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my personality... should I change?
hi .... there are two things i dont like much of my personality i am a shy person and very honest, i do tell lies but never to my parents i always follow their rules. i am a teen and my firends always tell me is fine to lie to them but i just dont feel good by lying and its really frustrating because i feel like i am total geek and about the shy thing i just sometimes when i met people especially guys,dont know how to begin or end a conversation please help me should i change? how can i begin a conversation???
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Okkay never change who you are to impress people if you do change do it for your self. IF your around a guy start by saying hey and smile that will start the convo. I agree about lying to your parents its ok some of the time but on things you know they would disapprove of you shouldnt.
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That's definately a no-no.You never change who you are.Don't let your friends pressure you into doing anything you don't feel comfortable about doing.And maybe the guy's just as scared as you are.But you can start by talking about mutual things.
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WHAT?! no way.. dont change the way you are , trust me please keep it the way you are. This planet needs more honest and shy people. You have special qualities and you should be proud of it. You can tell so much from your personality that you have. Dont change a thing. And to being a conversation... first like usually should be a hey or hi... then how are you , hows your day, what are you up to , what are you doing, whats up, and then just start talking about something depending on where you guys are :)
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Honestly, you should not change the fact that you an honest person. That's a very good quality and when people realize that, they will also realize that you are good friend. No, it's not good to lie to your parents, but some people do it anyway. It's all right to be shy, I'm totally shy too! When I talk with someone, I usually say something kind of random that makes people go 'whaaaat?' Then I explain it a little more and before ya know it, there's a conversation going about something random! Haha, sometimes even simple things, like "So, what's up?" Are good conversation starters. Just carry on from there, like if they say:
"Eh, I'm feeling a bit upset. I lost my iPod." Just respond naturally. Be yourself! I know it's a little hard and you probably blush, maybe fidget a little because I do that too, but then after a while, it goes away and you feel more casual. Don't tense up or anything. Relax. The other person is probably trying to communicate with you and if you're relaxed, they'll be relaxed. And for the record, geeks are pretty awesome ;)
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