i am a father of a 3 year old son .
my sonlives in london and imnot allowed any contact with him, unless it is at a contact centre for 2 hours only .
can you help me
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? bethechange answered Sunday August 22 2010, 2:43 pm: go to court. get help. you can see your son if you want to it will just take some effort. dont go to london because then the mother of your son will just get more mad and frustrated. try to make it as simple and less drama as possible for her because as on tv, sometimes court just makes them more mad. before you go to court though you should try talking to her one more time and reasonable as you can so you guys can make it easier on the two of you. if you cant go to court so you will leagally be able to see him. still try to keep peace and be nice remember she was the reason you got the gift of your son. i hope everything works out for you and your son.
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You need more serious, personal, legal advice then we can give you here. That are a very pro-father orginazation that might be able to give you some guidance. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
kristamikele answered Thursday August 5 2010, 1:40 pm: Never underestimate your power as your son's father. Right now it may seem like you are being treated as if you have no rights, but I promise you that as long as you continue to do the right thing and love your son things will all work out.
You have legal rights and you don't need to wait until you get a lawyer to start enjoying them. Family courts are very understanding and the judges are no slouches-they can see right through all the crap. I don't know why your visits must be at a contact center, but if you would like to have more visits or unsupervised visits the first place for you to go is family court and file a motion. I do not know how the legal system of London works, but one thing I know, all legal systems want to promote healthy father/child relationships. Keep your chin up, keep plugging away, and things will work out fine. Remember rule # 1: nobody can ever take your child away from you, no matter how much distance they try to put between you. [ kristamikele's advice column | Ask kristamikele A Question ]
I dont know much about it but can you agree to see him in a contact centre for 2 hours and then extend it to longer or spend a day with him? Either ask a solicitor or your sons mother if you could see him more often, go to the house or if he came to yours, just tell her that 2 hours is something but you would really like to see him for longer. It isnt fair to be honest that you can only see him for 2 hours. I am all for fathers for justice because he is your child just as much as he is hers.
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