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Location: Canada
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
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I want sex with my boyfriend but I'm lucky if I get a kiss of him. Im a girl and I only got my first bra today and I'm not finished with puberty I've snogged and my ex showed me how to have sex but he left my school my other ex dumped me for two girls in my class. My boyfriend isn't that serious and I want more but the ex that is still in school won't go back out with me. (link)
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Sorry sweetheart if you were looking for an answer from me telling you how to convince your boyfriend to have sex with you, you've come to the wrong place. I understand that at your age your hormones are going bonkers on you and getting physical seems like a "logical" and "mature" next step to take in a relationship but you aren't ready for that yet. You are barely out of puberty and have your entire life to have sex and fool around with guys but you should wait until you are older and more mature to handle something like that. And when you finally do have sex it should be with someone you care deeply about and you know he feels the same way back. I'm not saying wait until marriage or you are in love because that's not always realistic but make sure you are educated and safe. Especially someone as young as yourself should learn the risks of having sex too young or really at any time you decide to get intimate with someone , like pregnancy, std's etc.
If you still have strong sexual urges there are other ways to satisfy yourself (and trust me sometimes these way are a lot more skilled then the men you'll sleep with) such as with a vibrator or electric tooth brush (which you can buy at any store like walmart or shoppers) Please just think long and hard about what you are doing and with who, sometimes mistakes likes these can haunt you for life.
If you need anymore advice please feel free to message me :) hopefully I've helped.
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Here's a picture of me: http://i.imgur.com/e2uF7w6.jpg
I have a stupid haircut and i don't look good.
I have no idea what hairstyle would look good for me, but could someone tell me what hairstyle would look best with my face? Every time I've asked this, people have just made fun for how I look; I know I'm ugly, but I just want legitimate advice as to what would look good for me. (link)
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First off I wouldn't say you are ugly, you are a pretty good looking guy so I don't know why you've been told different. I think you would rock the short and spiked hair look
Example: http://menhairstylesmag.com/2014-spiky-hairstyles-for-men/short-spiky-hairstyle-for-man/
I think the shorter sides with the longer top with a front spike would really define your features
Hope this helped xoxo
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Once I have anal sex and it didn't slipper to my vagina, am I still a virgin? (Stressed) (link)
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It all depends. Everyone has their own idea of what virginity is, some say yes you are a virgin still because he never penetrated your vagina where as others say that you are no longer a virgin once you have any form of sex (oral, vaginal, anal). So it's up to you how you define virginity. In my opinion though, I believe anal or vaginal sex is losing your virginity. But like I said it's how you see it that matters.
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I've been in a relationship with a girl from overseas for almost two years. I'm a 26 y/o guy, and she's 24. She came with me here about a year and a half ago. I treat her well, romance her, buy her roses, bake her cakes, take her out when I have time, tell her that she's beautiful, help her look for work, and a lot with English.
Last year she started acting funny and talking about a guy, and I found out she cheated on me by looking at her phone, and reading her emails (Not saying this was right, just that I did it). I confronted her, but I never really felt she thought what she did was wrong. I promised not to look at her stuff again.
For the half year since then she's been using her phone a ton, and hiding it from me. Lately she has been getting calls and messages from the guy she cheated with on me again, so often that even though she doesn't want me to know, it's inevitable that I would see at some point. She gets pissed off over trivial things, she's stuck to her phone 24/7, we hardly ever have sex anymore, and sometimes I don't feel like she even wants to be here.
So I gave her time, and everything just felt kind of wrong. I broke my promise and checked up on her. She's still cheating on me, and things never really stopped. She tells me she's faithful, nothing has happened, and she loves me, but I know she's lying.
Recently she got offered her dream job in my country, and the contract process is happening fairly quickly. She's staying here on a Partner visa with me, and we live together. If I break up with her, she either has to leave within a month, or become illegal. Apart from that, it will obviously make my life more hellish for that month than it already is living with a person who you know is lying to you with a straight face, while making out with another guy. I know that she is planning to stay with me for the two years it will take for her to gain permanent residence, and then leave me for the guy she is cheating on me with.
In my country, you can only ever sponsor two people to be partners, and if your first partner is granted PR, the length your second one has to wait grows to 5 years, rather than just 2.
I don't know how to handle breaking up with her, and what to say to who, when. I don't want to be taken advantage of, or have my name smeared by this. Breaking up with her before she gets PR will pretty much destroy her whole life as she knows it. She quit her job to come here with me, which is kind of a black spot on her employment history in her home country. I feel angry and upset about what she has done to our relationship, but I'm still battling feelings of love for her, and I don't want to see her broken. I wish everything I know about what's happened could be a lie, but I know it's not, so I have to deal with it.
To complicate things, accepting the job involves costly medical and security checks for her, and may mean we consider moving. I'm at university, and I only just found this out, right before the exam period. I really don't want to think about this before exams, and I definitely don't want to break up with her just before my first exam, so I am putting it off, but I feel so guilty for "supporting" her through the process of getting checks and references for this job that I know will be difficult if not impossible for her to keep.
