OK so I know this is pretty immature and kinda dumb but I'm 17 and I thought this guy was gay because he once said he was on Facebook but apparently he's not not only do I feel bad but now that I've learned more about him I really like him like I want to date him like him, but now I'm afraid he hates me Bc I thought he was gay. He doesn't know I like him mainly because I wouldn't know what to say and I'm scared to tell him. My best friend works with him and with all I know he's really sweet but I feel I totally blew any chance I had. I'm even more intimidated by telling him because he's in a band which I find extremely cool making me more nervous. I don't even know what to do.
Additional info, added Sunday November 13 2011, 6:59 am: Also when I was with my friend at her work when he was there he kinda joked with me about like trying 2 make me feel kinda embarrassed; not only did it work to where I couldn't even look at him much but when I was looking away he'd make funny faces at me causing my friend to laugh making it worse. So I couldn't tell if he just doesn't like me or he likes my friend or in some strange way he likes me too. Ever since he's been trying to prove to me he's not gay I just don't get it.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AliceEden answered Monday November 14 2011, 10:31 am: Slow down. if you want to know how he feels, try getting closer to him. if your afraid to ask him out, plan a group thingy in which you and him and a bunch of your other friends hangout. Make a move. depending on how things go, you can probably determine whether you should just get over him or keep pursuing. But dont chase after him, if he is interested in you, he should put in some effort too. [ AliceEden's advice column | Ask AliceEden A Question ]
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