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Q:
I know most people might say no, men shouldn't hit a woman back. But I think that if a woman thinks shes big enough to hit a man she should be hit back. I think that a man should only hit a woman in self defense. There are women out there that hit men when they get mad over something stupid and expect not to get hit back and sometimes they try to fight the man, while they expect him to do nothing but walk away. Im a woman and I think that if a woman hits a man she should be hit back. Just like if a man hits a woman for no reason she should hit him back. Im not saying that a woman should be beaten by a man though. Ive seen women hit men, bite scratch,threaten with a knife and chunk stuff at them. The man is supposed to sit there and take that? Most women arent as weak as people think they are.

Just wondering to see people's opinions...

If a man doesnt hit a woman back after she hits him, the next time they argue, she will try to fight and hit him, some women are vicious catty fighters..Im not saying she she get beaten

If a woman doesnt want to get hit by a man like Mike tyson, then she shouldnt hit him because shes mad, or over something stupid.

I'm a woman lol, just asking.

My cousin used to hit her ex. and he would never hit her back. the one time he did though, she never hit him again after that. Shes Grown up since then. If I was a man, I would treat her the same way as I would treat a man who comes up to me and hits me, I do not practice gender discrimination. but the point is everyone deserves to learn that lesson if theyre askin for it. Im not saying men should beat women, Im just saying she should get hit back.everyone who believes in genuine equality and responsibility should agree..
Men: if she comes up to you and hits you multiple times are you going to hit her back? cause that would be self-defense right? for someone strong like her

Women: Do you think if that woman attacked a man he has the right to hit her back?

I am going to read this after I read it because I don't even think I need to. I understand the man's point of view, and being a woman I understand that point of view as well. But here is the thing, women should NEVER be hit back. No matter what they do or even if they have no reason to hit men. The only exception is when using self defense and that is only if the man cannot stop her in some other form as in holding her back or something in that sense.

Q: how do i delete my yahoo email account?

Just log in and click on help then there is a question that says how do I close my account click on that and it gives you a link straight to the page. Hope I helped

Q: Movingg on is something I need to do!

One night I was with this other guy, I was smiling, laughing, and I was happy(: But then the radio was on and mine and my exes song came on and I started crying. This guy had no idea why I was crying so he just kept hugging me asking me what's wrong, and I told him I wasn't ready to move on and I'm sorry. So he left. He started dating one of my old friends, and Me? I was stuck on the ex. Me and that girl became friends again because we talked about our problems. Now theyy aren't together anymore but she's in love with him, and I'm finally ready to move on! and I feel like he's the only guy I could move on withh! What should I do?

Well, moving on can be really really difficult. You need to tell this guy how you feel. Explain to him that you needed time to move on but explain to him that you are ready for that and you that you want to be with him and that it wasn't that you didn't want to be with him you just needed a little more time. If he can't accept that then he really wouldn't be worth it. Everyone needs their own time to move on. If you know you are ready then you are ready. Just go for it! Hope I helped.

Q: Okay well I recently just got dumped by my bf about a few months ago. There's this other guy that came into the picture and we both like each other. BUT he's not wanting a relationship right now and to be perfectly honest I'm not really right now either. We slept together once. I talked to him about his intention tonight and he told me that I'm not just a girl he wants to use and dump on the side of the tracks but like I said he's not wanting a relationship. I was a tad bit disappointed in. Hearing this so all I said was alright. I would eventually like a relationship maybe if hed be willing to but right now I'm willing to. Just be fuck buddies for right now. I think he got the impression that we couldn't be that anymore either. What do I say to him the next time I talk to him to let him know that its alright.

Just tell him that you would like to spend time with him and continue seeing him a bit more intimately even if you two aren't in a relationship right now. Then, if he doesn't get it, you can always just make a move next time to push the hint a little farther. I was in that type of relationship to for a while, it really isn't too hard to just hint with actions and words. Or you can straight up tell him. That would be a good idea, but it is a little harsh of a subject to tell you. You have to decide judging on how he is. Hope I helped.

Q: how do you pleasure yourself word by word in the shower. i have never tried but i want to but i dont know how...

