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I have this friend who I am very close to, and I don't know what I'd do without her. After being friends with her for 7 years, I think we know eachother quite well. However, recently she's had a boyfriend who has a 3 year old child and is still fairly close to the child's mother (his ex fiancee). Today, we saw them together with their child just walking around town which he never does with my friend, even though theyre going out. Also, this guy always seems to make more of an effort which his ex fiancee than with my friend. I gave her some advise and said to ask him up front whats going on, and give him a choice- his ex or her (because i think they still have feelings for eachother). I don't think my friend is going to take my advise because she loves this guy more than I've ever known her love a guy before... she doesnt wanna let him go even though she cant trust him... The thing is, I can see that she is going to get hurt and it's begginning to effect me because I cant' stop it :( I just don't know what else i can do :( I wanna make her feel better because she's my best friend and thats what friends should do... but i just don't know how to anymore :( (link)
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You've got to keep in mind that this woman is the mother of his child. So if your friend gives him the option "me or your ex" he is more than likely going to choose his ex, because she is the link to his child. Plus, having a child together is one of the strongest bonds so its only natural that they are very close, and if they wanted to be together, they would be as it would give the child a more stable life as well. So i doubt that they do still have feelings for each other in that way.
There isn't you anything you can really do for your friend as, as much as we dislike it, people have to make their own mistakes.
So i suggest all you do is support her, and be there for her if it does end badly.
Hope everything works out x
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What does it mean when a guy throws things down your shirt, and looks at your lips and eyes? (link)
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if its one of your really good guy friends it probably doesn't really mean anything but if its just a guy then its a form of flirting. He's drawing attention to your chest and looking at your lips can mean he's thinking about kissing you. Looking at someone's eyes however doesn't mean anything its probably only eye contact which everyone does
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I got accepted into college and Im leaving in July.I live with my mom and we are extremely close. I chose a college that is far enough away, but close enough, maybe about 6 hours away.
Im nervous about people might not liking me or I might mess up doing something. I dont know anyone in the city that Im going to and I dont know how i'll get around, maybe the bus
Im actually extremely nervous. Im not used to sharing anything or having roomates, I dont know if they might like me. Im really quiet around people I first meet and it takes a while to come out of my shell.
but how can I hold my own in college, and prove to my mom Im going to be ok? (link)
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I'm going to say what lots of people have probably already said to you, you're in the same position as hundreds of others. Its very rare that when you go to college you already have friends, everyone makes them there. The best way to do that is when you first sit next to someone, introduce yourself. I know that sounds difficult when you're shy but its not as bad as it seems. Plus, everyone there will be desperate for someone just to talk to them.
As for living with people, its something that takes getting used to but you soon will; and its also very fun! The worst thing you can do at the start is sit alone in your room, if you have a common area, make sure you use it, especially on the first couple of days.
I wouldn't worry about people not liking you, there are all sorts of people at college and the chances of you not being able to find at least one person whom you get on with are next to nothing.
If your worried about your relationship with your mum changing, don't let it. I'm sure she wouldn't mind getting phonecalls from you at anytime if you just needed a chat.
The best overall statement that i can give you is that it is a big change and it will take some time getting used to it but its worth it and you make the type of friends you keep for life.
I hope you really enjoy it x
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Hey ! (:
im 12 years old and im a girl im turning 13 in december and i have a guy friend who i've been hanging out with lately i guess im starting to like him alot and getting deep emotions for him. He could be mean but he just jokes around with me and we always hug and we kinda held hands once but i dont think it ment anything special to him like it did to me? i really like him and i wanted to ask him out but i dont wanna ruin our friendship or get rejected ): i dont know what i should do since i reallyy like him ): (link)
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I think you should just ask him to do something with you like go to the cinema (or anything that you think would be fun really). It doesn't have to start out as a date but it can end up as one. Once your there you can go with the flow.
hope it works out for you x
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I was raped about a year ago and now I'm dateing a guy that I feel like I am giving mixed signals. I freak out when he does certain things, and when I do things,then I feel guilty like I shouldn't be getting any pleasure out of it. When will I begin to lose the guilt over being intimate with him?
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i don't think there's any straight forward time limit. it completely depends on the individual. You shouldn't feel guilty and its completely natural to not be comfortable after having such a traumatic ordeal. My best advice to you would be to talk about what happened to you with someone, preferably a professional as they can guide you through this. If however you would not like to talk to a stranger about it, speak to either a family member or a friend and just talk it out with them.
I hope everything goes okay for you and i'm really sorry you had to go through something like that. x
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I have been dating my bf for over three years. I love him, I really think I do. Most of the time I know I do and have no doubts about him. Is it bad though that I still have the ability to form close friendships with other guys and can sometimes even see a potential future with them? I feel badly about that bu I can't help it. Lots of my friends with boyfriends can't even see anyone else but that is not the case for me.
