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My girlfriend was crying when we had sex ?
We had sex last night and she started crying. What can I do to comfort her ?
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find out why she was crying. if it was just emotions comfort her with kisses and stuff but if it was painful take it easier and make sure there's enough foreplay so shes ready ya know downstairs. :) hope i helped
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Hey,
It depends why she was crying. If she was crying because she was sad/uncomfortable: talk to her, kiss her, hug her, say it's okay and you will always be there for her and/or say you love her. OR if she was crying because she was in pain: let her know you will take it easier next time and find out what would make it more enjoyable.
I believe communication with her is needed here. She could of been crying because she had feelings of regret too or maybe she just wasn't ready. Since I do not know if this was your first time, if you two are real close or how long you have been dating: it is hard to know why she would react this way. Just talk to her, tell her you want to be there for her, support her and be sure to listen. She will soon start to feel better and you two will work this out. I know kisses, hugs and cuddling makes me feel better; share those <3
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Why was she crying? Was she in pain?
All I can advise is to take it as slow as you can and if she wants you to stop, than stop. Don't push it. Also, if sex is painful, it might be best to try lube - that way it'll help.. I know it can be extremely painful to have sex sometimes if I don't have lube, so much so that I almost start crying! Other than that just ask her if she's OK and if she wants you to stop, if she wants you to stop than just cuddle her. I hope it gets easier for you both!
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