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My friend's sister is really annoying sometimes
I have this really good friend, we're both girls and in 9th grade and her little sister, a few grades lower, thinks we're also close friends. I like her and all but she's always inviting herself over and keeps asking when I say no or hang on or I don't know, and when she does come over she eats my food, bullies my brother and doesn't listen to my parents. She also argues with her sister when they're over and doesn't listen to us. I don't want to hurt her feelings because she's kinda my friend but what should I do?
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Usually you can solve this problem by basically confronting her. Maybe say something like this; I'm really sorry, but, whenever your here, you never listen to me, or my parents and you eat all my food and bully my brother and I do not like it. OR maybe; I'm sorry but everytime your here you don't listen to us and your mean to my brother AND you eat all the food and I really don't like the way you act in my house. Which, may seem a little harsher. But, deiantly tell her!
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i agrree with gossip girl but if you confront her try to give it to the girl as gently as possible if gental dnt work then go forcefull
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Well, this is a tough situation as a young girl's feelings are involved. If you try and introduce your friend's sister to some girls her own age, that are nice, she may begin to hang around them more.
Otherwise, if you tell her parents how you feel and how she acts when she is at your house, they may talk to her and she will ease up abit.
If none of these above answers work, you shall just have to use confrontation. Sit down with her and tell her how you really like her and like hanging out with her, but, you think its time you both hang out with people your own age. Tell her that you will still see her, just not all the time.
Just make sure you are nice, caring and gentle.
Good Luck :)
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