My name's Erica, I'm 16 years old. I may seem young but I've experienced a lot more than you'd think. I joined this site because my family and friends always end up coming to me for help on various subjects, whether its just be help on homework or help on relationships I always seem to know exactly what to say or do, and they always end up thanking me graciously. I hope everyone here has a question to ask me, and I'd be really glad to help anyone out who needs it!
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my ex and i dated for 2 months. i broke up with him. 2 years latter, and I'm still not over him. and i wanna get back with him. what should i do?
we don't talk anymore. and we don't have each others numbers any more help:( (link)
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That was exactly my situation, and now i'm back with my ex and never been happier. My advice to you is find him and talk to him, just start saying hey to him whenever you see him. Tell him you've missed him over the years and wish you could talk again. Get his number back and start off as just friends. Gradually as your relationship gets better, or if he shows he really likes talking to you again, get right out there and tell him you never got over him and that you still like him. don't pressure him into it though! Make it simple, just tell him you're not expecting anything to happen...yet...but you want him to know how you truly feel. If he feels the same way, things will all work out in the end. I know it did for me :) & hopefully it will for you too! I hope this helped, good luck with your mann!
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Okay so I've had a crush on this boy brian pretty much since the day I met him.. which was about a year and a half ago..we've been hooking up for the past year on and off..sometimes drunk sometimes sober.. I really want to ask him how he feels toward me because I honestly don't believe its solely physical..how do I go about asking? I need it to be casual, I'm so nervous! Thanks (link)
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If you two have been hooking up on and off for a year or so and he hasn't confessed to anything yet, I wouldn't be surprised if you asked him and he told you he thought it was just a hookup. The best way to go about it, is just one day while you're talking ask him if you could ask him a serious question without it being weird or ruining your friendship. Then just say something like, do you have any feelings toward me, besides sexually? There's really no other way you can ask him.
He might also just be nervous to tell you his feelings honestly, so he might be hoping secretly that you ask him. If he does like you, he might think YOU are the one who just wants a sexual relationship. Some boys are like that. But it really depends on the type of person he is.
Hope this helped! Good luck :)
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I'm looking for a interpretation of my dream. I didn't think much of it but now a certain part keeps repeating itself in other dreams. I'll like to hear what other people think of it.
The main part is when I'm in trouble and start screaming (never have in a dream before til this year) I feel myself struggling to scream loudly to grab someone's attention. Even when it's loud, no one looks but the person who is causing me the trouble (threatening figure/holding onto me/etc) One time people looked but didn't do a thing.
That scene has came up daily. It's odd.. (link)
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I just finished studying sleep patterns and dreaming in my psychology class. We learned that there are many theories of what dreams could mean, and why we have them. Studies show that dreams are perceptions of reality, or things that have happened in the past. Dreams usually are about people you care about the most, and sometimes they include things like hidden desires, or fears that your conscious mind isn't aware of.
This dream you had is probably about something you fear. Like being attacked and having no one to save you. You're probably scared of someone trying to hurt you, and no one worried about it even when you're crying out for help. People often have repeatative dreams about things they most fear in life, like dying, drowning, being murdered, raped, etc. What I have to say is you're most worried that people don't care enough about you to stop anyone from hurting you. Or you're worried that there's not enough care in the world to help someone in need. Something along those lines.
Dreams don't ever have an exact interpretation, but I hope this helped!
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i had this serioulsy weird dream last night. anyone who can tell me what they think it might means is greatly appreciated. :)
I'm running away from a man who is trying to hurt me or kill me or something.. I have a phone, it's one of those super old phones, like from the 80s, but anytime I call 911 or someone else, it won't dial. And there's a womans voice on the other line. and I noticed that one of the buttons said "bobbie" which is my mom's name. I keep running and running but I find it hard to run, and feel like I'm not going anywhere, and that i'm going very slow. I run a long way, but I end up back at the place I started,in my backyard, and I start running away again. I find someone who will help me, and they let me stay at their house, and i feel like i've seen the house before. i feel like to keep this guy from hurting me i have to cut my hair and dye it red. so i tell the lady to go and get some blonde hairdye, cause it will dye my black hair red. I end up cutting my hair, and dying it red. the last thing i remember is us driving away. (link)
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I just finished studying sleep patterns and dreaming in my psychology class. We learned that there are many theories of what dreams could mean, and why we have them. Studies show that dreams are perceptions of reality, or things that have happened in the past. Dreams usually are about people you care about the most, and sometimes they include things like hidden desires, or fears that your conscious mind isn't aware of. This dream is probably about you fearing being chased after by something strange, like an unknown person, and not being able to stop it. You probably also fear changing your image, and really care about your mother. There is no specific reasoning for dreams, because your mind will come up with anything to keep you entertained at night. I hope this helped!