Let's see if I can word this correctly so that it makes sense, and of coarse I want to know how I help. Every girl has different turn on's and different ways it will help. I actually found that using the faucet is much more pleasure than the actual shower head. If you want to try the shower head, use the jets and make sure they are gentle, you don't have to stand, you actually can stand if you want I have stood and lied in tub - if you have that kind of shower, that is. Being a girl - I'm guessing you are - you should know what and where your clit is. Make it so that one of the jets or the jet hits your clit. You won't won't want it too hot, but I tend to like it warm. If you use the faucet then you can just lie down and position yourself so that your clit gets hit by the stream and if it feels good that it is working. I don't quite know if that is what you wanted, but I hope it helped a bit. thanks for asking me. Let me know if you have any other questions. and sorry it took me so long to respond.

Q: 16/F

is it normal for a 16 year old girl to have some gray hair? I was looking through my hair and found strands of gray hair ...I don't think its genetic because my mother started getting gray hair when she was 25 ..why am I getting gray hair at 16?? Is there any reason as to why and how to stop it?

What color hair do you have? If it's blonde, it could look grey, and if brunette, It could be stress. When parents say that stress causes it, it's true. To get rid of them you will just have to dye them or pull them out. The earlier may be a bit less unpleasant. Good luck. Hope that helped, at least, a little.

Q: k theres this guy lets call him eric, and were like bff's but 2 days ago he said he loved me more than a friend &&i reacted badly and told me ididnt see him that way && a day later he started dating anotehr chick and tells her he loves her but never tells me he loves her is it just me or dusnt this make sense ?? is he just somneone to avoid b/c he tells people he loves them regardless or is he doing it to get over me? idk. help.plz! x0x

Either he doesn't know love as a verb but a noun, or he is trying to make you jealous. Or both. What I mean by the first is that he could possibly just say it as loosly as if he were saying he liked your shoes. This may not be the case if he is trying to make you jealous, but I have met people like this. There's nothing bad except for the fact that they really might not love you when they say it. I would stay away from him or remain very cautious of him... But the other girl the next day is a bit much. I wouldn't be surprised if he were trying to make you jealous. Hope this helped.

Q: hey, it's me, the girl who you answered to about the question regarding the eating disorders. a lot of people have this problem in their early teenage years, but for me, it started pretty late. it started my senior year in high school, well, the summer that i was going into 12th grade. but, i guess everyone is different, and it just happened to me at that time. i have realized why it happened to me. i think that there were a lot of issues, but now, everything is getting sort of back on track, but there is still some remains of it. i just want to get rid of it for good. i was in this phase at the beginning of it, where i would always just pick the healthy option, and that's good, because that's not really a diet, that's a lifestyle change. like, would order brown rice instead of white, stuff like that. or i'd order the grilled chicken instead of the fried chicken. i had a personal trainer then. but, when i stopped working out with the personal trainer, because they are expensive, and i pretty much knew the routine already, i started becoming really, rally obsessive about calorie counting. i started eating no more than 600 calories a day and i would count the entire day to make sure that i didn't go past my limit. then, i would go to the gym for like two hours. i felt so sick, you could not imagine. well, you probably could if you've been there before. it felt like i was living on a cloud. it was horrible. i didn't know left from right, i wouldn't pay attention in class, and everything just started falling apart, all because i was malnutritioned. i always said it would never happen that i would get out of that little circle, because if i went one calorie over, i would cry. i went to go see a therapist, but she didn't help much because she was just a bad therapist. but, it was as if my obsession was taking over my life. but, i didn't care, as long as i saw bones. it's a sick thing, but only people who have been there would understand. until one day, i couldn't take it anymore. i started eating everything i could find. it's not like it was a sugar attack or like i went to mcdonalds and got a burger with fries and a shake. it was a full out binge, with no sequence. i ate everything from chips, ice cream, to the tuna salad left overs in the fridge. they warned me it would happen, but i didn't believe them. i felt SO sick. it was absolutely the most disgusting thing i had ever done in my entire life. i did the only thing i thought of. i went to the gym and ran until the treadmill said i burned 2000 calories and i then i threw up. i felt so bad. but, then, i started doing it more often. i would binge, and then not eat for two days. i promised myself that after the two days, i would eat normal, but then, because my body was so deprived, it didn't end up happening that way. it was like a vicious cycle. do you have any advice for me on how to break this cycle for good? how to just let it go forever? thank you in advance.

