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i wanted to ask him out but i dont wanna ruin our friendship or get rejected
Hey ! (:
im 12 years old and im a girl im turning 13 in december and i have a guy friend who i've been hanging out with lately i guess im starting to like him alot and getting deep emotions for him. He could be mean but he just jokes around with me and we always hug and we kinda held hands once but i dont think it ment anything special to him like it did to me? i really like him and i wanted to ask him out but i dont wanna ruin our friendship or get rejected ): i dont know what i should do since i reallyy like him ):
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I've been dealing with the same thing lately. I know you don't want to ruin your friendship, but take risks. One way to find out how he feels about you is by simply asking him what he thinks about you. Try it, it wont hurt. I know you cant help what you feel, but the worst thing you could do is fall inlove with someone who is just a friend. I did that before, and he was just like your crush that your describing. Dont get too ahead of yopurself and overthink things. sometimes when we like people we see things that arent really there. Also, check out if he treats you differently than other people, this could mean your special to him in some way.
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I'd just start slow to find out how he feels about you because you don't want to ruin a friendship. Just hang out with him more, like go to a movie or something and see where it goes from there.
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I think you should just ask him to do something with you like go to the cinema (or anything that you think would be fun really). It doesn't have to start out as a date but it can end up as one. Once your there you can go with the flow.
hope it works out for you x
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You have to become good friends with him and let him now he can trust you. Remember be yourself!(;
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