Hi my names Nikki..i love to give people advice on almost anything.Sometimes I can be brutal with my answers but I speak my mind and give my opinon. I help people look at life from a different perspective. So if you need an answer let me know ill give you one!
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I used to be with this guy for 2 years.. and he fucked me over badly, he left me and didnt want a relationship anymore, i wont lie we were too controlling , i dont understand why he did that but i admit that it was wrong of both of us for being like that, we never even let eachohther have friends from the opposite gender it was so stupid,.. anyways after the breakup i realized how stupid i was and he did too, he cme back to me, said he regret it, and wants to be togethr, im stupid and ofcourse gave in, but didnt get with him yet, i told him it was gonna take alot of time to gain his trust, he told me hell wait til whenever i need, and then when i told him i was ready he told me to give it time, that im rushing stuff, he feels like we have nothing in common anymore, after 2 YEARS? we have nothing in common? just because he met other people, but we agreed to just give it time, he started calling me baby again, tell me he loves me, and were always talking on BBM 24/7.. he has not even talked about us for a while, were growing closer but he still hasnt talked about it, my question is.. i dont wanna get SO attached to him like i used to be.. and i got so hurt and heartbroken i cant even explain it, and i wanna finish it up, either were together or not, how do i bring this up, SHOULD i bring this up with him ? what do i say? its not fair that he left me and now wants to give it time.. its not fair to me, and i cant take going everyday wondering if im talking to him all the time and its not leading to anything, i need advice on what to do and what to say, i get really nervous when it comes to him. i feel like he has the upper hand, and i want to have more power, please help me.. thank you to anyone who took the time (link)
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Me and a guy did that for 5 years straight..so I know what im talking about lol...just tell him you would like to know when hell be ready for next step and how he feels about the relationship...often when being together that long and breaking up the guy finds other girls who are completely different so he likes not being tied down cause he was for years but if he truly loves you he might wanna take it slow so he dont hurt you agian
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I really want to give this guy a blowjob but something is just telling me not to. What should I do? (link)
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If somethings telling you not to dont thats an instinct that souldnt be ignored and if you do it anyway youll prob regret it
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hi .... there are two things i dont like much of my personality i am a shy person and very honest, i do tell lies but never to my parents i always follow their rules. i am a teen and my firends always tell me is fine to lie to them but i just dont feel good by lying and its really frustrating because i feel like i am total geek and about the shy thing i just sometimes when i met people especially guys,dont know how to begin or end a conversation please help me should i change? how can i begin a conversation???
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Okkay never change who you are to impress people if you do change do it for your self. IF your around a guy start by saying hey and smile that will start the convo. I agree about lying to your parents its ok some of the time but on things you know they would disapprove of you shouldnt.
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Hey, :)
Okay, so I like this guy at my school. He is 2 years older than me. He knows me just by name. But he's just driving me crazy. I just like really like him. My best friend is his best friend too, So i asked him if he could hook me up with him? and my best friend says he's out of my league. My friends say my best friend likes me, but that doesn't matter to that much. I just really want that guy to like me. What should I do? (link)
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Okkay well if your best friend likes you the other guy might know and not want to stab his friend in the back i mean its guy code. If hes two years older than you maybe he thinks your to young for him and he wants to be with someone closer to his age which alot of guys do. So drop him hints you like him but dont push it and dont let it come between you and your friend cause you could loose a friend and the guy you like both.
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17/f.
There's a guy I like and he asked me out today... but he's got some issues with his past and sees a counselor. That's not too bad I guess, tons of people are like that. What is a biggie is that that in addition to his temper and the fact he went suicidal last time a girl broke up with him.
I do care about this guy a lot as my friend, and feel sparks of attraction, but it seems like a dangerous situation to be in, to be his girlfriend. If we were to break up, I do NOT wanna deal with the possibility of a crazy stalker ex.
More than anything it's just my gut telling me that he's more unstable than he seems, not actual evidence. I don't know what to do. I'm worried if I say no things will be bad. Yet he's also told me it'll be fine if I say no because we'll still be friends...