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Hello, So I met this guy(derek) in 6th grade (I'm now getting ready to go to college) and I liked him a lot, we lost our virginity to each other and whatnot. He never wanted to date me and so i figured he just wanted me for sex.Deep down i thought he liked me because we would talk all the time and he cheated on every girlfriend he ever had for me but like i said..didn't want to date me. Mid 10th grade,he got serious with a girl and it broke my heart.He stopped talking to me and eventually after lots of time,i got over him and started to move on. Around 11th grade,him and the girlfriend broke up and he began talking to me again,i was so happy but i knew it was wrong so I wrote him a letter basically saying how i love him and if it's never gonna be,then to never talk to me again. I found a new boyfriend (garrett) and dated him for 5 months and was so happy.Me and Garrett broke up ,and Derek started talking to me again. He would call me constantly ,and text me all the time ,and i didn't have feelings for him so i'd barely write back and just didn't care.One night,he convinced me to hangout with him and he poured out his feelings to me telling me how much he really likes me and how jealous he was when i was with Garrett. I decided to give him another chance at friendship,and my feelings came back again. It's been a few months were we are on talking terms and he seems to be so confident and doesn't treat me right. He tells me he likes me and still treats me like shit.He never wants to hang out,only to have sex.He is rude to me and just makes me unhappy.I've told him to stop talking to me and then a few days later ,he'll talk to me again and i fall for it because I like him so much. I'm trying to get him out of my life for the better,but I don't know how to go about it. We see eachother every day and it's so hard to deny his phonecalls like i used to.help! (link)
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If you're completely serious about not wanting to be with this guy, then you have to be more than serious with him. Tell him you don't want to associate with him, if he really likes you, he wouldn't treat you that way. Seems to me he definitely just wants the sex. Tell him you won't have sex with him anymore, and don't want to do anything with him. Say it's beyond your nature and don't want to go any farther with him, and that any relationship you ever had with him is over. If he keeps calling and texting you, have his number blocked, or delete it. I know you've said you've tried ignoring it, but if you really don't want to be hurt, even though you really like him, then you have to let him go. Both of you should go your separate ways, and tell him that. If he keeps bothering you, then all I can say is get angry with him, if you act like a complete bitch to him he'll leave you alone. Deny his every want from you, and when he calls you answer saying "stop calling me, bye derek" and hang up. everytime. no matter what he tries to tell you to keep you around. You can't fall for guys like that girl, it'll be better without him. Hope this helped!
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Okay so my boyfriend has already mentioned to me that he was so excited to see my reaction to his christmas present and he's kind of a romantic type. I'm not all that romantic or anything and I have no idea what to get him. We haven't been together for too long so I don't see him all that much so I don't know him that well. And even if i did I still would have trouble. I'm really bad at getting people presents. I want to get him something cute, but kinda generic i guess... not in a lame way though. HELP?!?! (link)
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Whenever I get my boyfriend a present from something, I get him something we can split. For example, I bought a keychain that split in half, but when put together they magnetically attached to eachother and it was a boy & girl holding hands and kissing. It was so cute. Also, I have a ring that breaks in two, and when put together makes a heart.
