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I feel horiable about masturbating
Ok so I have been masterbating for about 2-3 months and its making me feel horiable like i stop a day or 2 at a time then just start up again i realy need help i know people will say its good for you but it makes me feel horiable plz help
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i know what yoou mean you like it but afterwards you feel terrible and stuff you can just stop or relize everyone does it it isnt a bad thing at all if its good then do it nothins shameful about it
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Mastubating is not compulsory! If it does not make you feel good, stop doing it. If you have urges, do it occasionly. This is a hard subject to discuss, but parents/grandparents will help you through it. Embarssing, but worth talking to them about.
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First let me say I'm old enough to be your grandfather so I'm giving you the straight information here.
Forget all the stories you hear; you're not going to go blind, your not going to grow hair in the palm of your hand, or anything else you may have heard about masturbation. No one can tell by looking at you that you masturbate.
Masturbation is a healthy and a safe way to to release the pent up hormones you are experiencing as you go through puberty. Almost everyone masturbates, it's also part of foreplay although it is called hand jobs or fingering. It's still masturbation or mutual masturbation. It's nothing to be ashamed about.
Masturbation should be away for you to explore your own body to find out what you like. Where you like to be touched and how you like to be touched. If your a girl just don't finger yourself, play with your clit, squeeze your breasts, pull on your nipples and explore your body so when you are ready for sex you can show your partner what turns you on and what turns you off. This will make your first sexual experience that much more satisfying for the both of you.
Boys need to do the same thing; just don't jerk your penis until you come. Explore different ways to stroke your penis, stoke you scrotum and testicles, play with your nipples and feel your body while you masturbate. Learn your likes and dislikes before that first sexual intercourse you will be better for it.
Mutual masturbation is great for those who want to have a sexual relationship without intercourse. You can have all the fun without the worry. Try doing it with a condom and avoid the mess.
Now for the disclaimer: Your parents, teachers and clergy are correct. You should avoid having sex until you are old enough to understand the consequences of your actions. Lust and love in the teenage years feel the same; especially for boys.
By the way just about all the recognized religions in the U S do not condemn masturbation. This includes the Catholic Church.
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You shouldt be asamed of masterbating .its human nature to explore yourself and a desier for doing what feels good .I can't tell you who dosent masterbate .you should only feel guilty if you do it obsesivly .then there's a problem .and that's your personal thing nobody needs to know about it .my opinon is you are mormal and no need to feel guilty about it just be yourself and do what you do and be happy loosen up your fine !!
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Believe me, I used to feel guilt too, when I was younger. I'm 19, now. I felt like I was doing something wrong and almost "fessed up" to my mom. Truth is, nobody needs to know. Although, it's not a secret, it's also nobody's bussiness. Plenty of people masturbate without talking about it. You aren't the only one. It may take a while for you to be able to do it without remorse, but just know that you can stop feeling horrible whenever you choose to! :)
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