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how do i ask him?
Okay so I've had a crush on this boy brian pretty much since the day I met him.. which was about a year and a half ago..we've been hooking up for the past year on and off..sometimes drunk sometimes sober.. I really want to ask him how he feels toward me because I honestly don't believe its solely physical..how do I go about asking? I need it to be casual, I'm so nervous! Thanks
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A year? And no talk about feelings. Stop hooking up and start talking NOW. If he is playing you, you need to know sooner rather than later.
Try not to be nervous. Guys like strong, confident girls. If he is playing you, give him a quick slap for all the girls who have been played by sleezy guys. Thanks
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If it's been a year and aaa alf and he hasnt mentioned to you about being commited then it sounds like your eing played so you need to plain out ask him is this all for sex or do u actually like me
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If you two have been hooking up on and off for a year or so and he hasn't confessed to anything yet, I wouldn't be surprised if you asked him and he told you he thought it was just a hookup. The best way to go about it, is just one day while you're talking ask him if you could ask him a serious question without it being weird or ruining your friendship. Then just say something like, do you have any feelings toward me, besides sexually? There's really no other way you can ask him.
He might also just be nervous to tell you his feelings honestly, so he might be hoping secretly that you ask him. If he does like you, he might think YOU are the one who just wants a sexual relationship. Some boys are like that. But it really depends on the type of person he is.
Hope this helped! Good luck :)
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Don;t be blunt. Boys are stupid and don't like to dig around the bush. They like girls who just tell them straight up, so thats the best way to do it. Don;t be nervous It sounds to me he's into you.
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