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not sure what this tension is..


Question Posted Monday September 26 2011, 1:59 am

well. during my freshman year of high school, second semester, i started to like this guy and my crush went on for about 1year. during junior year of high school he got a girlfriend and i was pretty hurt so i tried to stop liking him or convince myself that i didn't like him anymore until i believed myself. so during the summer time, i wanted to ask him some question over something that had happened a while back. i didn't think he would actually respond since ever since he found out i liked him he would avoid me while before he would come and talk to me and joke around with me. anyway ever since school began (senior year) and after i asked him that question, he would start talking to me more and started to joke around with me a little bit. why would he start to do this now? and also everytime he comes near me, i start to get tense and uncomfortable, not wanting him to be around almost and i'm not sure why? what could this possibly be? hope you can help :)

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Additional info, added Monday September 26 2011, 2:08 am:
i start conversations with him also in yearbook and journalism because i feel like no one is taking his ideas seriously. i'm editor of the yearbook so i try to make sure that his ideas are considered so he doesn't feel worthless.. but if you can give me an idea of why he is starting to be slightly nicer to me after spending two years of avoiding me? (1 for me liking him and the other because of his girlfriend, which he didn't have by the time i asked my question).

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Xui answered Monday September 26 2011, 3:28 pm:
It could be you confronted him, Sometimes guys can be just like girls. They wait until they are approached.

Edit: The tension could be from the fact that you liked him and he was aware of it and went in a relationship anyway, I forgot to ask....Is this guy still in a relationship? If he is, It could also be that too. It would be wrong of him to try and date someone else if he is already in a relationship.

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