k theres this guy lets call him eric, and were like bff's but 2 days ago he said he loved me more than a friend &&i reacted badly and told me ididnt see him that way && a day later he started dating anotehr chick and tells her he loves her but never tells me he loves her is it just me or dusnt this make sense ?? is he just somneone to avoid b/c he tells people he loves them regardless or is he doing it to get over me? idk. help.plz! x0x
CueTheLights answered Tuesday March 31 2009, 7:28 pm: Hello.
I would have to say this "eric" fellow isn't really sure of his feelings right now. His head isn't on straight since you told him you did not feel the same way. I would tell you not to avoid him because that will make him feel inscure and unsafe. Eric could still love you even though he is dating some other girl. For one it could be the old jealousy act. What i would consider doing is telling him how you feel and how you are really confused of what's going on right now. He could also not be telling you because he could be thinking you don't want anything to do with him. Tell him how this is bothering you and talk it out. Talking is very important. So start with that. And then see whats going on . [ CueTheLights's advice column | Ask CueTheLights A Question ]
deathwillcome answered Tuesday March 31 2009, 2:01 pm: Either he doesn't know love as a verb but a noun, or he is trying to make you jealous. Or both. What I mean by the first is that he could possibly just say it as loosly as if he were saying he liked your shoes. This may not be the case if he is trying to make you jealous, but I have met people like this. There's nothing bad except for the fact that they really might not love you when they say it. I would stay away from him or remain very cautious of him... But the other girl the next day is a bit much. I wouldn't be surprised if he were trying to make you jealous. Hope this helped. [ deathwillcome's advice column | Ask deathwillcome A Question ]
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