Name is Rebecca. I live in the great ATL. People always seem to come to me for advice and I have not figured out why yet, so I decided to give this a shot. Be warned, if you ask a question, I will and only will give the honest truth. The truth may hurt like hell.
Voltaire (french philosopher) once said:
One of the chief misfortunes of honest people is that they are cowardly.
Gender: Female
Location: Oklahoma but live in Georgia
Occupation: school/looking for full time job
Age: 22
Member Since: March 25, 2009
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In our biology class we're studying crayfish and their environments. I fell in love with my little guy and would love to bring him home. Since spring break is approaching and we're almost done with our section, I thought I'd ask if I could take mine home. When I asked my teacher said that there were laws that probhibited students from taking classroom-use animals out of the classroom. This is strange because I've taken home hermit crabs, anoles, and lots of other animals. When I asked what he was going to do with the crayfish he replied, "What do you think I'm going to do? I'm going to eat them." I've looked all over the internet to find laws and rulings on this subject, but can't seem to find any! Please help me look! Or, if you know of anyone or if you yourself has experience in this area please reply! I NEED to save my little friend from boiling water and butter. We both appreciate any advice that comes this way. (link)
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Hell, if you care about him that much..just take him home. Have one of your friends distract your teacher and sneak out of there.
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I am a very clueless non-athletic girl who would like to learn more about sports. Any sites that could explain things in a way i could understand? (link)
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What sports interest you? Ask yourself this first. Then...we will go from there. :)
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well i haven't done this recently, but i'd go on porn websites and stuff, and get porn from limewire and whatever.
and my mom said that she might just start taking our computers in to check for that stuff, so is there any way i can delete all of it somehow??
i have a mac if that does anything.
please let there be a way!
because i was just being stupid when i went there.
oh man.
and this is a new laptop and...i dunno.
it doesn't really get pop ups so i can't blame it on that.
ugh. oh my god.
what can i do. (link)
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Reformat it. This will not get rid of the porn completely but people who know about computers can find old files that were reformatted on the hard drive. Since, porn is very tricky where it hides stuff...reformatting will not do it alone. You will need a shredder software. Good luck!
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k theres this guy lets call him eric, and were like bff's but 2 days ago he said he loved me more than a friend &&i reacted badly and told me ididnt see him that way && a day later he started dating anotehr chick and tells her he loves her but never tells me he loves her is it just me or dusnt this make sense ?? is he just somneone to avoid b/c he tells people he loves them regardless or is he doing it to get over me? idk. help.plz! x0x (link)
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He is trying to make you jealous. Just be happy for them and stay his friend.
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My hair is constantly falling out. I'm pretty sure its due to stress even though I feel i've been alot less stress then usualy. It used to not be so bad but it keeps getting worse. The problem is my agency wants me to grow my hair out long but its physicaly impossible cause my hairs falling out and just getting shorter. What can I do to strangthen my hair and stop it from falling out!! please help (link)
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Hair is derived on protein, one of the last signs of having a lack of protein is losing your hair. Eat more protein.
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Ok.. so lately I have been feeling lightheaded a lot and like I'm going to pass out.. I'm also dizzy when I like lift my head up and standing up.. What could this be?/ And how could I fix it? I hate feeling like this.. (link)
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I am not a doctor, but for me when I would get up everything would go black and I would feel like I would pass out. I went to go get my levels checked and everything was perfect or above perfect except for my iron. Which was just little above normal. I am now on iron pills and the dizziness has stopped and I can go on with my life without the dizziness. Are you getting enough food in you? You body could be trying to find nutrients that your body is not getting. Try eating leafy greens (raw spinach is a good example), get plenty of water, and go see a doctor and get your levels checked to see if your body is lacking or low on anything.