Kind of like the best friend necklaces / bracelets you can get, but for boyfriends and girlfriends :)
you can always be cheesy and buy him a shirt that says I
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i asked you that other question about how to tell whether a guy likes you. i like this guy, but im not sure where i stand with him. we have been texting for about a week now, all day. he flirts with me so much over texting, and i obviously flirt back. it's not just generic flirting either, he says stuff thats specifically about me, meaning that he wouldnt be able to send the messages he sends to me to anyone else, cause its like on a personal level if that makes sense. we hung out in person finally the other night. he acts like we're just friends in person. i think hes just shy, because he says that he is. he also basically said that i make him nervous. and he said that he's not a playa. but i dont know if he wants to be just friends. when he hugged me goodbye after we hung out, it was a one handed hug, so i dont really think he wanted to hug me, but who knows. he was the one who held out his arms. the next day i hugged him goodbye, and i think i held on too long because he seemed like he wanted to let go. :/ im really confused. after we hung out he said i looked beautiful and that he actually had fun. he says he wants to hang out again and he says he wants to go to the movies. i just want to know if he wants to be friends or more. i dont know if hes talking to other girls, but i think he might be. and he doesnt try to touch me or get close to me really. his body language most of the time seems like he doesnt really want to be in the more than friends territory. but then again hes definitely flirting with me, and a couple nights in a row we stayed up till 4am talking. is he just shy about acting like he likes me or do you think he just wants to be friends with me? also any advice for the next time we hang out? i dont want him to think im coming onto him. i just want to know where i stand. (link)
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It sounds like you're off to a good start with the whole texting and flirting ordeal. If he says he's shy, he's probably not lying. Unless he's done stuff with A LOT of girls, he's probably not confident enough to make the first move, and if you're not exactly slightly bit flirtatious in person or showing that you wouldn't mind being more than friends (body language wise) he might be confused too. If you put yourself in his shoes he's probably questioning the exact same thing as you.
I'm guessing by the way he talks to you, saying he's nervous and stuff, that he does really like you, and probably does want to be with you. He probably just doesnt know how to go about it just yet, and wants to wait. Going to the movies is a good place to go, if he pays for you, he's definitely into you. Then see how he acts in the actual theater (holding hands, cuddling, etc).
As for what you should do when you hang out, try being a little bit flirty in person, so he gets the idea that it's okay to flirt with you too, so he knows YOU'RE into him. But try not to go over the top so it's not like you're trying so hard.
I hope this advice helps, and good luck with the boy :)
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how do i know if a guy likes me? (link)
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you can tell if a guy likes you when they just like talking to you. a guy will always be talking to the girl he likes. if he REALLY likes you, he'll try to be with you all the time, or be close to you. when you hang out with him, watch his body language, if he's constantly close to you, or trying to touch you or makes certain moves toward you, then he most likely likes you. also it could never hurt to just ask him.
hope this helps! good luck.
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I just started talking to this guy that I work with. We have been texting every day all day for about a week. We have talked about hanging out in person outside of work and I don't know what to expect because...This guy and I are definitely flirty, but I literally just got out of a 1-year relationship and I honestly don't know how to tell if this guy is a player and is talking to other girls or if he genuinely likes me. What are the signs -- how do I know if this is just how he is with all girls or if he has a thing for ME only? (link)
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There are a few signs a guy can be a player. First, notice if he's always talking to other girls, or talking about other girls. Or the subjects he talks about. If all he's talking about sex or wanting to "get some" from someone, then he's most likely a player.
To be nearly positive, hang out with him, and if he seems to be texting other people all the time while you're with him, he may be a player. Ask him how many girls he's been with, after you've gotten a bit closer. Players lie a lot, and are very sneaky. So you can never be sure they're a player until they play you.
Just be careful and watch all of the moves he makes. If you really want to be straight forward, just ask him. Tell him you're not into being hurt, and you just want to know if he's got other girls too. Trust is key.
Hope this helps! Good luck :)
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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First off, he may have wrote those things about your relationship to kind of vent about it. He might've not even known that it would be public for anyone to see. When you asked him about secrets, he may have realized that anyone could've seen the page and thought it was bad that the rest of the facebook world could read about it too. Not likely, but it's possible.
Besides that, any boy who's going to keep secrets and hide things from you is not worth any girls time. If you're crying about it and it's really hurting you that badly, try once more to work it out with him. Talk to him about it one last time, ask him all of these questions you're asking me. Ask why he hid it, and why he's denying it (especially since you know he's lying) If he continues to try and lie his way through it, give him the boot ASAP. Don't stick around, because relationships are about trust; lying and hiding things are the exact opposite.