No need to thank in advance, lol. Ok... So, I have sorta been there. Not as serious as you have. But I hope I can help. What you started out with was great, you're right. Now, what to do, is find a way to go back into that. Most people try to just start eating again. But you have to have smaller goals. Now, I can't really give you the best answer because I'm not a therapist or doctor. I would go to a doctor. They can help you better than anyone. Just find the restraint to have only a few bites of something, or not to continue to the chips. I go long periods without eating, then go into feeling like I can't stop when I do eat... after eating something, small are larger, STOP. Just make yourself. Give yourself a chore or something you have to do after you eat and then do it. Make yourself do it. Make it a habbit, everytime you eat, to have something to do to force you to leave the food and get your mind off of it. Scheduals and reaccurances make it easier. That goes with anything when it comes to your body... Form a habbit. I hope it helped, what I said. If it didn't or I still didn't answer a question you have, let me know. I will do my best to help. This is a really hard thing to get over. Don't give up when you get frustrated.

Q: well i dont know what your problem is kid.
You need to calm yourself down & make an appointment with me. Cause you need a therepist to discuss your problems with.

I do go to a therapist...

Q: whaaatever kid.
Well at least im not the one with the issues.

sounds like you might be

Q: f/16
I think I'm a lesbian and I'm not too sure of how I should break it to my family and friends. Lets be honest I'm petrified. Not too worried about my family but my friends I'm very scared about telling, considering most of them are girls and will probably be scared away from me. Can someone please give me some advice on how I should break the news without all my friends running a mile. I need to get it out soon or I think I might just die with worry.

Let your family know, yes... and possibly your very close friends. But I don't believe that all your friends need to know. It isn't that big of a deal and if they are your true friends they will accept you no matter who you like... so if you tell them and they run, they aren't worth your time. I hope this helps... and good luck... It may not be that big of a deal, but it's big enough...

Q: Alright, so I'm pretty good friends with this dude. We have a lot of the same interests, yet lots of differences, of course. lol, it seems we share some of the same problems, too. But, anyways, I really like him as more than a friend, yet he ticks me off endlessly. He can even be a jerk sometimes, but I can, too. Yet, for some reason, I still like him.

He asked me if I wanted to hook up with him a few weeks back, but nothing has really happened, and he said to keep it on the lowdown. But what really ticks me off is how he has all of these pet names for his other friends that are girls and treats them, well, like a guy would treat a girl, I guess. (flirting and whatnot) and yeah, I get jealous sometimes, but I don't say anything, of course.

What I'm trying to say is that I don't want him to view me as just a friend. I don't want to be by his side just to talk about music, books, the problems within the world and whatnot, and I don't like it when he randomly brings up other girls in a conversation we're having and calls them by their pet name.

What should I do?

Let him know that you like him and you want it to be something a little more. Tell him that you don't want to talk about other girls because it makes you jealous. If he can't face that, he isn't worth your time. Hope this helped, and don't be afraid to stand for what you want.

Q: I was just wondering why people ask questions about their boyfriends and other innapropriate things that no one needs to be talking about. Doesn't anyone agree with me?

I disagree, this is a place where you don't have to state your name and you can ask the questions that might be too embarassing to ask out loud. They ask the inapropriate things becaise they need help.

Q: Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year now and i thought everything was going pretty good, but latley he has been acting really weird, almost like he doesnt want to be around me, and its really starting to bug me. I mean i love this kid with all my heart and i honestly dont want to lose him does anyone have advice?? i mean i dont know if he likes someone else,or if he is just losing interest. What should i do??? Thanks =]

Talk to him. Tell him how you feel. He might not even realize he is doing that. If you tell him how you feel he can either tell you what's going on, deny it and be full of crap to the point where you can probably tell and call him on it, or apologize and possibly get better. You never know until you try. I hope it works and that you two work out.

Q: So I m 15 almost 16 and pregnant, my baby is due in late October early November. My boyfriend and I would like to stay together and raise our baby, and do the best we can we know it will be hard but we are up to it. He is a senior and graduating and taking over his dads company so money isn't an issue.