What should I do? (link)
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Tell him you want to take it slow and see what happens that you done want to be in a committed relationship right now. He might of tried suicide because he really loved the girl and they were together a long time theres many reasons and it doesnt mean hell be like that agian.
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I got my period 10 1/2 months ago. How do i tell my mom i got my period. I really need help.
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i know its embarrassin but yourr moms been through it to so just tell here shell understand
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I started to realize my friend who I became friends with at the beginning of the school year is a complete loser. She looks like she has a mustache and she doesn't use common sense. She's really ugly, annoying, and hangs out with complete losers.
One of my friends dumped me last year because of popularity and I wasn't popular, I'm not popular, I probably never will be, but I will be considered a 'cool geek'.
Okay here is why I don't want to be her friend:
~She has a mustache and wears boots every day, not cute boots but horse riding boots or what looks like those kinds of boots.
~She has a mustache
~She went out with a complete loser
~She doesn't use common sense
~Is friends with other losers, one of which looks like a hippy
~She calls me her 'gym buddy'
~SHE WATCHES SOAP OPERAS(and in seventh grade)
~She doesn't have a facebook, cell phone, or email.
So how do I dump her without hurting her feelings? I've been kind of ignoring her lately. . .why should I do?!! Also all of he losers I mentioned are losers according to everyone except heir 'friends'. Oh and we are in seventh grade 13 years old she is 12 though. (link)
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ok for one thing just because shes different then you doesnt make her a loser...maybe she doesnt have a cell phone or anything cause her parents wont allow her to i know parents can be strict in not having a cell phone does not make you a loser.and the boots thing maybe she likes them maybe that is her only pair of shoes you dont know so you shouldnt judge and judging her makes her better than you i wouldnt want to be friends with someone that judges me for what i have or what i look like in if you keep that attitude one day you wont have any friends...i was popular n school i was a cheerleader in i talked to everyone simple fact theres always someone better than you at something might not be looks but sounds like shes a better person...but if u really wana b like that just tell her that you dont wana b friends ause your lives are headed in different directions
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Okay i am 19/m and she is 16/f. I need an idea on what to do for valentines day. I'm not a poet..been there tried that, and i'm in a financial bind at the moment, so it's not like i can buy her something nice. Every christmas and her birthday, i do something special and get her an extravagent gift..but this year is going to have to be different and she understands that, i just feel horrible that i can't get her anything nice. hell..i don't even have the money to buy her roses.. I would love to sit down and spend time doing something for her i just have no idea what i can do..plz..help (link)
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okkay every girl likes a romantic take her some where you two can be alone have a few candles set out make her something for dinner have it ready when you take her to the place after go to the room with candles and give her a back massage if not take her some where peaceful and talk and have a small picnic
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I'm asking this for my friend who is too chicken to do this himself. He and his girlfriend of one year and 14 days broke up. She broke up with him. They were doing the the long distance. After our first semester of college she broke up with him saying that she was too busy and join so many clubs and whatever. He didn't want to break up. So now next semester he is still into her. Everytime he's one facebook he looks at her wall posts, who she added as friend, and new pictures. Its kind of creeping me out. So what should i do or say to help move on? I'm running out of ideas, Help! (link)
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well he needs to get out and realize how much fun you can have being single...trying to move on from someone you love is hard but everything happens for a reason in if he keeps it up hes just gonna make his self miserable and very depressed trust me ik so show him how much life has to offer even without someone by his side
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I am suffering from bipolar disorder. I cannot concentrate on one thing. Because at one moment i feel that it is a very good thing and i get very much interested and the next minute i get bored from that thing and get least interested in that thing. I want to stop that task at that time and want to do something different. The same thing happens with that task also and evenually i keep bouncing from one task to the other, be it studies or any other thing, any thought. It goes with money, girls, internet, everything. For example, At once i get interested in making money, i make many plans of making money, read as many articles as i can, and am very very interested. Then after few minutes i get bored and come to the conclusion that making money is not a good thing or is a very boring thing. Then i go making girlfriends. Same thing happens with it. Eventually i waste my time doing nothing worthwhile. Please help. (link)