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im trying to lose 10 pounds
so for the past 3 weeks ive been working out reallllllly hard and eating well and whatever. anyways over the weekend my friends were in town and so of course we ate out at like every meal whatevvv so i felt really bad and fat after that. so after they left i got back on track and for the last 4 days ive been doing really well but tonight i ended up binging. well i felt like shit ive been doing all this hard work for me to just binge again? and i made myself throw up for like 30 minutes. i never want to do this again! i feel bad that i even did it. i dont have a eating disorder. but i was just curious how do you know when all your food is out of your stomach? cause after awhile iwas just puking up little bits of brown and i just wanted to make sure i wasnt puking up my stomach or anything?? (link)
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This is a big HELL NO! You need to binge, it is good for the body and for your soul. Making yourself throw because "you feel guilty" will cause a lot of problems and soon you will be wrapped up into punishing yourself that way. Just work out harder the next day and compensate what you ate the night before. Bulimia is something not to be messed with and it can/will cause severe physical, mental and emotional problems. I will not answer how you can tell there is no food in your stomach, you would know if there is no more food left in your stomach. Do NOT get wrapped up into that Bulimia crap, it will only hurt you in the long run. As I said once before, it is okay to binge once in awhile, it is good to. Just work out extra hard the next day to compensate what you ate the night or day before.
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Background Info: Ok soo the last time I had sex was begining of febuary. I got my period like 3 days after that and it was a normal period. Thenn in march my period was very late && when i got it It didnt even last two days and was very light which has never happend. Usualy my period last 4-5 days, stops for a day and then comes back for one more day. I had a pregnancy test about 2 days before my period in march and it was negative. My overies are tender and i think my breasts might be a bit tender also.
Question: Could I possibly be pregnant if not what could be wrong?
I want to make sure Im not pregnant because I just got put on a medication and it strictly says DO NOT USE IF PREGNANT!
anyyy thoughts or ideas? (link)
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Over the counter pregnancy test are sometimes flawed, not always as accurate than those at hospital. Try going to a hospital to see if you are pregnant, if you are ask your doctor if there is a medication like the one you are currently taking that is suitable for women who are pregnant. Chances are, you are not pregant due to the fact you had a normal period 3 days after you had sex and you shed the egg. Your body could just be going through hormonal changes. But, go to a clinic and get a pregnacy test done, this will be a sure way of knowing if you are pregnant or not before getting it checked out by a OBGYN.
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my boyfriend thinks its hot when i call him daddy, but i feel wierd calling him that, but i want to cause he likes it, how do i get over it and jus be able to?? lol (link)
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Try changing it up a bit! Like instead of "daddy", call him Big Papa, Big Daddy, Papi (if you aren't Hispanic) and other words that can go with daddy
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I've been at my job for over 2 years and I know everyone very well. Recently, we got some new people and one of them is a real nice guy. Now, everyone tells me he likes me and he flirts with me alot. The thing is, he's cute and sweet but I'm not exactly sure if I like him or if I even want to get involved with a co-worker. How should I handle this? What should I say if he asks me out or asks me if I feel the same way? I'm not quite sure how I feel yet, it all came up quickly. (link)
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Be honest and upfront with him IF AND ONLY IF he asks! No harm in being honest. If he asks, hell just make it a group thing, invite other co-workers also. Most corporation have a dating policy where you cannot date other people in your career because it can effect the good for the company and your decision making when it comes to important matters. Just thank him for the nice gesture, that it has flattered you and hope that this doesn't change your relationship as co-workers.
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how long does it take for a guy to say he loves you when you know he truly cares for you?
The first time I fell in love I told the guy I loved him after a month, I was also 14 and probably didn't know what love was. But the point is he got freaked out.
Now with my current boyfriend we've been dating for a month and a half and he is the most classy respectful guy I have ever met. I didn't even knew they existed in this decade. Flowers, candles, cooks for me..the whole 9 yards. He's told me how crazy he is for me and he told me that he could picture being with me for life. His best friend is my best friend's boyfriend and even he says that he's never seen him like this before.