I also slept over my best guy friend's apartment two nights ago because my roommate was sleeping with his roommate. WE shared a bed and it was completely innocent and it was okay with my bf becaise they are friends...but i has a sex dream about him when I was sleepIng next to hkm in his bed! I can't control my dreams but do I have some subconscious thing
Goin on and what could it mean? (link)
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I'm just going to be blunt about this, if you're thinkong about futures with other men then you're not in love with your boyfriend. If you only think you love your bf, then you're not in love with him.
As for the sex dream that's no big deal, everyone has them and the person in them doesn't mean anything.
So what you do is up to you, whether you admitt to yourself that you're not in love and go your seperate ways or continue trying to make yourself fall in love (which never works)
Good luck x
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okay so umm im 13 and sometime when my gf and i are watching tv and it gets boring so i tell her to take her clothes off (no ones home so dont worry)and then i tell her to relax and then i go "down there" and start licking and then i go faster but she starts screaming and kicking and it gets on my nerves but she says it feels great so why is she screaming because i dont scream when she gives me "you know" so why does she do it (link)
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Some people (generally more women) cannot help themselves from making noises when getting pleasured especially if it feels really good. So don't worry about it, its a compliment. Its also something you'll have to get used to as you're only 13 so you have A LOT of pleasuring ahead of you.
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Yesterday was my Sweet Sixteen and I was so nervous the whole day that my stomach was hurting. While I was dancing, I was sweating and felt like my underwear was wet. So I went to the bathroom and my mom asked if I peed myself and I said no! So then she said that it could have been sweat. I can't stop thinking about it. What do you think it could have been?!?! (link)
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its just sweat, there are sweat glands around that area so its natural that when exerting yourself - such as when you dance - that you will sweat. Don't worry about it.
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i gave my boyfriend head he put his semen all over my chest, alot of it. i took it all with my hand and inserted the semen into my vagina, what is my chance of getting pregnant? (link)
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Slim, but still possible, it depends on how long the semen had been ejaculated for before you rubbed it. You should keep an eye on your period just to be sure. Or get the Morning after pill, depending on when this occured.
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can u please tell me that when sperm is injected in ass hole a girl can pragnent in this case
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No, it needs to go into vagina.
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i have been single for a little over a year and it's my senior year of high school. i just got over a crush and i'm feeling great and free about not having guys in my life to distract me. but my friends are all complaining about how lonely they are and how badly they want boyfriends. i feel like i'm the only one who's not upset about being single. for me it's like this; i have a job and a ton of homework. i have to worry about where i'm going to college and things like that during the winter cheerleading starts and that takes up all my time so i don't think i'll have time to keep a boyfriend. if i can't have time for myself, how am i going to possibly have time to have a boyfriend? i won't be opposed to having one if the right guy comes along and i'll tell him that i am a busy person and things might be complicated for us but until then, i don't care about having a boyfriend right now. idk is it ok for me to feel so calm about being single and not worried about getting a boyfriend anytime soon? i mean like i almost feel abnormal because i'm not crying every night because i don't have one... (link)
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its completely normal, it just means that you are independant and don't need a man to be happy. some women aren't like that, but luckily you are.
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I use EOS shaving cream on my legs because my legs are really sensitive and that's the only shaving cream that works on me so i don't get razor burn, but it doesn't work for my vagina and i need something so i can shave my vagina without getting razor burn and little cuts.
I use clean razors and replace them every so often.
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you're always likely to get it no matter what shaving cream you use, but should make sure you moisturise the area straight after shaving and then every day. You could also try the razor: Shick Quattro For Women TrimStyle. It might help.
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if the hymen in the virgina is torn without the woman having sex does it mean that she is no longer a virgin (link)
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no, because the hyman can tear due to tampons and things. Your only no longer a virgin once you have had sexual intercourse.
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I have a question and its for both guys and girls. Would you date someone or be with them if they've had sex friends before?
Ive only been with one girl before and i waited till i was in love and saw a future and all that stuff but now (im in college btw) it seems like EVERYBODY is with a f buddy. Im all for love but sometimes it just takes too long to find it; so im asking girls and guys that have been in loving serious relationships would u date someone thats had f buddies before? Please put gender and age, thank u (link)
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female, at uni
completely, I've had both serious relationships and I've actually had a "friend with benefits" too. having a f*#k buddy is just a bit of fun - its like having one night stands but with someone you get on with - so no-one can say they don't want to date you because you have a sexual past.
