hey so on facebook there was a guy who messaged me and he told me he went to a school in the same city as me. his name was Danny Spencer. and i blocked him. well this is going to sound dumb but i unblocked him and he messaged me. i didn't think he would but he did and i asked him who he was and apparently he goes to community college with me but i don't think I've ever seen him. i blocked him when he replied. and today i got on facebook and one of my old friends went to school with and on her facebook she said dear Danny Spencer leave us all alone, and there were a few other girls who said that he tried to contact him. and one girl said he kept texting her. i asked my friend on her status who he was and she said that he's some white guy who looks like a drowned rat and thinks he's black. well my concern is what if i see him at school and he starts talking to him? or what if i happened to see him what should i do? i know the chances of him going to school with me are slim because people make stuff up on facebook, but he's creepy. i don't have any information on my facebook like where i live or my phone number on there so he can contact me, but i am scared what should i do?
AdviceMistress answered Sunday October 31 2010, 6:29 pm: I wouldn't worry too much about bumping into him. There have been many people claiming they went to my high school and they don't. I would block him and keep him blocked don't bothering replying to him anymore because like you said you don't know who it could be. Block him and ignore him! If there continues to be anymore trouble with "Danny Spencer" bring it to the attention of an adult or even to your school! [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
Lola answered Sunday October 31 2010, 5:18 pm: You shouldn't worry at all, he's just a pathetic person with no life, and he wants to make friends with anyone. He isn't a psycho apparently, since he's already contacted so many other girls before, and nothing happened to them thank god. Since they are simply writing to him on facebook to leave them alone, then its nothing serious, if it was something serious, they would've told their parents, or an older responsible person. But apparently, he's just a stupid guy, and like you said, they saw him, and they say he looks stupid, so obviously when they saw him, nothing happened. So if you see him, ignore him completely, and if he tries to talk to you, tell him to leave you alone and that you're not interested, and if he ever tries to contact you again, you'll tell someone and you'll pull him out of college, and threaten that your parents know the dean of college or something and are friends, so you can really do that, you know, and if he still tries to talk to you, tell someone older like your parents, or someone responsible in college.
And you should take that as a lesson not to add or accept requests from people you don't know, online people are freaks, and it was wrong when you unblocked him after you had blocked him, you should never trust a complete stranger, even if he says he's in the same class with you. [ Lola's advice column | Ask Lola A Question ]
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