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my advice to you is to get in touch with a counselor maybe to get some medication alot of people have this problem and it is very easy to get help for it. best of luck
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what do girls use to wash down there? i've been using regular bar soap since forever and i think i should switch, but what do i use instead? (link)
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bar soap works but so does douching less smelling and very clean
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Ok so I have been masterbating for about 2-3 months and its making me feel horiable like i stop a day or 2 at a time then just start up again i realy need help i know people will say its good for you but it makes me feel horiable plz help (link)
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i know what yoou mean you like it but afterwards you feel terrible and stuff you can just stop or relize everyone does it it isnt a bad thing at all if its good then do it nothins shameful about it
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I don't think I'm bisexual or anything becase I only enjoy physical pleasure with girls but lately I've been wanting to kiss girls but I don't know how to apporoach it, because I act like I don't want to kiss a girl when I do and I have a friend who is like to kiss girls too but I don't want people to know that I make out with girls and that I'm bisexual when I'm not how canno havefun with girls without people judging me as lesbian or bisexual when I only
enjoy making out in general with boys or girls? I have not French kissed with anyone for long time now and I've been wanting to make out but I can't seen to find a girl to make out with, or I haven't had a bf in a while because I like to have fun and flirt with others so I thought it wouldn't be a good idea what should do? (link)
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girls are fun to make out with im 18 and made out with my best friend im not bi or a lesbian buut people will and always will judge but its fun in it aint a bad thing so do it who cares what people say...best of luck
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So, I am 18f and I have a boyfriend that is 18 as well. He lives about 40 minutes from me so I like it when I have time to drive to his house or for him to drive to my house. The one thing I wish we could do more, is sleep at eachothers houses. He has never slept over at my house, but I have slept at his house about four times now. We have been dating for about four months, I have known him for seven. His parents don't want him sleeping over at a girls house or a girl sleeping at their house near eachother. The first few times I was at his place we were three floors apart and then the next few times we were on the same floor, but in separate rooms. I just think, it is not like we are having sex, because we never have. Also, I would hope that his parents trust us or should I say me. We just want to spend more time with eachother and by being able to stay over and not have to drive home late at night, we can lay beside eachother and talk/cuddle/fall asleep together. Its just easier and more enjoyable, you know? What are some things we can do to make our time together more valuable? I really wish his parents would let us stay over at eachothers so that we could spend the whole weekend together and not just one afternoon. He is in Uni and we both have jobs. Please help me with some ideas, thanks!
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your both 18 so rent a hotel room for a night or two...you wont have any parents around and you could spend all the time you wanted together
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I started dating this guy freshman year (last year) when I was fourteen. He was a sophomore and sixteen. Well, we had a pretty good relationship in the begining. We had fun and laughs and he made me feel special and all that jazz... Well after about two months of dating, while we would be making out, he would slip his hand down my pants. And I'd pull it out... He'd put it back, and I'd pull it out... and it just kinda went like taht. We never really talked about it... then one night I don't know what happened but I just let him finger me... And I dunno, it didn't feel like a big deal at the time. After that things in our relationship started changing. He got a lot more possessive and mean and I became a whipped little puppy dog to him. I would do whatever he said and that's NOT the kind of person I am... I really really liked him though for some reason. To the point where I fell in love with the guy. It was a strange love but I DID care deeply about him... He continued to finger me when we'd hook up and eventually around month four he started asking for handjobs. And I'd keep saying no becuase I dont know, I was fourteen and I just wasn't ready for that. Well.. One day he basically just pulled down his pants, grabbed my hand and started making me rub his dick. I tried to pull my hand away, at least I think I did, but I couldn't. Either because his grip was too hard or because I was just so shocked that he did that. Then I started crying... and he let go but we didn't even talk abotu it! I just let him get away with it, I don't knwo why I was such a stupid stupid idiot. Month six rolls around he wants a bj... No, no, no. I kept saying no but he would aslmost try and perseude me. He'd say things like "If you loved me you'd want to make me happy. And I make you feel good but it's completely one sided." I started to just feel so guilty (and he had me so whipped) that I just did it... God you have no idea how much I wish I coudl take it back. I was sooo stupid! He dumped me four days later. He said he didn't even like me anymore but he wanted the bj before we split. He said he only stayed with me for the last three months cuz he liked