I know it'll probably be hard for you to deal with at first, but trust me, he's not worth your suffering. I hope all goes well, and good luck :)
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15/m
The other day i had open house at my High school, i'll be a freshmen this year. I noticed in most of my classes that i have almost no friends in the class. I know most of the people but are not like friends if you know what i'm saying. In lunch so far none of my friends are in it. Some people that i know are but they are girls, or popular or both. I know popular people but don't usually hang out with them to much. And girls well they sit with girls so yeah.
Any idea's what i can do to make friends? or to make my first Tri-Mester easier? (link)
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My advice is to just be friendly. Talk to anyone and everyone. No one's mean enough that they'll push you away, and if they do, they're not someone you want to be friends with anyway! Ask the girls your friends with if you can sit with them at lunch, they probably won't tell you no. Then you can be close to the other girls they're sitting with too. It's not that hard to make new friends, it's just about being social with everyone. Even simple things like joining a new group for projects or group work in your classes helps. Or something even simpler like try talking to the person who's locker's next to yours.
I had a similar problem when I began high school, but you'll eventually meet new people you like and get along with, and you'll figure out it's a lot easier to make new friends then you thought.
I hope this helped, good luck!!
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Okay, so a couple of days ago, I had a really weird dream.
I was in our classroom with my seatmate. He was sitting on a chair and then I sat next to him on the same chair. The next thing I knew, he grabbed my shoulders and pointed me towards him. I saw his lips leaning towards me, and we ended up kissing. I woke up shortly after that. (If anyone can interpret this dream, it'd be really great!:D)
Anyways, pretty much after that dream, I couldn't stop thinking about it and him. Although I know it's a dream, but for some reason I can't get it out of my head. That's when I started to wonder if I liked him. Did my subconscious mind tell me that I liked him or am I just making stuff up? Since he is my seatmate and everything, I do kind of think of him in that way sometimes, but it never got serious. Like my heart was never pounding when I'm around him.
Whether I genuinely like him or not, I still can't seem to stop thinking about him. So maybe I do like him..a bit. But it might be the dream's fault.
So, my problem. Do you guys think what I'm feeling is real? Or am I just fooled by my dream? And in case I do like him, what should I do? We don't hang out in the same group, I think he's kind of brainy, so he hangs with the smart people. I'm not sure what I'm feeling and I'm not sure what to do. Help? I'd really appreciate it. (link)
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First of all I'd just like to point out the fact that dreams are not "signs" or anything, they're perceptions of reality. In lighter terms this means it's something that has already happened to you, or something you wish would've happened. Probably something such as a moment that happened, but you've twisted around to be more toward your liking. (Trust me, I know about this, I'm studying psychology)
To answer your question, there's no yes or no answer based on your dream. Most likely you have a CRUSH on this boy, and are craving for something like your dream to happen between you and him. But I wouldn't suggest trying to attach a relationship to him. You never mentioned if you were close with him or not, but assuming you aren't you should probably start talking to him and just being friendly. It may just be a crush now, but you never know, deeper feelings can develop and maybe you two will work something out. No matter what groups of friends you hang out with. If he is brainy, and you're not, what's it matter? People who are happy, are happy people, and there's nothing that should get between that.
Mostly what I would say is your dream is just proving you want some sort of fling in your life, and the guy you're crushing on is this boy. It's not really a sign, it's what you're feeling, but your dream is just making it more of a reality for you. Crush's you can't really do much about, but befriend this boy, and just become close, that'd all I can advise. Then whatever happens, happens.
Hope this helps! :)
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I Kinda like one of my friends but he is a total player & gets in every girls pant's he's with I want him to change for me but I don't know if he will , what should I do ? (link)
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Chances are he won't change for you. The only way a guy will change is when he meets the girl he really cares for. And only he'll know when that is. He'll always be the player he is. Until the right girl comes along. For all you know it could be you, but he would be chasing after you, if it was you, but he could lie, and still play you. So you'll never know. You could just let him hurt you...but that's not the best idea. I would say ask him to change for you... But he'd probably get offended if you asked him to anyways, and he probably wouldn't change. So just don't even bother, find another guy who's actually worthy of you. It'll all end up better in the long run, and you'll be happy. Hope this helps, and good luck with the guys!
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Ohkaay so my boyfriend is the main star of the team ,hes #24 & hes known as Lil Beast bcus his older broda is known as Beast , and im ditching a weekend in LA to stay and watch the most important game at our school , he doesnt know it yet . And im going to show up at tha game whidd his jersey and a poster buh i dont kno what to put as a saying in the poster any ideaas?
