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A few days ago I had a dream that my mom died.
And now i'm really scared, because I have a feeling something really bad is going to happen. But it's just a dream, right? I honestly don't know why i'm so scared, but I am.
What do dreams of death mean? (link)
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dreams could mean anything. it doesnt mean it will happen but it doesnt mean it wont. its all in your mind we have no controll over our dreams or nightmares. death could mean a lot like signs or other things but it could just be a bad nightmare. dont base reality of potential things you see in your sleep, theres not a right answer
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hey so i've liked this boy for a while now, about a year or so and like a few months ago we werent really talking and i saw him at this place my friends and i hang out, at first we were both kind of ignoring the fact that we left things off badly and so i wanted to make him jealous so i was with this other guy well he does the same thing except with my friend and now i think he likes my friend but i still have feelings for him and i feel bad because i think my friend feels like its her fault but when we are with him she is always super flirtatious and stuff i just dont know what to do ... is it eaiser just to forget about him or should i fight for him ... HELP (link)
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you're friend isnt a true friend if shes flirty around him. if she was really your good friend she should just know thats completly off limits, and if she doesnt tell her so at least you can see if she changes anything. if she doesnt thats not what bestfriends do. shell most likly use the excuse of you didnt tell me like i didnt see it or deny it all that she would never do that and your overreacting. you cant help what you feel so you might as well say something. you shouldnt have to make a guy jealouse to see if things work out because that just leads to missed messages and anger and everyone gets hurt. talk to the guy see where things are if there going anywhere or not but before make sure you know what you want to get out of the conversation eiather closure and possibly a friendship or maybe itll go better then you think
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i have a dog and i need advice becuase i think its cloning itself in my closet. i dont know what to do becuase i keep finding the same dog all over my house. what should i do? (link)
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uh - oh ! better call da copz!! saftey purposes....
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when you go in for birth control pills?
I'm going in to get birth control pills tomorrow because I've been on my period for a month (i have really irregular periods)
I'm 18 and I've been depressed for about 4 years now, ever since my grandma passed away who was more like a mother to me.
In the past 4 years I've gained 50-70 pounds, my sophomore year I told the school that I was considering suicide and they called my mom...both of my parents thought I was being dramatic and just looking for attention. That all blew over within a week. Before this I was overdosing on cough syrup to get high with a friend since we didn't have any kind of connections to get any real drugs. I almost died because I took too much. My parents never found out about that. I got caught shoplifting when I was 16 during my junior year of high school. I didn't graduate. I was supposed to last may but didn't have enough credits because I skipped too much. Now im not doing my alternative school because I have no motivation to go
My parents really don't care at all. All of this has happened and they never once said anything to me, other than get mad and yell..then time passed and they never really cared. I'm so alone. I have no friends, no nothing. I'm just sad all the time.
Oh god. Okay, i know that was a lot of pointless info but i couldn't stop typing..
My main question is do i tell my nurse that im depressed tomorrow when i go in for the pills? or is it not her problem? I don't want to bring it up if there's nothing she can do or if that's not who i should talk to about it. (link)
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i dont really know how to respond to this. its soo sad. your letting your whole life pass you by. maybe your parents dont care, but you yourself should want to be better. nobody can make you want to be a good person,, you got to do it on your own. ive been depressed throughout the whole year and it can be the darkest parts. to the point where you just dont want to get up in the morning and nothing can pick you up cause your always down. the thing is lifes to short. and one day your gunna realize its not worth it. i bet you are a amazing person your just drowned in all this pain. do it for your grandmother. i bet shes watching down on your right now wishing she was here to guide you threw all this confusion. you got to stay strong and be the best person you can be. youll regret it one day. suicide isnt that answer, you can get through this. find something in your life that will make it through. everyday just find something. remember you could be starving in africa dying of aids or homless on the streets. whenever your feeling sad remember theres always someone out there thats going through something just as hard. but they make it through the day and if they can you can. you can do it.
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my friend likes Jannet McCurdy songs and he wants to know if other guys like her music? (link)
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ok at school i stole an ipod and sold it to a mate then the original owner of the ipod found and and got the school inovled. now every one hates me.
so stuff got really hard
i ran away and am now living at my mums
i have been moving between homes (mum and dads) a couple of times, changing schools and so on.
mum isnt a mother shes never home. but shell keep me on path and we get on.
dads is a family home although he can be vilent and controlling.
what should i do?
how do i deal with this mess?
if u were me were would u pick to live im so confussed and just need advice (link)
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first, i would try to make peace with your old school. troubles always follow. appologize and regret thats all you can do. but dont spend to much time in the pass cause unfourtunetly you cant erase what you did so theres not much of a point being miserable about it. i would stay at your moms, just cause you said your dad can be violent and controlling and thats way worse then shes not home much. lonliness is better then being hurt. once your 18 you can go away forever and find somone that will take the lonley away from you, physcial scars wont go away. you cant take those back. good comes out of every bad situation youll get through this. just try to make the best personal and safe descion for you so you dont get hurt. it will be okay
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i am a father of a 3 year old son .
my sonlives in london and imnot allowed any contact with him, unless it is at a contact centre for 2 hours only .
can you help me (link)
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go to court. get help. you can see your son if you want to it will just take some effort. dont go to london because then the mother of your son will just get more mad and frustrated. try to make it as simple and less drama as possible for her because as on tv, sometimes court just makes them more mad. before you go to court though you should try talking to her one more time and reasonable as you can so you guys can make it easier on the two of you. if you cant go to court so you will leagally be able to see him. still try to keep peace and be nice remember she was the reason you got the gift of your son. i hope everything works out for you and your son.
