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Bf/best friend
I have been dating my bf for over three years. I love him, I really think I do. Most of the time I know I do and have no doubts about him. Is it bad though that I still have the ability to form close friendships with other guys and can sometimes even see a potential future with them? I feel badly about that bu I can't help it. Lots of my friends with boyfriends can't even see anyone else but that is not the case for me.
I also slept over my best guy friend's apartment two nights ago because my roommate was sleeping with his roommate. WE shared a bed and it was completely innocent and it was okay with my bf becaise they are friends...but i has a sex dream about him when I was sleepIng next to hkm in his bed! I can't control my dreams but do I have some subconscious thing
Goin on and what could it mean?
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First off,. You think you love him..
Like the previous advicer,. if you loved him you wouldn't have to guess or think about it. It would be yes i love him. No questions asked. But the fact you are thinking about other guys as potential future hubby's well that's a very very bad sign.
You should take some time and think about weither or not you actually want to be with your bf and not becasue you don't wanna be alone or for the fact that you want someone to have on the side to turn to.
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I'm just going to be blunt about this, if you're thinkong about futures with other men then you're not in love with your boyfriend. If you only think you love your bf, then you're not in love with him.
As for the sex dream that's no big deal, everyone has them and the person in them doesn't mean anything.
So what you do is up to you, whether you admitt to yourself that you're not in love and go your seperate ways or continue trying to make yourself fall in love (which never works)
Good luck x
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