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the big L word
how long does it take for a guy to say he loves you when you know he truly cares for you?
The first time I fell in love I told the guy I loved him after a month, I was also 14 and probably didn't know what love was. But the point is he got freaked out.
Now with my current boyfriend we've been dating for a month and a half and he is the most classy respectful guy I have ever met. I didn't even knew they existed in this decade. Flowers, candles, cooks for me..the whole 9 yards. He's told me how crazy he is for me and he told me that he could picture being with me for life. His best friend is my best friend's boyfriend and even he says that he's never seen him like this before.
I know people don't fall in love overnight and we're not the type of couple who date for a week and start saying things like "I love you, you're my everything, I can't live without you"
anyway..so I was just wondering. How long did it take your guy to say it..and mean it?
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for my guy to actually mean it and me too it was almost 2 to 3 months. it just depends how you guys are doing. and obviously you are. so just wait a little. he might just want it to be special and he doesn't want to say it unless he's a 100% sure. 6 weeks might not be enough for him. and hes still shoing how much he mean to him though so its not too bad :]
good luck.
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If you believe he is crazy for you, why, after six weeks of dating, is it so important for you to hear him say he loves you. I think you're putting too much importance on it. Love is commitment, self-sacrifice, unconditional acceptance, support, passion, et cetera, et cetera. The word, in and of itself, is immaterial. If you feel his love, that is much deeper than hearing him say it. Now if you had been married for years and he never says it, we would be having a very different conversation. Please just be patient and let him tell you when he's ready. That way it will be from his heart and not from his head.
Dr. Chad
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Depends on the guy, I think he is telling you he loves you through what he does...he is just not ready to openly admit that he has more of a soft, squishy side to him that he never thought he had. He will tell you when he is ready and it might freak him out or he may feel very relieved he got it off his chest! Just be happy with where you two are in the now and don't pressure him into saying it. =]
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