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I'm grounded for the whole summer....im always in my room im not aloud out only to use the bathroom and eat....what r some things i can do in my room...p.s i have no tv and im not aloud to see my friends and the only reason why im on the computer now is cuz im at work! HELP! (link)
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wait thats awful. i would survive. what did you do to deserve that heavy punishment?! i would get some books or friendship braclet thread try to get out of being grounded by doing chores or something to get you out of the room! hope everything works out and your okay.
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basically i know my dads cheating. i dont think reallty that is with one women, i think its prostitutes. im 18.. ive known about this for years, but this year its hit me hard. My moom has no clue, and works nights. Basically, i believe he might be doing this becasue he doesnt feel loved from us, since me and my brother hardly talk to him, my brothers away at college, and my mom works nights, while he works days. It kills me to the deepest part in my heart, and knowing that i am the only one who is holding this secret is killing me knowing my dads a lie and i have to hold a secret from my mom. I cant tell her because i have the strongest feeling in the whole world that he would hurt himself or kill himself. my parents are almost 50, and i just dont think i could possibly stand seeing them go through a divorce.
my biggest dilema is should i say something, but if i tell my dad our relationship would go further down the drain, because i have no relationship at all. it kills me to know that someone i used to be soooooooo close to is now just a lie in my life and could possibly feel not loved, but its hard to show my love when were already so far apart and i know everything hes doing and seen him lie to me not be there for me.... so if i say something to him then im afraid he'll take action to hurt himself..
If i dont say something, im sooo scared guilt will catch up to him and he'll kill himself, or he'll get caught with a prostitute.
its a circle, and i have no answer. ive been to counseling, talked to my moms best friend, everything. this is really affecting my life and i just dont know what to do. i neeed help please. (link)
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first of all i want to say how strong you sound. this is a lot to take in i dont know how you have held it in for so long. i think you need to speak up. or 10 years from now things could get so much worse and youll feel even more guilty. if you have no realationship with your dad then it cant get much worse. your mom and the rest of your family deserves to know the truth. its unfourtante you were the one put with this huge secret but its your job now and i think you can do it. theres always a risk your dad could hurt himself even if your mom doesnt find out just because he could feel guilty. but it wont be your fault if he did but for some reason i dont think he would. it wouldnt be right. maybe that is the reason for his cheating feeling unloved but its no excuse. if he thought that cheating was the only way out then somethings seriosly wrong cause theres so many other ways. once you get this off your chest things will figure themselve out. it will be okay. xoxo
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18/f
I am really close to my mom, but she is really getting on my nerves. I will be out on a Friday night at like 10 pm, and she'll call me and say "where are you, when you getting home?" I seriously will have just left An hour ago. Then like half hour or hour later she'll call abd say, " oh misty & mally
miss you, guess what they just did..." and it's like shut up I'm out with my friends, leave me alone. I even try to say this, and she just won't quit. What should I do?! (link)
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shes just missing you. she wants you to stay young forever but you cant and she just havent reached the pint where she can allow herself to let go. respectfully, just say hey mom im going out tonight im not sure what time all be home but it wont be to late. i know you usually call me but can you not call me unless its a total emergency? i love hearing about misty and mally its just when im out i like to focus with my friends and its rude when im like taking your calls cause it makes them think that your more important. i think shell understand. good luck!
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my boyfriend and i have been togehter for 1 year thank GOD =D i jsut wanted to know, whenever he explains how much he loves me, he starts crying.. is that a good thing ? :) (link)
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yes! it means he cares so much. his tears are the happiness he gets from haveing the privalege to be with you. your a very lucky girl
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does it mean he thinks of you as a little sister or does it mean he likes you?
btw we ae both 16 going on 17. ive known him for about a 3 years he is always flirting but idk if hes just a playing or what. any advice? (link)
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maybe thats just his personality when he calls you adorable. sometimes thats a diffrent way to say pretty and other complimetary words. innocent... that can go a few ways. but if he keeps on flirting and youve known eachother for 3 years then maybe it will grow into something more. just stay chill about it and hell figure out what his words are meaning
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I wasn't quite sure which category to post this under.. 16/f I find myself thinking about guys 24/7. I know all girls think about guys a lot but I feel like I think about them wayy too much. I feel like I have to have a relationship. I know for a fact that I'm independent and I don't need a guy to be happy but I find myself constantly thinking about them. Every guy I meet i ask myself "is he boyfriend type" "I wonder if he has a girlfriend" and I always flirt. I don't want to be like this because it's hard to concentrate on important things. How can I stop? (link)
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in life, things are suppose to happen on their own. i think thats when things happen the most, unexpectedly. maybe your just trying to hard. dont be caughtup in stuff like that because youll miss out on other stuff. everything will happen at the right time and right place for you. and the feeling will feel so great. dont worry everyone has a time just live in the moment till your time comes.
