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what am i here for ????
Ill start out by saying I work work two jobs and I bust my ass just to make my wife happy its like all she thinks about is money .one job I have is not a steady scedual it has its peaks and lowes if it rains can't work if it even looks like its gooing to rain people don't come in for business so I get sent home early .but the days we have good weather we get bussy .I make hourly plus tips and sometimes the tips are pritty good but my wife will always ask if I maid tips today like why should it matter to her when both my paychecks go to the bank but anyways I tell her my tips where fair .and there is times she wants to hold my tips like I'm not responsable enough to do it myself .its my money anyways .she works also .but when I get sent home early or don't get to work at all she will always ask me did you get to work today ? And I'm beggining to wonder if I'm just here for a paycheck .what do you think ?
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I agree with the first answer and would like to add. If you're really wondering about just being there for a paycheck, look at how she treats you when you don't bring in as much money. Talking to her about the problem will be most beneficial. If she is questioning about you getting to work it may be because she doesn't fully trust what you are doing with the money. If so, then reassure her that you are working hard and doing it because you want to see her happy and that money isn't everything.
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It doesn't sound to me like your wife is taking advantage of you. It sounds like she's just wondering about your finances.
Does your wife do the budgeting, or handle the money? It's a role that many women take on in a relationship that isn't recognized. That would explain why she wants to know what's coming in.
Personally, I want to know if we've got extra money coming in, or a little less. I do the budgeting, and I'm better at organizing our finances, so I need to know about every little bit.
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