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Would you date someone who has had sex friends (f buddies) before?
I have a question and its for both guys and girls. Would you date someone or be with them if they've had sex friends before?
Ive only been with one girl before and i waited till i was in love and saw a future and all that stuff but now (im in college btw) it seems like EVERYBODY is with a f buddy. Im all for love but sometimes it just takes too long to find it; so im asking girls and guys that have been in loving serious relationships would u date someone thats had f buddies before? Please put gender and age, thank u
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Female/16,
At my age every guy I know is pretty much having sex, whether it be with a girlfriend or as you called them f buddies. But honestly it doesnt bother me much. As long as they realize that once your in a relationship theres no f buddies on the side or anything. And sometimes for us girls your not getting any from us for a while. So in conclusion yes, as long as they are commited to the relationship they're in.
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Yes. I'm a 27 year old guy.
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That all depends
Some people would rather date someone who has experience in being in a relationship rather than having friends with benefits. One thing that would concern me if I dated someone who was like that is "How would I know they can be faithful enough to commit to me and not my friends?" I'm not saying they will cheat, I'm saying people who have had noting but friends with benefits their whole lives generally don't know anything but what it was. Friends with benefits earns it's title because the whole point of it is too remain "friends" and not develop feelings for the other person. If you think you can overcome the past and start fresh then go for it but if if you want peoples opinions......Mine would be probably not. I think people who get around and just fuck their buddies are really nobody that would take a relationship seriously when it comes to being intimate. Well, When it comes to certain things I tend to be a little rough around the edges so pardon my speech.
I tend to think people like that have a lack of respect for themselves because they would rather just fuck their buddies get it over with then to actually take the time to share it with someone they truly care about.
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female, at uni
completely, I've had both serious relationships and I've actually had a "friend with benefits" too. having a f*#k buddy is just a bit of fun - its like having one night stands but with someone you get on with - so no-one can say they don't want to date you because you have a sexual past.
Don't worry about it
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19f
Honestly, it depends, on the person and the history, everyone has had sex or some experiences but you have to chose what you accept and don't. If you have sex with the same person each time but not in a relationship I'd accept that so long as you stopped when we started dating (in fact when it was clear there was a spark from the talking id expect it to stop). That scenerio is fine because it's essentially a relationship, however, someone who just slept around with several people, I'd avoid them, at least sexually.
personally though, I wouldn't have a f buddy, sex isn't everything and it isnt the be all and end all, just have fun and do whatever feels right for you :)
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