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normal sex life?
My boyfriend and I are both 17. I lost my virginity to him not too long ago and we've been having sex for about 3 months. We have sex A LOT. With protection of course! Well I think it's a lot but we both have really high sex drives. I enjoy all of it and never feel pressured into doing it. This past week we've had sex 9 times in 7 days. That's about average. The first time I slept over at his house we had sex once at 3am, again at 7am and again at 9. We went on vacation together recently and made it our mission to have sex all over the rental house. We did it 6 times within 3 and a half days. We're not even kinky people we just do it a lot! We've been walked in on by friends a lot who all have the comment "you two f*** like bunnies". He always tells me that he can't believe he found a girl who has the sex drive of a guy yet still looks so innocent. He doesn't even have to do anything to turn me on, he can be covered in dirt working on a car and I'll think about how much I love him and it just makes me want him so bad and I know its the same for him. We do other stuff too like go fishing,movies,out to dinner,cooking at home,shopping,go for drives/walks,party...its just that we always find time for sex somewhere in the day. We'll both be going away to college in the fall and don't know how we'll deal with being apart. Neither of us would ever cheat but it's going to be hard.
But is this much sex really normal for a teen couple? We've talked to another couple that we're friends with about this but they said they were only like this when they first started having sex and they've slowed down a lot now.
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I've met very few guys who respond badly to their girlfriends wanting sex constantly. I feel very sorry for those guys. Go with it.
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Yeah, I definitely agree with the first person and you!
When I first got with my boyfriend we would literally have sex AT LEAST two times a day ( this was in the summer too ). Then we both started working and we would only be able to have sex like 4 times a week, and it was pretty hard to cope with at first but it was fine. Then we both went away for college and saw each other only two or three times a month, of course we'd have sex - but sex felt a lot more special everytime we were together just because it was so rare.
It's COMPLETELY normal and there's nothing wrong with having a lot of sex! :)
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Its perfectly normal. Its new to you guys so theres no shame in wanting to experience it all the time. It is true that it might kind of become "old" to you guys but it also may not. Its different for everyone. But dont even worry about it everyone is different and has different sex drives. At least you guys are the same way about it and its not like one of you has a very high sex drive and the other does not. But good for the both of you! Just make sure your using protection.
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Sometimes a couple will have sex a lot towards the beginning of the relationship. A lot of them start to slow down after a while. But, some couples, if they really love each other and have the sex drive will continue like this for much longer.
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