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Okay, so a couple of days ago, I had a really weird dream.
I was in our classroom with my seatmate. He was sitting on a chair and then I sat next to him on the same chair. The next thing I knew, he grabbed my shoulders and pointed me towards him. I saw his lips leaning towards me, and we ended up kissing. I woke up shortly after that. (If anyone can interpret this dream, it'd be really great!:D)
Anyways, pretty much after that dream, I couldn't stop thinking about it and him. Although I know it's a dream, but for some reason I can't get it out of my head. That's when I started to wonder if I liked him. Did my subconscious mind tell me that I liked him or am I just making stuff up? Since he is my seatmate and everything, I do kind of think of him in that way sometimes, but it never got serious. Like my heart was never pounding when I'm around him.
Whether I genuinely like him or not, I still can't seem to stop thinking about him. So maybe I do like him..a bit. But it might be the dream's fault.
So, my problem. Do you guys think what I'm feeling is real? Or am I just fooled by my dream? And in case I do like him, what should I do? We don't hang out in the same group, I think he's kind of brainy, so he hangs with the smart people. I'm not sure what I'm feeling and I'm not sure what to do. Help? I'd really appreciate it.<3
xoxo,
G
f/16
college freshman
(he's turning 18 btw, if that helps :)))
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okay, your dream does NOT necessarily mean you have a crush on this guy, i've had a dream about a guy i have no feelings about what so ever. when you have a thought or meet someone, that thought or person kind of goes into a little drawer in your head and that drawer can stay closed for years however when you fall asleep some of these drawers open randomly and that is what you dream. so it could just have been that you had seen this situation happen in a film and your mind has just replaced the characters with yourself and this guy (something along those lines).
but if you are curious about this guy, talk to him, get to know him and see how it goes.
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First of all I'd just like to point out the fact that dreams are not "signs" or anything, they're perceptions of reality. In lighter terms this means it's something that has already happened to you, or something you wish would've happened. Probably something such as a moment that happened, but you've twisted around to be more toward your liking. (Trust me, I know about this, I'm studying psychology)
To answer your question, there's no yes or no answer based on your dream. Most likely you have a CRUSH on this boy, and are craving for something like your dream to happen between you and him. But I wouldn't suggest trying to attach a relationship to him. You never mentioned if you were close with him or not, but assuming you aren't you should probably start talking to him and just being friendly. It may just be a crush now, but you never know, deeper feelings can develop and maybe you two will work something out. No matter what groups of friends you hang out with. If he is brainy, and you're not, what's it matter? People who are happy, are happy people, and there's nothing that should get between that.
Mostly what I would say is your dream is just proving you want some sort of fling in your life, and the guy you're crushing on is this boy. It's not really a sign, it's what you're feeling, but your dream is just making it more of a reality for you. Crush's you can't really do much about, but befriend this boy, and just become close, that'd all I can advise. Then whatever happens, happens.
Hope this helps! :)
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