if your just plain white or tan? (link)
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most guys dont care they only care about your boobs, butt, face and if your annoying!
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hi im 14 years old and im turning 15 in december and most of my friend in my class have gotten there period and i have started puberty like hair and pimplies etc and im going into grade 9 and im kinda worried because one i have breast my cup size is 34B and it strange how i havnt gotten my period yet i really need help i just want to be sure that i wil get my period (link)
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dont worry.. some girls will not have it untill they are 17.
just be happy you dont have it yet..
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Well im 15 years old, n wear a 32 A size. Im not happy with my bra size at all. My boos are too small compared to my friend's everybody else at my age have much more than what i have. && im not happy at all w. that. i really need advice on how can i make them grow there has to be a way. i wear push up bras that make my boobs look alot bigger & makes ppl think i have really nice tits wen i really dont. the problem come when i go 2 the beach/pool :( . REAllY NEEd AdViCE. ThANk YOU ;) (link)
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need to find a bathing suit that will push it up!
trust me when your older and your boobs dont sag you will be soo happy
and ALOT of guys love gives with smaller boobs!
and just to let you know.. your not done growing.. you dont stop untill like 19.
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When I first started my diet I was eating right and exercising. I lost 25 pounds. Now I'm getting tired of doing the same thing everyday and I dont know what else to do. I did cardio 2 times a day, I ran,etc. Sometimes I just dont do it anymore. I get a craving for chocolate chips and thats it. People in my house buy it and when I see it I want it, when I first started my diet I was eating on junk and only having 1200 calories,now I eat a little over 1200. And I only lost a pound last week and I was losing more than that before. I dont eat chocolate all day. I'll just get a bar of chocolate and a small bag of chips and eat one and the rest of the day the food is healthy, I wasnt doing this in the beginning. I already want something sweet everyday and I'm scared i'll gain the weight back after the diet. I cant go to the gym. I get tired of doing the same exercise and eating the same,what can I do?
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if you crave something have a little... but dont have alot. i get chocolate cravings too. it is all about moderations. try eating natural sugars like fruit to take away the craving.
go somewhere and run.. when i get bored i go places take my bike somewhere.. you need to keep changing it up. but its all about control!
and congrats on losing 25 pounds!
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its too hot to run outside, but i train for cross country . what swimming exercises can i do to build up my endurance? i try to run 2.5 - 3 miles everyday but i havent the last 3 days AT ALL cause its just too hot. (link)
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i live in fl.. and I UNDERSTAND!! i guess you can do laps.. but i run at 6 am or 8 pm.. other
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that's what my friends call blood clot. because it looks like strawberry jam. no, but seriously i get it sometimes. but how is it caused and why? does it have anything to do with using tampons ('cause i use them-)? i am 13, usually every time i bleed i get that strawberry jam. is this normal? (link)
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yes... think about what your period is... i mean really skin or "lining" comes out.
tampons-- they have no wear to go.. so it just sits on there i guess
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ok my stepdad is a personal jackass! i mean really! My mom loves him..dont know why. But my brother and I hate him ,more me. I mean his way his way or no way! Like I had my music on and cause hes going to be he said to turn it down, it was so quiet! I could barely hear it! SO i said no, and whats he do without knocking hes rams in my room and tells me to turn it down! Ok what if i were changing or some. And when your mad He makes fun of you, and that just gets u pissed! His family is sweet and awesome but him NOT WHAT SO EVER! What do you think i should do :( (link)
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try to get along.
dont talk back because it is rude. but try to reason with him instead.
there is nothing that you can do but make the best of it
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I'm a girl and 14 almost 15.I have liked this guy for a really long time.For the past few days we have been talking non-stop.He told me that he really really likes me and that he wants to be with me forever.I want to be with him forever to and i love him and he knows that i do but he has a girlfriend.He doesn't want to be with her so he can be with me but he doesn't want to break up with her.what do i do??? (link)
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if he wanted to be with you he would have broken up with her.
stop talking to him untill he is single
how would you feel if you were dating him and he was talking to some girl like YOU and saying that.
just keep that in mind.
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i went to a restaurant n sat on d toilet seat .,, it was a bit wet so i really sccared will i get preganant? (link)
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no, but you might get crabs
:-)
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