My parents are the issue, they don't like my boyfriend and think that if I have this baby and keep it then I will hand it off to them to raise. They want me to put the baby up for adoption. I think this would be very hard and I think I would regret it. What should I do? Im very confused on what I should do I don't know if I should just give the baby up for adoption or try to talk to my parents more about keeping it.

My parents always have said and still say that I am a smart enough girl to do anything I want and put my mind to but if I say I want to raise my baby and keep it they say i can't? Why are they going against what they have always said?

Also is there any way to get this pregnancy off my mind? I feel like everything I do I start thinking about the arguments at home and just being pregnant it keeps distracting me when Im at school and work and even when Im at home trying to fall asleep my mind just keeps wandering...

Sorry its long but just need help.

About what your parents say, they aren't saying that you aren't smart enough necessarily, just that you are still young and that you can't really take care of a baby and go to school and hold down a job without having to have someone take care of it, and they don't want to be that person. They want to keep their lives. It isn't that they don't care or that they don't love you or the baby if you have it, but they want you to be able to live your life, and they already raised you, raising another child isn't on their list of things to do. They can't make you adopt the baby out, it is up to you, but you can't just keep it because you want to. How often will you be home, be able to take care of the baby? How much attention and love will you be able to give it? If you can't give the baby a happy home and family, keeping it may not be the smartest choice. Another thing, your boyfriend may have money, but you are still too young to marry him or move out with him, unless you have parent concent. So that WOULD be up to them.

As for getting the pregnancy out of your mind, I'm sorry to say that you probably can't. This is a big deal and it isn't something that should leave your mind. Responsibily for another life can do that for you... I hope that I helped... the best of luck to you and your boyfriend. I hope everything works out.

Q: I have an eating disorder. I've had it for almost a year, like maybe 9-11 months. But I'm really really scared that I'm never going to be normal again. I need to speak with someone who has been in this position before. If you have been and u would be so kind as to supply me wit some words or information, I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you.

Why don't you drop a question in my inbox and I'll answer you this weekend... I've had some experience, and I would like to hear more and try to help.

Q: ok i like this guy but i dont know how to tell him..i mean i talk to him should i tell him that i like him?

That would be the easy way, yes. Just tell him that you have feelings for him and just keep it simple. Telling the truth is usually the best choice... Hope you have good luck with him.

Q: hi,
i have t-mobile, and i was just wondering if my parents could see the content of my text messages. Would they have to contact t-mobile? Or be able to see them online?

please&thank you

That is a negative. It is illegal for the mobal companies to have to information of the texts. They monotor them sometimes for government safety, but not your parents. I have the same problem. Hope this helped.

Q: so theres this kid he calls me cute/ hot &stuff and invited me to go away w/ him in the summer and he sends me "

It sounds like an obvious 'Yes', keep it up, he sounds like a nice guy. Hope you two are happy...

Q: I'm going to be flying overseas soon and I was wondering about the things I can take on the airplane. I know there are strict carry-on policies now and I don't want to be embarrassed.

Can someone direct me to a site that shows me what is acceptable as carry-on material when flying?

Specifically, can someone tell me if these (below) are acceptable to carry on?:

-Nintendo DS Lite
-Nintendo DS charger
-A couple of Nintendo DS games (Fire Emblem, Pokemon, Kirby Super Star Ultra, Animal Crossing: Wild World, Mario Party)
-battery charger
-digital camera
-adapter
-8GB iPod Touch

Thankssss

All of those are acceptable and a sight you could go to would just be an airport or airplane website... they all have the same lists of things that you can't take on... it's pretty much no liquids, no pastes, nothing even remotely sharp... Hope that helped. Have fun on your trip.

bio

Ok, so I haven't been on in a while and I'm just starting to get back to where I can give advice again. I had a rough spot there and I just couldn't give advice without seeming rude, so I decided to take a break. My real name is Shannon and I live in Utah. I am 15 and I love animals and friends. I love to act and know a bit about those kinds of things. I would love to help you out and hope that I can. But there is one thing, you have to ask a question for me to answer! Just kidding. Hope you have a great day!