What would you do?
What should I tell her? The truth? Or that I've fallen out of love, but don't know why? Or that one of her friends told me the truth?
How do I deal with the stress of living together with this oblivious lying girl who tells me she loves me?
What should I do to handle the resistance that I'm likely to have to breaking up with her? She won't want to break up with me, because she wants PR.
Can you tell me some steps and the order in which I might do them?
Any other general advice about the situation that I haven't asked a specific question about is more than welcome.
Thanks in advance.
-Troubled (link)
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Alright so first off id just like to say that I'm very sorry for this to be happening to especially at a time like this with exams, as I know how a situation like this can effect a persons life. In all honesty I think you deserve so much better then this girl whether or not you are in love with her. I think that your best bet is to straight up break up with her. She doesn't have any right to treat you the way you say she does and to be using you to get her RP, just to turn around and leave you for this other guy is some serious bullshit. You should take her to a place where you know you guys will have time to talk it through and where you feel safe if she was to react badly (hostility can sometimes occur). And there sit her down and let her know that you are aware of her unfaithfulness and her plans to abandon you when she has had her fill. Then tell her that you are breaking up with her because you deserve someone who loves you just as much as you love them and whatever else you think is necessary to include. You don't owe this girl anything and if does mess her up that's her own damn fault for doing what she has. Stay strong my friend and don't let her guilt trip you into anything. As a girl I know that some women will break down crying and telling you how much they need you and how they never realized how good you were to them before but that's just crap. She will most likely try and feed you some sob story but please stand your ground you will be so much better off in the long run even though it'll hurt now. Dump her ass and let her be the other guys problem.
I really hope you find someone who will treat you as well as you have treated this women. Hope I've helped, feel free to message me if you need anymore advice. Good luck lovely :)
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Its been almost 3 years and they have had there good times and bad times but today i didnt talk to her because I didnt want to fight and when we spoke she kept fighting with me... I feel like dying because she is my life and i am so stressed out, what should I do? (link)
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Your best option here is to talk to her. Find a time when you both can just sit down and discuss everything that needs to be discussed. Tell her how you feel and that you don't want to continue to fight and that you want to try and find a way to fix it. If you never talk to her then she'll never know how you are feeling which will just make it worse in the long run. Hopefully I've helped xoxo if you have any other questions feel free to message me
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My friend found a baby kitten at her work and I ended up taking it because she couldn't. It looks about no more than 2 weeks. It can bearly hold its head up and shakes when it walks, its eyes are fully open and it fits in the palm of your hand. I have a bottle for it and it takes a few drinks then pushes away. How do you know how much to feed it? Do you know exactly how old it i? Do you know what I need to do for a kitten this young? Please help!!! (link)
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This has actually happened to me a few years back so hopefully I can be of some help. First thing first, take it to the Vet. He can give you an estimate of how old the kitten is and gender and all those other things. But as well he can tell you if it\'s healthy and what needs to be done for it. I believe I use to feed the kitten three times a day but the vet will be able to give you the majority of the details about caring for it. And if you don\'t wish to keep it then you can take it in to the SPCA. Taking care of a baby kitten though is a lot of work and you have to be willing to be up late and early to tend to it Hopefully I\'ve helped :) if you need anymore advice lovely feel free to inbox me.
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She dresses like a freak, does stupid things, sticks her tongue out like an idiot, appears naked in her music videos, and literally only sings one song these days. WTF? She used to be my role model, but now I hate that stupid bitch. I know Ariana Grande defended her, but she defends everybody. What my friends say about Mileys “wrecking ball" is,“good song, bad singer" what is wrong with her? (link)
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In all honesty I couldn\'t tell you what\'s going on in the crazy head of hers. My best guess is probably her trying to get away from the reputation of Disney channel and Hannah Montana, and she\'s just going about it all the wrong ways. I think what she does is really weird but I haven\'t seen anything she\'s done that has hurt anyone so she\'s not as bad as some. If that\'s rhe way she wants to express herself now, nothing we can really do about it. Hope I\'ve helped lovely xoxo
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my heart has been doing weird stuff so i was looking what can be wrong with the heart and it said "coronary artery disease" but i don't know what that means. can some one please explain so a 16 year old can understand? (link)
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I\'m very sorry to say that I don\'t actually know what it is, from what I understand I believe it\'s some sort of clogged artery but probably shouldn\'t take my word for it. Your best bet is to go consult a doctor about what might be wrong before going to the internet for answers. Usually it\'ll just make you more anxious and confused then you were in the first place. Hope you feel better lovely xoxo
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Which thing is best as a birthday gift for my daughter (5 years old)? (link)
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With a little sister of the age of 6, if she is anything like her she\'ll like littlest pet shops, bratz dolls, lalaloopsy dolls, or maybe Disney movies if she has the patience to sit and watch them. My little pony is also a really big thing she\'s into :) hopefully I\'ve help, good luck lovely :)
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I have a FAFSA loan thing that I have to do for school. Do you know how long I have until the deadline for it to be turned in? (link)
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I'm very sorry but I don't know when or where to turn it in. My only advice would be to call your school and speak to someone there who has that information
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is there any way to lose weight fast without hurting yourself? (link)
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There are fast ways however they probably aren't as fast as you'd want it too be. Healthy ways would to be to substitute what you normally drink with water, 6-8 glasses a day will help you drop about 5-10 in a few weeks but then you'll have to start excersizing an hour or two everyday and eat a lot of healthy things such as fruits and vegetables. If your looking for like a support group or something, weight watchers is a really great place to start. They teach you all the basics of healthy eating and loving what you do. It also allows you to enjoy junkie foods once in a while without hating yourself for it later. Hope I've helped lovely -3- good luck!
