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Hi! Help me please! You'd be doing me a solid.♥
I'm Spencer, female, 17, college freshman. So, there's this guy I like, he's my classmate. I've kind of liked him for a month now and for the past few weeks I've been trying my hardest to do all the right moves but somehow I don't feel like I've progressed. But despite that, I don't wanna give up. But I don't even know what to do.
So this guy I like, he's 18, college freshman and we have 3 classes together. But we also have friends in those classes. About our relationship, well we've known each other since the schoolyear started but we belong to different groups. We're not like, 'oh we're friends and we're nice to each other', no, he actually likes to bully and joke around with people (me included). I always try my best to make small talk with him or something but sometimes I fail or sometimes I succeed (for like a day and then never again).
So please help me? I'm out of ideas and I just realized I don't even have much of a plan to win this guy over. I've put on makeup for him, watched his favorite show (men wrestling btw) just so I could talk to him about it, punch him lightly just to get his attention, IDK anymore. So, advice? Please? Pretty please with a cherry on top?:(
P.S. Every Monday I get an opportunity to be alone with him. We walk together to our next class because we're in the same building. That's roughly 8, 10 minutes? I've tried to like converse with him but usually I'd just ask and he'd just answer. Conversation ended. Then it'd be super awkward. I don't wanna sound desperate, asking another question over another after every answer like an interview (is that desperate?) so sometimes I just allow the silence between us. Any advice on how to maximize my opportunity here??
P.P.S. We have PE together. His partner's a girl and I can't help but feel jealous when they're talking, laughing, seemingly having fun. But at the same time, I don't think I can intervene because we perform by different groups. Maybe I'm just paranoid but I don't wanna lose to her or whatever. Advice in this area would be great too.
Sorry if that was long. But I honestly need help!:( Any great advice would be incredibly awesome (and if I succeed, I promise to let you all know). So please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please,
PLEASE HELP ME! God rewards good people..:)) JK, but seriously though! I need your help!
Thank you in advance! You guys are awesome.♥
xoxo,
Spencer
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Well, If he hasn't showed any sign of really being into you, maybe he's not. It may be disappointing to hear, but, maybe he knows that he's not the guy for you, you know? We don't want you hurt in the end. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and this guy my not be the fish for you...[;
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I'm asking this for my friend who is too chicken to do this himself. He and his girlfriend of one year and 14 days broke up. She broke up with him. They were doing the the long distance. After our first semester of college she broke up with him saying that she was too busy and join so many clubs and whatever. He didn't want to break up. So now next semester he is still into her. Everytime he's one facebook he looks at her wall posts, who she added as friend, and new pictures. Its kind of creeping me out. So what should i do or say to help move on? I'm running out of ideas, Help! (link)
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You should probably confront him by telling him that looking at everything she does won't help him get over her. He has to try and stop thinking about her to help get over her!
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I have this really good friend, we're both girls and in 9th grade and her little sister, a few grades lower, thinks we're also close friends. I like her and all but she's always inviting herself over and keeps asking when I say no or hang on or I don't know, and when she does come over she eats my food, bullies my brother and doesn't listen to my parents. She also argues with her sister when they're over and doesn't listen to us. I don't want to hurt her feelings because she's kinda my friend but what should I do? (link)
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Usually you can solve this problem by basically confronting her. Maybe say something like this; I'm really sorry, but, whenever your here, you never listen to me, or my parents and you eat all my food and bully my brother and I do not like it. OR maybe; I'm sorry but everytime your here you don't listen to us and your mean to my brother AND you eat all the food and I really don't like the way you act in my house. Which, may seem a little harsher. But, deiantly tell her!
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I'll try to keep it short. One day, I was playing games on my boyfriend's phone when I noticed a series of texts from this girl (we have tons of mutual friends so I was wondering why I didn't know this girl). I went through the texts and I didn't like what I saw. Texts like "smart is sexy", "hanky panky is a fun exercise ;)", etc. were in there and I got really angry. I confronted him about it, but he didn't seem concerned at all. He casually mentioned he's known this girl for a while and they've always joked around like that and it wasn't a huge deal. I'm old fashioned and I see it as a mild form of cheating. Am I overreacting or should I be worried? Thanks so much guys in advance. (link)
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You are not overreacting. I would feel this way too. Although, if he is saying they joke around like that, that's okay. But, if you notice anything wierd, you should defiantly be concerned.