Don't worry about it
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17/f. After my senior year, I plan to attend university to get my bachelor's in elementary ed. I love kids and at church, I teach a class at my church. Yes, I've asked a question before about college. Most people usually don't know what they want to do so I should be overjoyed that I believe I found what I was created to do. I know teachers don't make a lot of money but all the teachers I know and had are doing pretty good in life. There are so many pros to being a teacher, making friends that will last me forever because I plan to work with them forever, weekends and holidays and summers off even though I hope to get a part time job over the summer and weekends to get extra money, being able to show my personality by decorating my own classroom and hopefully being the slightest bit of an inspiration to kids my teachers were. However, my only concern that is kind of freaking me out: not finding a job as a teacher. Teachers are vital, that's a job that will always be needed but I am so scared I'll go through college and never find a job afterwards. How do I calm myself down after these thoughts and will there be more chance that not that I will find a job at a school? (link)
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To become a teacher, you do four years at university - I think you're american so college to you - an then you have at least a years probation after that. So your garenteed five years of teaching. By the time you've done the the economy will probably have changed and there will be lots of jobs for teachers again. so stop stressing, you have loads of time before you have to start thinking about that.
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I'm 15f I need tips on how to flirt (link)
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There's no sure fire way to do it, its just what works for you. Although mainly its just working your eyes. Either keeping eye contact for a while, then looking down and back up through your lashes. Or a wee touch of his arm (I'm presuming you're a girl?), laughing at his jokes, smilinf at him. You could try the more obvious ways... make jokes about you and him together. Tell him he looks hot or smell really good. Its just what comes naturally for you.
hope this helps
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I was just wondering if anyone knows any good young adult books where a girl falls in love with a ghost? kinda like Casper but ya know for teens/young adult! I loved casper but ya know I was wondering if there were any books like where a girl falls in love with a ghost? Pleae help thanks(: (link)
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You could try "The Death and Life of Charlie St. Cloud" - its really good but its the opposite way round. Girl ghost, real guy.
Hope you like it.
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My best friend and I use to spend almost everyday together. We are both females & 26. I have a 1 year old daughter and my best friend is/was a significant part of her life as well. Her boyfriend just quit his job because he is moving 6 hours away. He's not positive when he's moving but possibly in 2 months. Now that he has quit his job they spend every night and day together. The only time I see her is if her BF has something else to do. This really hurts my feelings and I'm feeling taken advantage of. She came to my house last night,for the 1st time in 3weeks (her BF was at one of his friends house). She couldn't get here until 12:30am but we planned on watching one of our favorite shows and even though I had to get up at 6am w/ my baby I so badly wanted to spend time w/ my friend. Well we didn't even get to watch our show because a half hour after she got here her BF called and said he wanted to go get something to eat and so she left. I'm not the kind of girl that gets jealous of my best friends relationship w/ her bf. It just drives me nuts because I could never imagine treating a friend like that and then expecting that friend to be there for me 100% when my BF moves away. Its even more hurtful because I have a one year old daughter that she use to see everyday and now hasn't seen her in over a month. My friend always says "I feel so bad that I haven't seen you guys but he's moving so I want to spend as much time with him as possible". I feel like my friendship is being taken for granted. Am I being selfish or being taken advantage of? (link)
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I don't think its either, I think your friend is just scared that when her boyfriend moves their relationship won't last so she's being clingy. When something like this happens people tend to get a bit obsessed and I think that's whats happened with her. She know's that you two are such good friends that you'll be there for her after - its not taking advantage, its just a fact.
You could always try inviting her and the boyfriend round, that way, she's with him but you get her too.
I know its difficult because you miss her, but try and see where she's coming from.
And most importantly, don't hold a grudge against her because that will most definitely ruin your freindship.
hope it works out
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ok i have this big issue with girls at school all because of a boy that ie een dateing for about 5months now. well these girls are starting to hate meh because i got something they dont have. so they began to tell him all these lies saying that i am fake and he should leave me for some other girl crazy right. so he told meh he he would never leave me and he dont believe what they are saying. but all i want to know is what am i supose to do at this point let them keep talking or shut them up and how do i bear threw these rumors thankxx (link)
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You ignore them, they will get bored. Your fella seems like a good guy so just talk to him when its really bugging you but make sure you don't rise to it. Cherish the guy and remember why they're doing it. Because they're jealous. It will all go away and you'll still have your man so you win in the end.
Hope it get's better
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I need help in my english paper i would have to interview people by asking questions, would any of you help? These are the questions that I would have to ask i need different ages to answer
From 25 to 70 Thankyou (please answer in complete sentences and tell me your age and name)
1. What is YOUR idea of "American Dream"?
2. What is your american Dream?
3. Has your dream been fullfilled?
4. How did you achieve it or plan to achieve it?
5. Why did you choose that particular dream?
6.Did any sacrifices have to be made?
7. DId your family get in the way?
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I'm too young to answer this but i just had to ask, by any chance are you studying The Great Gatsby?
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