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Any good cites I could get porn free (link)
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Okay who actually cares if your under 18 and watching porn. It's better then having you going out and screwing everyone in site. Anyways I've found that these sites are AMAZING!
pornhub.com
brazzer.com
xxxvideos.com
redhub.com
Also if your into games if try
wetpussygames.com
^they also have some good videos
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you said(Of course it's not weird some people are just more comfortable wearing regular panties then thongs. I am one of those people as well. But actually real thongs, like the very good ones, don't get stuck. They just kinda of sit there. I would say try one on and see if you wanna wear those but if not there is nothing wrong with the regular ones. Hope I've helped :)
what do you mean by real thongs? really good ones?
dont they all just kind of get jammed in your butt? arnt there any panties that can be comfy and cool? (link)
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Well the thongs that get stuck are something called a g-string they are a lot smaller and skimpier. But actual thongs don't get stuck. And yes there are a lot of panties that are comfy and cool. You just gotta know where to look, I would suggest la senza or victory secret.
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s it weird that i just want to wear regular panties? all of my friends wear thongs like all the time now and they keep telling me i should to...but thongs look really uncomfortable i dont want anything stuck up my but im totally comfortable wearing my normal bikini panties...shud i try wearing thongs? (link)
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Of course it's not weird some people are just more comfortable wearing regular panties then thongs. I am one of those people as well. But actually real thongs, like the very good ones, don't get stuck. They just kinda of sit there. I would say try one on and see if you wanna wear those but if not there is nothing wrong with the regular ones. Hope I've helped :)
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my name is Chad Ryan
and I live in a residential care home in brighton
and I am 24 years old
where do you live do you know anyone in brighton I THAT I can have a relationship with I WANT to have a relationship with a man prferably in brighton
Love From Chad
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I'm sorry but I live a long way from brighton so no I dont know anyone :( but good luck with your search
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Kay I know InuYasha The Final Act came out on adult swim about a year ago but i missed EVERY EPISODE! sad right? well I've been looking everywhere for that version of it i know it was in High Quality because if it wasn't then they wouldn't show it. but i cant find that version anywhere else other than Veoh. But that includes downloading the Veoh video player and I'm not allowed to do that. does any one else know where i can watch High Quality videos that's not Veoh? (link)
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Hey I was in the same boat as you when it came out. But i ended up finding this website! This is a direct link to the final act:
http://www.gogoanime.com/category/inuyasha-the-final-act
This also has almost every other anime you can name as well.
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I have a question and its for both guys and girls. Would you date someone or be with them if they've had sex friends before?
Ive only been with one girl before and i waited till i was in love and saw a future and all that stuff but now (im in college btw) it seems like EVERYBODY is with a f buddy. Im all for love but sometimes it just takes too long to find it; so im asking girls and guys that have been in loving serious relationships would u date someone thats had f buddies before? Please put gender and age, thank u (link)
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Female/16,
At my age every guy I know is pretty much having sex, whether it be with a girlfriend or as you called them f buddies. But honestly it doesnt bother me much. As long as they realize that once your in a relationship theres no f buddies on the side or anything. And sometimes for us girls your not getting any from us for a while. So in conclusion yes, as long as they are commited to the relationship they're in.
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What can I use for masterbation?
14/f (link)
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Go into the shower and aim the shower head in the middle of the tub. Then lay on your back spread your legs and vag lips. The pressure from the shower feels sooo good. It bmight also work if you have a shower head that can be removed and aimed right between your legs
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Hello I like this boy on my street andi know
He likes me back he told his sister and his
Sister told me herself and everyone teases
Him! But Im starting to have feelings for him
And he's only 8 months younger than me I
Don't know what to do!!! (link)
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What are you waiting for! If he likes you go for it, the age difference isnt even close to something you should worry about. He's not that much younger than you, so go ahead talk to him. Go for it give it your best shot and hope it all works out!
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Hi I saw your answer to a question about masturbation and I liked your advice so do you think that a like hair brush would work like the end of it? Thanks let me know (link)
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Yes it should work for the mostr part. Seeing as I have a weird hair brush that the handle fold easily it would be smart seeing as if could pinch you "down there" But a regular straight handle should work. Looking at it it might be a bit big depending on your "experience level". But all and all its would work perfectly fine. If you have any questions on this topic or anyother topic feel free to inbox. I'd like to help ;)
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