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Okay well I recently just got dumped by my bf about a few months ago. There's this other guy that came into the picture and we both like each other. BUT he's not wanting a relationship right now and to be perfectly honest I'm not really right now either. We slept together once. I talked to him about his intention tonight and he told me that I'm not just a girl he wants to use and dump on the side of the tracks but like I said he's not wanting a relationship. I was a tad bit disappointed in. Hearing this so all I said was alright. I would eventually like a relationship maybe if hed be willing to but right now I'm willing to. Just be fuck buddies for right now. I think he got the impression that we couldn't be that anymore either. What do I say to him the next time I talk to him to let him know that its alright.
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Well... how long do you know this guy for? You need to set your standards , I mean if you haven't met him for a long time , then you should find out more about him because i'm sure you don't want to get hurt. But , have you ever talked to him about why he doesn't want a relationship? Just stay close to him and see what happens eventually right? But , when you talk to him next time , show him sit him down and say your up for it , I still want to be , we can work it out , say that you know he is thinking wrong and just go on with what you actually feel and like what tell him that your okay with doing that and you want to do it yourself not for him , but for you too. My advice to you is definatley tell him that your up for it , be calm when you say it , talk to him about it.
Good luck girl : )
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Just tell him that you would like to spend time with him and continue seeing him a bit more intimately even if you two aren't in a relationship right now. Then, if he doesn't get it, you can always just make a move next time to push the hint a little farther. I was in that type of relationship to for a while, it really isn't too hard to just hint with actions and words. Or you can straight up tell him. That would be a good idea, but it is a little harsh of a subject to tell you. You have to decide judging on how he is. Hope I helped.
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if i were you i would call him and be like i think you got me wrong last time we talked. i dont want a realationship right now eiather because im not ready yet. but i was just wondering at that moment what you were feeling. and i just wanted some sort of direction where this could be going some day. i felt something that made me wonder if this was more but it doesnt mean im not okat with what we are now. im totally fine with just being this. i just can see myself wanting more eventully.
xoxo
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