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ok so like today i went on a bike ride with my best friend her kinda bf like there talking and his friend. when we were close to being home we all stopped to talk and then my friend road off on her bike but i stayed to talk and like my friends kinda bf was like telling his friend to touch my boobs and i didnt care whatever. but the jimmy her kinda bf was like if u flash me i willl moter boat u and i rly wanted him to because i rly like him to so i did and he moter boated me then he was feeling me and i was like i gtg see ya later and i left.
so what should i do should i just keep it between me and him or tell her ??
and dose that make me a slut? (link)
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guilt is the worst feeling in the world. it wont leave untill you release your secrets. tell her, if you were her wouldnt you want to know? it would kill you if you didnt know because i bet she likes him as much as you do. from my point of view, he sort of took advantage of your body by doing that. dont let him do things to you you are uncomftorable with. your not a slut for doing it, you just made a mistake. maybe its not a mistake if you dont regret it. i just think in the long run youll feel better knowing you told the truth
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I've been called a "whore" around my neighborhood and I know some people who think "oh she gets around". But I don't act that way... People who don't know me think I'm all innocent.
I'm 15 and I've had sex with 5 people(and multiple times), given oral to 6 or 7 including those 5, and I lost my virginity when I was 14.
At this point I'm having sex with my boyfriend a few times a week.
Is this bad? .. Like, have I done too much for my age? What do you think..? (link)
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everyones diffrent. i dont think theres a right answer for this. i mean for some people they would be like wow thats so wrong for someone so young but others wouldnt. it doesnt make you a bad person. i bet your really nice and stuff its just a personal descion your making. be careful though.. guys can take advantage and girls can be really mean and even if you dont care it will still hurt. remmeber to anything you do will never be erasable. as long as your content with your descion and its safe it doesnt matter what other people think.
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I Kinda like one of my friends but he is a total player & gets in every girls pant's he's with I want him to change for me but I don't know if he will , what should I do ? (link)
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he may get mad if you ask him to change for you. or offended if you say he gets in everyones pants. every guy has there inner player and you just got to sometimes let them live that way untill they grow out of that phase. i think once they find a girl thats worth it theyll give it up. if i were you i would say something like hey i really like you but i was afraid to tell you because i know how you usually go with girls and its not more then just doing stuff its not really emotional. maybe if your just honest and nice about it hell feel the same way and you guys can try it out. just watch out and dont give more then one second chance...
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Okay well I recently just got dumped by my bf about a few months ago. There's this other guy that came into the picture and we both like each other. BUT he's not wanting a relationship right now and to be perfectly honest I'm not really right now either. We slept together once. I talked to him about his intention tonight and he told me that I'm not just a girl he wants to use and dump on the side of the tracks but like I said he's not wanting a relationship. I was a tad bit disappointed in. Hearing this so all I said was alright. I would eventually like a relationship maybe if hed be willing to but right now I'm willing to. Just be fuck buddies for right now. I think he got the impression that we couldn't be that anymore either. What do I say to him the next time I talk to him to let him know that its alright. (link)
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if i were you i would call him and be like i think you got me wrong last time we talked. i dont want a realationship right now eiather because im not ready yet. but i was just wondering at that moment what you were feeling. and i just wanted some sort of direction where this could be going some day. i felt something that made me wonder if this was more but it doesnt mean im not okat with what we are now. im totally fine with just being this. i just can see myself wanting more eventully.
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Okay , so I'm pretty shore I'm in love with my best friend he is Bi , but I'm not He's dating someone &nd he still likes me but He said that we could try dating again when he &nd his boyfriend break up , But I'm not fully shore if I am in love with him , because I kinda like someone else , I don't even know if I like him , I think it's because the one I think I'm in love with is to far for me to see right now , but we talk everyday . Am I really In love or is it just false because I may have feelings for someone but not as strongly I have for the other ? Please Help . (link)
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well first of all, the guy whos bi shouldnt said you can try dating again when him and his boyfriend breakup because thats not fair you have to wait. you shouldnt just stand by and watch because you could be waiting for something that might not ever happen. who knows maybe they could get married. and if they dont, if they do eventully breakup, and he does go to you, you were the second choice. if he brokeup with his boyfriend on the spot for you well that be diffrent. it seems like your in love with someone that lives far away and your just feeling sort of lonley and are searching for some compassion cause you miss the other guy. if you and your bestfriend are meant to be youll feel it youll know it and it will work out. but since hes in a realationship right now, i wouldnt wait. things will happen the way theyre suppose to. just give it time.
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Hey ppl, do you have any advice on some Cheer leading Make-up and Hair styles? I just need some ideas. Thanks! (link)
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well you probably want a high updo or curls something that will keep the hair out of your face to though. sparkles will always go well with cheerleaders
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what do you do to not be a vigin
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you have sex
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