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Potentially crazy potential bf...?


Question Posted Thursday August 4 2011, 7:47 pm

17/f.

There's a guy I like and he asked me out today... but he's got some issues with his past and sees a counselor. That's not too bad I guess, tons of people are like that. What is a biggie is that that in addition to his temper and the fact he went suicidal last time a girl broke up with him.

I do care about this guy a lot as my friend, and feel sparks of attraction, but it seems like a dangerous situation to be in, to be his girlfriend. If we were to break up, I do NOT wanna deal with the possibility of a crazy stalker ex.

More than anything it's just my gut telling me that he's more unstable than he seems, not actual evidence. I don't know what to do. I'm worried if I say no things will be bad. Yet he's also told me it'll be fine if I say no because we'll still be friends...

What should I do?

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brokenheart93bleeds answered Thursday August 4 2011, 8:42 pm:
Tell him you want to take it slow and see what happens that you done want to be in a committed relationship right now. He might of tried suicide because he really loved the girl and they were together a long time theres many reasons and it doesnt mean hell be like that agian.

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Lonesome12 answered Thursday August 4 2011, 8:38 pm:
He probabaly went suicidal because it went on for so long and he didnt want anything to go down he probabaly wanted to stay with her.. be careful it seems you dont want it ... I mean your already seeing if and thinking of breaking up.. really? tell him no , doesnt seem your interested and you need to tell him ASAP! trust me.. no matter whaat do it now before he you let it go too late

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