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is it normal to feel this way?
i have been single for a little over a year and it's my senior year of high school. i just got over a crush and i'm feeling great and free about not having guys in my life to distract me. but my friends are all complaining about how lonely they are and how badly they want boyfriends. i feel like i'm the only one who's not upset about being single. for me it's like this; i have a job and a ton of homework. i have to worry about where i'm going to college and things like that during the winter cheerleading starts and that takes up all my time so i don't think i'll have time to keep a boyfriend. if i can't have time for myself, how am i going to possibly have time to have a boyfriend? i won't be opposed to having one if the right guy comes along and i'll tell him that i am a busy person and things might be complicated for us but until then, i don't care about having a boyfriend right now. idk is it ok for me to feel so calm about being single and not worried about getting a boyfriend anytime soon? i mean like i almost feel abnormal because i'm not crying every night because i don't have one...
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I think that it's perfectly normal to feel good about not having a boyfriend, it just means that you're focusing on your own life. I think that the reason why your friends are so down about not having boyfriends is because everyone reacts to things differently, and you might just be slightly more mature than them. I actually think it's good that you're focusing on other things other than boys, you should enjoy your life without worrying about having a boyfriend :).
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Some women think they need a a boyfriend to be happy. Everyone is different and it's smart (especially at this time in your life) to put yourself first. You've got a lot to look forward to. If someone happens to enter your life, great! If not, that's perfectly okay too. Enjoy your last year of high school and your upcoming years in college or whatever it is you're going to do.
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its completely normal, it just means that you are independant and don't need a man to be happy. some women aren't like that, but luckily you are.
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