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Sex?
Ok well i'm thinking of having sex with my boyfriend this weekend. I just finished my period yesterday. Im wondering how you get in the mood to have sex. And also, isnt itkind of akward when a guy has to stop to but on a condom? I just need advice on how to get in the mood and stay in the mood. This is pretty urgent.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Condoms?
Bring it to your boyfriend attention that you are wanting to have sex with him; make sure he wears a condom because you can get pregnant off of pre-nut, and unlike real nut, he can't feel it coming. Its often called the "OOPS!" factor.
Wear a sexy bra and panties, and have him go into the bathroom to put it on; and when he comes out, lay on the bed in your bra and panties, and start to make out, or begin oral. That way it doesn't kill the mood on either half.
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Wouldn't it kind of kill the mood or be awkward to hear a 2 month old infant start screaming when you were about to have sex again?
Condoms are necessary. Always.
It might be a moment or two wait while he slides the condom on but, seriously, it isn't going to kill the mood any more than a baby would. You don't want babies so you have to sacrifice a little time. If you "lose the mood" in less than a minute then there very well could be hormonal imbalance problems.
They're only 88% effective on preventing pregnancy but it's better than going bareback and hoping one of the little guys don't make it.
Making out usually leads up to sex. Really, that's what it's intended purpose for. There are also other "foreplay" additions like engaging in oral sex or mutual masturbation.
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I get in the mood by being alone with the guy, especially somewhere dark ;) Wear something sexy, to feel sexy. And then, once you two are alone start making out and touching each other. One thing will definitely lead to another and I know this will put you in the mood for sex. Have him take his shirt off and touch all over his body, I know this helps get me in the mood. And I'm glad you're not the only one who thought it would be awkward to stop when he was putting a condom on. I always thought, what would I do ..do you just sit there and watch do I do something myself..all this was running through my mind BUT to ease you're mind, it wasn't awkward at all! When we were getting in the mood, I said in a flirty voice, do you have a condom and just smiled? He said yea, and then he got off while he was on top of me so we were laying side by side in the bed and I just layed there, rubbed his arm/started kissing his body ..and then we got to it. You have to keep yourself occupied with him so it won't be awkward when he's putting it on. If you just sit there and stare at him, it may be a bit awkward. But it will only be awkward if you make it and really, it doesn't take all that long to put it on!
Hope this helped you be more comfortable, it's never as bad or awkward as you picture it could be :) Just have fun and relax! If you need anything else, don't be a stranger. Inbox!
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If your not in the mood, and don't know how to get in the mood, you're not ready for sex. e in your
It makes a HUGE difference in your enjoyment and comfort.
If you think stopping to put on a condom is awkward, how awkward do you think it will be to tell him you got an STD or tell your Mom that you're pregnant?
Please rethink this.
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Four play is the best way to start off. Making out and having him finger you and maybe you feel on his dick. when he goes to put on a condom if you feel like your going to loose your mood ask him to multitask and apply the condom while he continues to finger you. HAVE FUN!!!
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