I know people don't fall in love overnight and we're not the type of couple who date for a week and start saying things like "I love you, you're my everything, I can't live without you"
anyway..so I was just wondering. How long did it take your guy to say it..and mean it? (link)
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Depends on the guy, I think he is telling you he loves you through what he does...he is just not ready to openly admit that he has more of a soft, squishy side to him that he never thought he had. He will tell you when he is ready and it might freak him out or he may feel very relieved he got it off his chest! Just be happy with where you two are in the now and don't pressure him into saying it. =]
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Okk...I had my heart broken by a guy...that I thought cared about me ...well...he didn't. I just started liking my guy friend...well he doesn't like me...he likes my friend..I think...but she's not the right girl for him...because...she doesn't really care about guys feelings...she dates them for 2 to 3 days...or maybe if the guy is lucky a week! Ok...like...I am single and I really would like a boyfriend.. um..I am a 7th grader...and NO one in my school likes me!! I absolutely don't know why. Ugg...I am really nice...I have a lot of friends and I don't judge anyone.I am fun and silly..lol I'am pretty... well...all my friends say i am all hte time so..and... well...I just don't understand. What I want to know is ...will I ever find anyone? Like..I am 13...but...still... a lot of people have boyfriends in my grade. What can I do, any tips on getting a nice guy?? All...I really want is a sweet caring...lol cute guy!! Gezz..and all those guys are taken at my school!! It's hard to find a sweetie pie...lol Please...anyone try to help!! (link)
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*sighs*
This is almost sad. You are in 7th grade, you have more than enough time to find that special someone...love yourself, be good to yourself and when you get older (16+) a guy will come and steal your heart away and you will truly know what love is. But, the older you get, the more TRUE love you will come to know and seek for.
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For about 4 years now, my vagina has had a very foul smell to the point where my boyfriend does not even want to go down there. right when i take my underwear off, i smell it. i have been to the doctors many times for this and noone can find anything wrong. no infections, nothing. i just need that miracle thing to fix this and i dont know what to do. (link)
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Odd question:
How much water are you drinking? Water is truly a order killer because it helps flush out all of the toxins in your body. Also, exercising, helps the muscles to contract and push out all the nastiness. Try drinking half a gallon of water [a day] and see if this improves.
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i cheated on my bf. he forgave me and it has been 5 months since the cheating. he is having a hard time trusting me but is doing his best. i dont want to rush him with it. but i do want him to let me hang out with my guy/girl friends, without worrying. i dont want him to let me go to parties and trust me because thats silly. how can i help him or make it easier. (link)
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I give him high credits for giving you another chance and trusting you [or attempting to trust you again]. It is hard to gain back the trust of someone you love and you, let's just put it out there as it is, stabbed them in the back. Yes, it has been 5 months, but this takes time. Call/text,invite him to tag along. If he says no, then text him and let him know what you and your friends are doing, or call him and say things like "I wish you were here". If you find yourself about to cheat again....here is an awesome tip...get the hell out of there. =)
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Here is my story. Sorry this is long, pls bear with me.
I was in a long in a 7-year relationship with my ex. He is a good man and loyal but I felt taken for granted in the relationship. After 7 years I decided to break-up. He ended up sending me txts msgs though I never replied. Two months after I met my current boyfriend. He is sweet, makes me feel so important, special and loved. We are happy together but since my current and I are both living in a country different from ours, he was sent home due to some immigration problems. He is not back until now (over a yr now) but we commucate evryday thru chat and phone. He has been doing successful business before but things has changed, now he is financially broke and his attempts to do business again always failed. Six months after I met my current boyfriend, my ex came back being more persistent, almost crying and begging to take him back. He said, he has now relaized all the mistakes he has done and he has now changed and even proposed a marriage. At first, I ignored him but as several months passed by becoz of his persistence and my confusion with my current relationship I open the communication with my ex again. I am already 30 yrs old and I want to get married soon, I don't want to play games, this situation is making me crazy. I know my ex is obviously the better choice but I feel I love and miss my current boyfriend BUT his financial situation is scaring me. I don't mean to depend on him, I have a good job and can take care of myself but I also want a husband who is financially stable and can help me build a good family financially. My ex, is a good man, financially stable, ready and available right now but my feelings for him has changed, it isnt like before. I really don't know what to do. I know the best thing is to leave them both, be by myself but I am just so scared basically of everything (of hurting any of them, of maybe realising I made a mistake and will regret my decision(if I choose the ex or current) forever , of being guilty to leave my current in his lowest, of deciding to choose one and finally realize I still love the other and be in pain of missing him, of being alone. I am petrified. I just feel sick and crazy. I sometimes really have no idea who is the one I love anymore, I don't know love and complete happiness anymore and I really dont know what to do! Help pls..Thank you!
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If you truly love your current boyfriend, you will stick by him no matter what. But, if you are looking for a man who will provide you with financial security and a family, maybe your current one isn't the one for you. You have to ask yourself this: "Why did I feel like I was being taken for granted from [ex boyfriend's name here]?" "Will I feel the same after another 7 years?" Sometimes the hardest things we need to do are the things we must do to ensure OUR OWN happiness, and sometimes you do need to be selfish and take care of yourself first. The question is...what do you want out of life and who is best to give you what you, yourself, wants?