the physical part of me. He told all his friends and basically the entire school, "she put out. We'd make out aaall the time and she gave me head". And I guess I deserved that... I was stupid for believing him. And letting him just used me like that. I just can't over this... I'm still hurting and I don't know how to make it go away. All of that physical stuff made me SO connected to him. And I was so owned by him that I don't even feel like my own person anymore and it's been like five months since we've broken up... I like this new guy but now that we've started kissing and stuff I feel so... Ugh I don't know. I just can't get over what happened and I don't want to trust guys... or myself. And as crazy as it is... I still like my ex... Whats wrong with me?! Can anyone please talk some sense into me. I don't even know what I'm asking withthis question I'm just lost and I don't know what to do... Please help. (I'm fifteen, sophomore) (link)
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okkay even though he used you when a guy is your first for that kinda stuff you will always kinda have feelings toward him but this guy used you move on and you never trust a guy completely never do what you dont want to even if he gets mad stand your ground do something when your ready not them.....best of luck
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do fake loition tans work on tan skin too? i naturally have a fairly dark olive skin tone, but i need a little more color for an upcoming event and i want to avoid tanning beds. but do those at home tanners work on already pretty dark skin? if it helps im using the neutrogena build a tan kind. will it add on to my skin tone or make it a new color all together? (link)
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yes just make sure you do a lil research on a product before using it some cause siide effects to change the color orange
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look, all my friends cut them selfs all the time right, and i have always known it was wrong!
but one day i was so very low and the only thing i could think of doing was cut myself, i did not use a knife or anything that sharp for that matter and the cut was not that deep,i thought it would heal soon after i did it,
but its turned into a scar :(
i dont need any responces saying its bad to cut myself as i know this and i will never do it again (belive me)
but the scars are on the upside of my arm near the bottom they have healed and they are sorta white ish you know.
and i was wondering if you knew any ways to get rid of them or make them not that noticeable as i am a little bit taned they stand out more,
please tell me anything that works please :)
and whats the best thing to get
thankyou
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it should go away after time but until then try covering it up with a bracelet, hairband anything including sum make up to hide it trust me i know i have huge scar on my wrist and i have to hide it everyday of my life
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Is it a bad thing if i never got my cherry popped? (link)
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NO! stay a virgiin till you meet the right guy and fall in love trust me if you lose it to the wrong guy you will regret it the rest of your life
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hey so on facebook there was a guy who messaged me and he told me he went to a school in the same city as me. his name was Danny Spencer. and i blocked him. well this is going to sound dumb but i unblocked him and he messaged me. i didn't think he would but he did and i asked him who he was and apparently he goes to community college with me but i don't think I've ever seen him. i blocked him when he replied. and today i got on facebook and one of my old friends went to school with and on her facebook she said dear Danny Spencer leave us all alone, and there were a few other girls who said that he tried to contact him. and one girl said he kept texting her. i asked my friend on her status who he was and she said that he's some white guy who looks like a drowned rat and thinks he's black. well my concern is what if i see him at school and he starts talking to him? or what if i happened to see him what should i do? i know the chances of him going to school with me are slim because people make stuff up on facebook, but he's creepy. i don't have any information on my facebook like where i live or my phone number on there so he can contact me, but i am scared what should i do? (link)
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if h keeps messaging yoou nd you are scared contact the police and the school give his name plus number and tell them the situation the should be able too handle it
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i need hellppp and i dont know what i do
i work at a place that i realllly enjoy and i love all my coworkers. i've been working here for about a month but last week i got offered a job at another place where this guy that i have always liked works. We have always been friends but never anything more, and i was really excited to work with him and see him alot more. But the job is really boring and pays alot less. its not about the money but for so many other reasons i want to stay at my first job but everytime i think im going to turn down the second, i see the guy and imagine how fun it would be working with him, i dont know what to do, should i stay at the job that i love? or quit and work with the guy who i have always had a crush on???
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Stay at the job you love if you go to the job were your crush is and something goes wrong like he gets a girlfriend or something youll end up regreting it
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