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My family can get insurance money if I commit suicide and then they will be taken care of.


Question Posted Saturday August 6 2011, 1:19 am

I am thinking about committing suicide. I've made some really bad decisions and feel that it would be best for everyone if I were gone. My family would get insurance money and would be taken care of financially.

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ReikaFox answered Monday December 19 2011, 11:03 pm:
I just wanted to throw a couple of thoughts out there. First off, most if not all insurance companies have little loop-holes in their contracts to prevent this very thing. With this loop-hole, if there is outstanding evidence that you killed yourself, your family would actually receive nothing in the event of your death, and would have to pay for your funeral expenses out-of-pocket. Second, I may not know you, but I am a mother of 3 boys, and no matter what kind of financial corner we may end up being in, I'm going to be of more help to them alive.

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masonh2 answered Saturday August 13 2011, 11:25 pm:
So, I can relate in the sense that my friend just recently tried to commit suicide because her boyfriend broke up with her. It may not be the same reason, but this is just not something you should even consider.

Things may seem horrible right now, but just think of the motivation given to you to make it better for yourself and the others around you who love you.

There is nothing that can't be fixed or doesn't have some sort of solution. You are a human being who makes mistakes just like everyone else. You ARE worth something and WILL be missed and mourned by those around you.

Suicide isn't the answer because you don't deserve to die for anything you may have done or are doing. Just please think this over and remember you are just as important as the next person out there -- no more, no less.

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VoiceofReason answered Monday August 8 2011, 12:19 am:
Are you sure?

There are policies that have exclusions for suicides. So not a good idea, no matter what the rationale.

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millie96 answered Saturday August 6 2011, 3:14 pm:
We've all made bad decisions. And I'm sure they would much rather have you then all the money in the world. Don't make them suffer. You just stand strong. Everyone makes mistakes in life and everyone goes through tough times in their lives. Think about it. If everyone who was going through a terrible time commited suicide, the world never would have gotten anywhere. And if your family needs money, get a job and help them out! God has a purpose in life for everyone, so stay strong and remind yourself that God loves you and will never leave you, even in the tough times. No matter how many mistakes you make, he will always forgive you again and again because he loves you more than you will ever know. Remember that when your feeling down. :)
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Advicelady6798 answered Saturday August 6 2011, 9:08 am:
They would most likely spend majority of it taking care of the funeral expenses. They would be more likely put in more debt than it would help. Committing suicide is not the way to go. My dad has a bad heart and my mother has been diagnosed with cancer. Even though these are horrible things and I will miss them very much, they advised me I should be grateful to be healthy and living. I should never take my life for granted because they would do whatever it took to have more time. One of my dear friends committed suicide and she was only 22 years old. She mixed her sleeping pills with alcohol and never woke up. I swore that no matter how bad life got, it was not worth ending my life over.

I also had a coworker who lost her three year old son. My coworkers husband didn't want the bank to repossess his house so he burned it to the ground. He also felt the need to shoot his three year old in the arm to wake him up, then in the head. He then shot himself. The pain of losing a child is unbearable and you never fully recover from it. Your family would never recover if you died.

As for the bad choices, it is the bad that helps us grow and blossom into the good. You have to go through a series of bad patches in order to find relief. Think about your situation and come up with some alternatives. When there is a will, there is a way.

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hitler_the_goat answered Saturday August 6 2011, 4:16 am:
nope. insurance won't cover it if you're the cause of death. economically speaking, this is not a wise choice.
-gunner

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allaboutgay answered Saturday August 6 2011, 3:22 am:
Don't do it. If that is the reason, it will not help. Almost all insurance plans are nullified in case of suicide, and then your family would have to assume the debt. I did not see a clear question asked, but committing suicide is never the answer. Maybe they could help you to get back on track and get debt free. But suicide will not help anyone.

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