Nothing in this life is ever easy, if it was easy...we would all be bored out of our minds.
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i have a new friend saly i met her 3-4 months ago and we got along a lot she tells me some of her secrets, but i havent told her any because i dont know if i could trust her yet and im waiting till i hang out with her, but to start out i told her about the some guys that are cute and yesterday, me and our new friend named ashley was walking to class and we saw the guy i think is cute and she says
saly:hey its james
me:i know
ashley:whos that?
saly:thats the guy she thinks he's cute, hes name is james
saly:haha remember what you told me about him? (i told her personal stuff about him)
me:oh haha yeah
saly:i cant tell you unless she tells you ashley
i know this is not a big deal but do you think she can be trusted after all? she told the other friend that i think the guy is cute and i know i dont like the guy or anything but good thing she didnt say the personal stuff i told saly to ashley because if she did i would not trust her after that what do you think about this? sorry if it sound immature im really cautious about those things i just think this might give me a clue if i could trust her with the secrets or not. thank you so much (link)
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Sounds like to me she is the type of person who will say stuff, you told her, even if she didn't mean to. I would keep a good distant on what you tell her or she may accidentally let something be said and it is all around the school/college/work force...whichever you are at.
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[14*f)
everytime i really like a quy i work so hard to qet him. he eventually starts likinq me then i stop likinq him. i know im not akward around quys because i only have like three err four chick friends then the rest are quys. i love hanqinq out with quys. its like my comfort zone. ahha. butt i dont know whats up with that. i just randomly stop likinq the quy &nd he thinks i was just tryinq to waste his time &nd stuff.
any ideas what miqht be wronq with me ? (link)
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You are 14. That is what is wrong. You should be focusing on your future and school not on who the next guy will be your boyfriend and the next week or so, you are tired of each other. I say, sure go ahead and like each other...as you get older it will become more and more clear on who and what you want. Don't worry about it now.
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Okay, so I am 17/f and I have the 4 main flirty girl dvds...I can't do just teasing because I don't have enough room in my bedroom, but I love Booty Beat. I weigh like 180 and I'm 5'8''..deff overweight and I want to lose it fast. My question is mainly, how often a week should I do this program, when I do it 3 daysin a row I feel like my arms are gonna fall off and when I only do it every other day it doesn't feel like I did anything. Also I have back problems so its hard for me to do the cat crawls...
So how often should I do booty beat? (link)
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Never heard of these videos, but your body needs rest after work outs, mostly if you just started. Instead of 3 days in a row, try to spread it out like 3 times a week [ex: Monday, Wednesday, and Friday]. As I have mentioned to everyone, you cannot lose weight as fast as you want and the problem with most people is they never have a REAL heart to mind change about losing weight. This is something you will have to continue doing for a long time for you to see the results you truly want.
Also, keep in mind, the more you do the exercises the easier it will become and the more per week or the more different exercises you can do if you are still sticking with the 3x per week. Just do NOT do it back to back if you are just starting out, good way to injure yourself.
Hope this helps.
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I'm dating this girl at my school. We're very close and such, been dating awhile, exclusive, blah blah blah.
Anyway, I go in late on some days when I don't have class, and I just found this donut place by my house. Would it be too much if I were to show up during snack at school with a donut for her? I don't want to come off as like... overly sweet I guess. So, good idea or no? (link)
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LOL! Do it!!
That would be awesome. Who doesn't love donuts, plus it would make all of the other girls jealous or all "awe" like.
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when something goes wrong between my boyfriend, M, and me, i totally lose it. i just get so depressed and pissed off and it gets on everyones nerves. the thing is, i really love him. but im so scared that if something goes wrong, ill lose him again. (he broke up with me twice before..)
im pretty sure hes sick of his high maintinance girlfriend anyways. im sick of being a naggy bitch, but i dont know what else to do. how can i talk to him about this without him thinking im totally obsessed? (link)
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stop being high maintenance. simply put.
he is with you.
he dumped you twice...figure out why...change it if you don't want to lose him. men will not keep chasing you if you keep pushing them away, they eventually get that shit out of their heads and move on and find someone new.
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