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Hi! My name is karina. I'm 16 years old, and even though i'm young, i have been through alot of crap. Whether your young or old, im sure i can find anyway to relate to you, so if you have a problem dont hesitate to talk to me, i dont bite,...well maybe a little ^-^
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Okay! Well I am a normal 13 year old girl and there is this boy(12) I like and i have known him for a good few years but recently we have both gotten proper feelings for each other and I can't stop thinking about him?! We have private chats that nobody else knows about and lets just say some of them can be quite dirty! But the wierd thing is that we aren't going out!! I dont know wether to ask him or just stop it all together! I really like him and I can't stop thinking about him!! Please help me!! :) x (link)
If you havent already told each other you like each other, do so. All this puppy love stuff can lead to a broken heart if you keep messiing with each other and just leading each other on without really going anywhere. Dont wait for him. Waiting on a man is like waiting for ice to melt. just make a move.


I REALLY wanna kiss my bf but idk how to tell him or get him to kiss me or if i should make the first move? (link)
just take action if your comfortable enough. Start with a pop kiss to make sure he"s ok with it, and take it from there


OK so I know this is pretty immature and kinda dumb but I'm 17 and I thought this guy was gay because he once said he was on Facebook but apparently he's not not only do I feel bad but now that I've learned more about him I really like him like I want to date him like him, but now I'm afraid he hates me Bc I thought he was gay. He doesn't know I like him mainly because I wouldn't know what to say and I'm scared to tell him. My best friend works with him and with all I know he's really sweet but I feel I totally blew any chance I had. I'm even more intimidated by telling him because he's in a band which I find extremely cool making me more nervous. I don't even know what to do. (link)
Slow down. if you want to know how he feels, try getting closer to him. if your afraid to ask him out, plan a group thingy in which you and him and a bunch of your other friends hangout. Make a move. depending on how things go, you can probably determine whether you should just get over him or keep pursuing. But dont chase after him, if he is interested in you, he should put in some effort too.


My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 13 months. I feel so happy when I am with him and he tells me that he feels equally happy. I feel that we have a very healthy and faithful relationship. We are intimate and romantic and it's a beautiful relationship.

I have this feeling where I don't ever want to move on and I just want to stay with him forever. He makes me that happy. and I completely love who I am when I am with him. I want to feel that way forever.

Although I am unsure what the future holds, if I had to pick anyone i'd want to share my life with it would be him.. wanna know why? because i know that if he ended up with me, he would be safe forever. I would protect him. I would not let anything happen to him. Then I would for sure know that he will be okay.. But thinking that he could possibly end up with someone that's not me, is a scary thought for me. It's actually really scary because then I wouldn't be so sure how safe he is, how well he's treated, and how much he gets. Because my darling, to me, deserves everything right. All I want him to be in this world is happy. He's walked me through numerous stages of my life, and I just want him to walk me through more.

That being said, I wonder if he feels the same way about me. I want him to want to be with me forever because i want to be with him forever. But how do i get him to say it if he thinks it? I just want to see if he feels the same way I do. A lot of guys like to hide their sensitive feelings and occasionally, he will come out and say his true feelings, but can you please give me advice on what i can do or say to get his true feelings out of him. I really want to know.. Like what can I do for my boyfriend to get him to reveal everything he's feeling about me? Should I do something emotional? Please help me!!!

THANK YOU:)


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You've been dating for over a year...just be blunt with him. ask him what he feels. i mean, if you kept him around this long, love must be erupting :)


Hey ! (:
im 12 years old and im a girl im turning 13 in december and i have a guy friend who i've been hanging out with lately i guess im starting to like him alot and getting deep emotions for him. He could be mean but he just jokes around with me and we always hug and we kinda held hands once but i dont think it ment anything special to him like it did to me? i really like him and i wanted to ask him out but i dont wanna ruin our friendship or get rejected ): i dont know what i should do since i reallyy like him ): (link)
I've been dealing with the same thing lately. I know you don't want to ruin your friendship, but take risks. One way to find out how he feels about you is by simply asking him what he thinks about you. Try it, it wont hurt. I know you cant help what you feel, but the worst thing you could do is fall inlove with someone who is just a friend. I did that before, and he was just like your crush that your describing. Dont get too ahead of yopurself and overthink things. sometimes when we like people we see things that arent really there. Also, check out if he treats you differently than other people, this could mean your special to him in some way.




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