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So, a friend told me that files you delete aren't entirely wiped off your computer; traces of them remain on your computer "so computer geeks can tap into them later". Is this true? If so, how the hell can I get rid of them? I'm really pressed for space as it is, I don't want deleted files lurking in my hard drive. >.> (link)
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If you go into your trash, you can completely wipe them off.
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I'm a 15 yr. old girl. My cousin is also 15. He has been fighting with me a lot lately and he's gotten closer to our 16 yr. old girl cousin. I feel a little left out because she and I were close at one point. Now my boy cousin is treating me like crap for no reason. He told me he wants nothing to do with me but when I ignore him he gets mad. I have asked him what the problem is and he tells me he doesn't know. I dont want to tell him how i feel about being left out because he will tell our other cousin who isn't close to me anymore. please help me. I'm out of options and I hate being treated like this. (link)
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You should actually probably tell him.."Look, I really don't know why your treating me like this but, when I ignore you, you get mad, you don't know why your treating me this way and i want you to know that it's really been hurting me." If you say that, he will probably realize that he shouldn't be doing this.
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F/15I have told my parents I was thinking of having sex for he first time with my boyfriend we've been dating for about 5 monks and He is really sweet my parents agree with me and hy say it is ok to have sex with Alejandro (boyfriend) I don't understand why they said yes but me and my boyfriend are pretty happy abou them saying yes along as we use protection why did my parents say yes I dnt get it (link)
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Your parents probably trust your boyfriend. They most likely trust you two together and know nothing will happen!
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I just got a new couch. I really dont want my cat jumping on it because she scratched up my old one really bad. How can I train her not to jump on it? Shes an older cat. (link)
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Well, as people say "You can't teach a dog new tricks" but, if you keep the cat off the couch by taking it off or just saying No a lot of times when it comes near, it will probably get the sense not to go on anymore.
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For some reason, my left breast has been itchy lately and I thought it was just the bra I was wearing, but idk... But, anyway, it's sensitive, so I'm very careful not to scratch too hard, but I noticed just a couple minutes ago that there's a weird shaped scab or something, it's sort of creasant shaped and it's mostly made up of three parts... Uhm, it's not bloody looking or anything... Scab is just the best way I can describe it. Anyway, can anyone tell me what that might be? (link)
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This may just be changing of the seasons! You probably don't have to worry. Although, if it doesn't go away in a couple weeks or gets a different shape, or just, worse, I suggest seeing a doctor!
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I started to realize my friend who I became friends with at the beginning of the school year is a complete loser. She looks like she has a mustache and she doesn't use common sense. She's really ugly, annoying, and hangs out with complete losers.
One of my friends dumped me last year because of popularity and I wasn't popular, I'm not popular, I probably never will be, but I will be considered a 'cool geek'.
Okay here is why I don't want to be her friend:
~She has a mustache and wears boots every day, not cute boots but horse riding boots or what looks like those kinds of boots.
~She has a mustache
~She went out with a complete loser
~She doesn't use common sense
~Is friends with other losers, one of which looks like a hippy
~She calls me her 'gym buddy'
~SHE WATCHES SOAP OPERAS(and in seventh grade)
~She doesn't have a facebook, cell phone, or email.
So how do I dump her without hurting her feelings? I've been kind of ignoring her lately. . .why should I do?!! Also all of he losers I mentioned are losers according to everyone except heir 'friends'. Oh and we are in seventh grade 13 years old she is 12 though. (link)
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Okay, personally I think that is very mean. You should not care what other people think about you, or your friend. If your friend is nice to you, then you should not have a problem. Soon enough, you'll be at a stage where you have no one to go to because of the way you think of people. You will finally turn to that girl and say.."i'm sorry" But, if you do, she will probably not accept because of the way you think of her. But, that is only if she knows about what you think of her. That's just some ways you can still be her friend. And, to tell you the truth..after that, I hope you realize..Who care's if I look like a total geek hanging out with this girl! You will realize, she's the true friend here..
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