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How can I stop being this girl's friend without crushing her?
I started to realize my friend who I became friends with at the beginning of the school year is a complete loser. She looks like she has a mustache and she doesn't use common sense. She's really ugly, annoying, and hangs out with complete losers.
One of my friends dumped me last year because of popularity and I wasn't popular, I'm not popular, I probably never will be, but I will be considered a 'cool geek'.
Okay here is why I don't want to be her friend:
~She has a mustache and wears boots every day, not cute boots but horse riding boots or what looks like those kinds of boots.
~She has a mustache
~She went out with a complete loser
~She doesn't use common sense
~Is friends with other losers, one of which looks like a hippy
~She calls me her 'gym buddy'
~SHE WATCHES SOAP OPERAS(and in seventh grade)
~She doesn't have a facebook, cell phone, or email.
So how do I dump her without hurting her feelings? I've been kind of ignoring her lately. . .why should I do?!! Also all of he losers I mentioned are losers according to everyone except heir 'friends'. Oh and we are in seventh grade 13 years old she is 12 though.
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you say your friend dump you last year, how did you feel? and now you want her to feel the same way you did?
that isn't really something i would recommand you doing. friends are suppose to accept each other as they are and that is what you should do. There are friends that would always be there for you, and she is one of them...
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You shouldn't dump her just because you care to much of what others think of you. That's not nice. She's probably had your back from the beginning, don't drop it with her now that she is more of a nerd then she used to be.
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ok for one thing just because shes different then you doesnt make her a loser...maybe she doesnt have a cell phone or anything cause her parents wont allow her to i know parents can be strict in not having a cell phone does not make you a loser.and the boots thing maybe she likes them maybe that is her only pair of shoes you dont know so you shouldnt judge and judging her makes her better than you i wouldnt want to be friends with someone that judges me for what i have or what i look like in if you keep that attitude one day you wont have any friends...i was popular n school i was a cheerleader in i talked to everyone simple fact theres always someone better than you at something might not be looks but sounds like shes a better person...but if u really wana b like that just tell her that you dont wana b friends ause your lives are headed in different directions
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Please, for her good, stop being friends with her!
You're right. She does hang around with losers. Losers who will dump a friend because of some unfortunate facial hair and the fact that she doesn't communicate electronically. Losers who think it's more important to be popular than it is to be a decent human being.
I was one of those "losers" back in the day. You should be careful how you talk about them... the "losers" from my high school are now engineers and computer programmers. I ran into one of the popular girls working at a retail shop recently.
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No offense but you're gonna end up being one of those stuck up girls that nobody likes if you keep this kind of stuff up.
She might not wear the cutest clothes or be the prettiest girl but you don't need to judge someone because of what she looks like or what other people say about her.
If those are the reasons why you don't want to be her friend, then you have some stuff to figure out.
Popularity isn't everything.
You said one of your friend dumped you because you weren't popular. You wouldn't want those kinds of friends. Why would you want to be that way towards someone else?
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Okay, personally I think that is very mean. You should not care what other people think about you, or your friend. If your friend is nice to you, then you should not have a problem. Soon enough, you'll be at a stage where you have no one to go to because of the way you think of people. You will finally turn to that girl and say.."i'm sorry" But, if you do, she will probably not accept because of the way you think of her. But, that is only if she knows about what you think of her. That's just some ways you can still be her friend. And, to tell you the truth..after that, I hope you realize..Who care's if I look like a total geek hanging out with this girl! You will realize, she's the true friend here..
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Haha wow. Your an immature child. In 5 years your going to realize who is your real friends and who isn't. Treating someone like how you are saying you want to is so wrong it actually makes me sick. If you don't want to be fronds with someone straight up tell them. Don't be a wuss about it. I hope one day you realize how horrible this question is.
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