P.S last year we made one for his broda and it said :
"#11 Beast Of All Beast (link)
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The first thing I thought of when I read this was "Unleash the Beast!" Because it's something my school soccer team says. So I don't know if you like it, but maybe try something like "#24, Unleash the Lil Beast!" Personally I think it's kinda cute and funny. But it's all up to you! Hope this helped :) Good Luck with the poster!
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alright i am a 16 year old girl turning 17 next month going into my senior year, i feel like everyone in my grade has had sex, i feel a lot of girls feel so nonchalant about it all. I have had a boyfriend and i personally don't think i am ugly, i have never had sex before and i haven't met the right guy i feel i could do that with but i feel kind of insecure i feel that i should of had sex already considering im almost going to college i feel kind of like a loser i don't know i just wanna hear your thoughts on this & what i should do? please no hateful comments :) (link)
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I'm in the same boat as you. Trust me, if you're not comfortable with having sex just yet. DON'T DO IT. I'm 16 and I'm going to be a junior, but most of my friends are younger than me and have had sex already. Personally I feel they've made a huge mistake. I'm waiting until I meet the right guy, and have been dating him for a while. I don't think it's worth throwing away your virginity for some guy you're going to talk to for a few months, have sex and then don't talk at all.
Sometimes I feel like I should've had sex already too, just because everyone else has. I know I'm not ugly, I've had boyfriends, but it just makes me feel kinda lame and out of the loop. But actually in reality, I'm proud to say I'm a virgin. And you should be too! There's not reason for you to lose your virginity just yet. And you still have many years ahead of you to worry about having sex. Right now you should be focused on bigger things in your future, not just who's going to be entering your body.
Just stay strong and do what YOU want to do. Don't let anyone influence you otherwise. It's your life, live it to the fullest, but do what you want to do, not what everyone else is doing. Hope this helped ! Have fun :)
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i have so many red spots on my face, i think they are acne scars but i'm not really positive. its almost impossible to cover it up so i look gross all the time. i use a toner/astringent from clean &clear every night because i heard that was supposed to even out the skin tone but it doesnt. i use st. ives green tea scrub in the morning because its supposed to reduce redness but it doesnt. i just dont know what to do and it makes my self esteem go down so much. i cant wait for the day that i can walk out in public without makeup on. anyone know how i cant get my skin evened out?! i will love you forever. (link)
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I have the same problem. Mine are acne scars though. If you used to have severe acne, or just little bits but are gone now you probably have the exact same problems. I use a scar cream on my face, like maderma (i think that's spelled wrong) but they sell scar removal creams in drugstores, some specifically for your face.
If not, there's a clean and clear 3 in one pack. It's made for acne and for scars left by acne. It's used to prevent any break outs you might be getting, and to remove the scars you have. it's really helpful and you only have to use it once every night before you go to bed.
For now, I use a really good cover up it's by L'Oreal. It's called "True Match" you choose your shade and you buy the concealer and then the powder. Both of these cover really nicely and make your skin look extra smooth.
If none of this helps your situation, you may want to schedule an appointment to see a dermatologist.
Hope this helps! Good Luck.
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14/f
I am wondering how i can get birth control without my family knowing. Also obviously I can not drive yet. I want birth control for two reasons, one to reduce my period because I have to change a super tampon every 2-1/2 hours and also, if I might want to lose my virginity at some point. I just wanna be extra safe against stds and pregnancy. can you please help me? Its urgent. (link)
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Every 2 1/2 hours is ridiculous, try talking to your mom about it. It's not about having sex, it's about changing period patterns. It shouldn't be as a big a deal as you'd think. You don't even need a parent to take you to get birth control, you can get it yourself, you just need to find transportation. If you have a sister/brother/friend that can drive. Ask them for help. Or like a super cool aunt or uncle, or cousin. If not you can look up taxi company's in your area. Just be aware of the costs of birth control & taxi's.
By the way, I just want to say also, when you say that you do want to lose your virginity at some time, and you want birth control also so you can be extra safe against stds and pregnancy....birth control DOES NOT HELP protect against stds. For your own health I just want you to be aware that if you do end up getting birth control (which i hope you do, cause that period situation would not be my cup of tea) that it will NOT at all protect against stds, so it would be better if you do end up having sex that you use condoms and the pill. Just be careful with that.
