I Kinda like one of my friends but he is a total player & gets in every girls pant's he's with I want him to change for me but I don't know if he will , what should I do ?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ericaisepicx answered Tuesday August 31 2010, 4:24 am: Chances are he won't change for you. The only way a guy will change is when he meets the girl he really cares for. And only he'll know when that is. He'll always be the player he is. Until the right girl comes along. For all you know it could be you, but he would be chasing after you, if it was you, but he could lie, and still play you. So you'll never know. You could just let him hurt you...but that's not the best idea. I would say ask him to change for you... But he'd probably get offended if you asked him to anyways, and he probably wouldn't change. So just don't even bother, find another guy who's actually worthy of you. It'll all end up better in the long run, and you'll be happy. Hope this helps, and good luck with the guys! [ ericaisepicx's advice column | Ask ericaisepicx A Question ]
bethechange answered Sunday August 22 2010, 1:59 pm: he may get mad if you ask him to change for you. or offended if you say he gets in everyones pants. every guy has there inner player and you just got to sometimes let them live that way untill they grow out of that phase. i think once they find a girl thats worth it theyll give it up. if i were you i would say something like hey i really like you but i was afraid to tell you because i know how you usually go with girls and its not more then just doing stuff its not really emotional. maybe if your just honest and nice about it hell feel the same way and you guys can try it out. just watch out and dont give more then one second chance...
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