Hope this helped, Good luck with birth control!
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Hello ,
So okay , show story is me and this guy hung out we met up after 1-2 years and so , we did things got phsyical. And I went down on him and his thing was hanging out while I went up to kiss him and it was on me , but the thing is I haven't gotten' my period yet , am I pregnant?
Please help:(
Thank you ,
Betty (link)
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As long as he didn't cum you're fine, the only way for you to be pregnant is if he came and it went in your vagina. Your period is probably just late, that happens sometimes. Don't sweat it girl! You're not pregnant, nothing to worry about :)
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OK so i recently had oral with my boyfriend. I had him tell me when he wuz going to sperm so i could stop doing oral and jack him off to let him sperm. I wuznt wearing underwear at the time. but my vagina wasnt really near his penis. Then he kinda felt his sperm when it wuz on his stomach. It wuz also on my hand. He picked up my underwear with the hand he felt the sperm with, but the sperm wuz hardening. Then I was going to put the underwear back on but I thought about it and didnt put it back on. After all that, we washed our hands and he washed his penis and etc. Later that night he fingered me. And to be truthful he wanted me to finger myself with him so i did. Do you know if you can get pregnant from getting fingered after my boyfriend ejaculated, but then washed his hands and stuff? I am always so very worried if i will get pregnant or not. Do you think im pregnant? (link)
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It's good that you're being so cautious with that, because yes you can get pregnant from something as simple as that. I'm sure though, if you wash any part of either of your bodies that came in contact with sperm you should be fine. As long as the sperm doesn't come in contact with your vagina it's impossible for you to get pregnant. So no, I do not think there's anyway for you to be currently pregnant. It's highly unlikely. Hope this helped!
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hello, my names louise and im 13. i recently went on holiday with my best friend and her brother, whose friend who is two years older than me came for 3 days. as soon as i saw him i really liked him. his not the best looking boy ever but he is sweet and caring. we held hands alot and at night we slept in the front room with my friend and he had his arm round me and we kissed a few times. he knew that when he went away i would really miss him and he said he would miss me too.
since he went ive asked for his number on numberous occassions but he doesnt reply. ive spoken to him over facebook but he doesnt seem to care. if i message him he will either reply with about a sentence or ignore it. i asked whether he was free in the next two weeks because i really miss him but he didnt reply.
i really want his number so i can try and talk to him more. ive cried because all i want it to be able to see him. but for starters he doesnt know how i feel about him because i never told him when i had the chance. and secondly he lives about 50 minutes from me.
i REALLY love him. and i dont know what ive done wrong for him to ignore me like this.
thankyou x (link)
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I don't want to be the bearer of bad news...but hun, He's Just Not That Into You. Throughout your life you're going to have the ups and downs of boys...you're only 13, and well it might've been fun hanging out with this guy for a few days but when you say he's 2 years older than you and you REALLY love him, you don't. You knew him for 3 days, and I know it happens in the movies, where you know a boy for moments and he's "the one" but in real life it doesn't happen like that. In the real world you need time to develop a good relationship and a strong love connection like that. I know it might seem confusing and hard to believe now, but trust me you'll understand in a year or two.
Back to the fact of this boy, I don't mean to bring you down, but it's best you know the truth of what he was probably thinking when he met you. He was probably thinking something along the lines of "Oh, a new younger girl I'll probably never see again...she's kinda cute (cute enough..for a few days)" Since you were younger he probably knew he'd easily be able to get involved with you. But never intentionally wanted to start a relationship or anything with you. He most likely just wanted a fling for the 3 days he was with you all, especially since he was in an unknown area and knew no other girls.
On the bright side, you've done absolutely NOTHING wrong. You just fell into the arms of a jerk boy. It's okay, it'll probably happen more than once. But it's good you're gaining this experience now. The best thing for you to do, is to forget about him, and try not to talk to him or talk about him. It's no big deal, you're going to find many other guys you're going to really really like, probably a lot more than you think you like this boy.
I know a lot of this probably hurt to hear, but it's good to know. I hope this helps, good luck!
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