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I am a nineteen-year-old male from Georgia in the USA, and I am gay. I do not make that distinction because that is what my life revolves around, but it is a very important part of my life and does make a difference. I like to help with relationships of all levels, and am here to talk about anything without judging. I hope that I am able to help, and would love to hear follow-ups on how situations turned out.
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how does it feel whenn your putting on your braces
I am assuming you mean braces for your teeth. It did not hurt me at all when they were putting mine on, and none of my friends had any problems while they were being put on. But the next few days mine and my friends gums were extremely sore because of the additional weight from the braces. Once those first few days are over though, they are generally pretty pain free. Hope this helps :)
My boyfriend and I are thiiiinking about having anal sex. it's not a for sure thing yet and we aren't rushing each other. But when the time comes I want to be prepared. I have read about enema bags and all this other stuff I cant get. Is there any way to douche my anus with something I can get around the house?
There are only two things that come to mind: a turkey baster, and a removable shower head. It is highly recommended to clean your anus before anal play though, and even still use protection because things could still happen. Be safe and enjoy!
well I'm in college now I'm almost 22 and my teacher is 28.he is really shy and very gentle.well he used to be my teacher for 2 semesters.now im still at the university studying but I won't be seeing him anymore cause I don't have any classes with him.I only have 1 semester left to finish college.This guy never gives his phone number to his students but after the semester ended I wrote him a message and told him that i have bought him a gift as a thank you.he gave me his phone number and when i called him he invited me to his own office (he works at a company)so i met him there.we talked I know that he was a little stressed out because the books fell down of his hands.but when i was leaving he said that give me a call sometime.that's it.I was thinking maybe i could tell him that i like him.I don't know how he would respond.i really need help i wanna know if I should tell about my feelings or not!help me please!!
I might not go as far as to tell him point blank that you like him, but possibly to go on a date, but not call it that to him. Just hanging out with him alone. Just to spend some time out side of school with him, and see what he is like away from the job. If he asked for you to call him sometime, that means he might be interested, but just very shy. He also is probably not allowed to pursue a relationship with a sutdent that still attends the college. But I would say that you should just see him a few times outside of a school setting, and he should be able to tell that you like him. Hope this helps!
Ok so, I'm a fifteen year old High school Student, I've been having some really conflicting issues, and I realized that I always look at questions around here for fun, so when I had an issue, why not come here. Well Like I said I'm a male high school student, and I don't really know what I am. I'm going to 10th grade, throughout my 9th grade school year I had a friend (we'll call him Clyde lol) that asked be to do sexual stuff, and an experimenting sense, so two times we exchanged oral sex, once in a bathroom, and once in the woods next to our school. Now there was another Guy I know that aksed me the same thing (call him Greg) and he just wouldnt leave me alone, askeing for naked pictures, asking to have sex, he was pathetic and extremely annoying, so Yesterday I told him it's never going to happen and to just leave me alone. Now my third friend is an open Bi-Sexual we will call him (Aaron) I met him when he was dating one of my female friends, we would text and talk all the time, we became really close friends, one day I heard "Aaron's" girlfriend saying how she didnt like to kiss him and all, so me being the idiot that I am, I told him, and he said thanks, I guess over the next 48 hours they talked and she denied this, he accused me of lying, and we didnt talke for two months. In a plot to take revenge I tried to break them up, he confronted me in a texting conversation, everything was laid on the table and we moved on to become friends again. He confessed to liking me, I considered my self as straight at the time (I hadnt had oral sex with Clyde yet) was shocked, so I waved it off and claimed i was still figuring out who I am. Meanwhile I met a girl one year younger than me, we started talking and flirting, it was just a very flirtatious friendship. this was November, when Aaron started asking me if I wanted to have Sex with him Oral. We joked about it all the time but I knew he was serious. I kept saying maybe. My relationship with the girl..(Lily i guess) was moving along, but at Christmas it ended, it started again this past June and ended again, we're now STRICT friends. So not much happened except once in February that was the first time Clyde and I had Oral and then once again in May, Now yesterday...August, I brutally ended my friendship with Greg, after his annoying requests of naked pictures and sex. Lately I've been texting Aaron a lot, and I really want to be friend with him, like good friends, and we were playing the question game and he asked me if Id ever have sex with a guy, I said I was curious, especially about anal sex. He said I should let him top me, and I could top him back, hes already had EVERY version of sex with both girls and guys hes only a year older (16) but he's a really cool guy. Also yesterday Clyde texted me and said he'd gotten his license he's in my grade but has an early birthday so he's 16. He asked if I wanted to experiment like last year, only this time we could drive to my house, and do it. So far I haven't had a relationship feelings about guys, only sexual, what do you guys think of this? Oh and before 9th grade when most of this happened I was in a long term 3 year relationship with a Girl (Alice)
What do you guys think of my situation? All advice is welcome and I'd really appreciate it ! Thanks in advance ! :)
Ony you know your sexuality. Nobody can answer that for you. And experimenting is ok. Just because you want to experiment with guys does not mean you are homosexual or bisexual, it means you are curious. I am assuming that we know you are attracted to females. And I would say to experiment some. But be VERY careful! Always use protection! STD's (or STI's or VD's, whatever you want to call them) can be spread very quickly, especially if someone has had multiple sexual partners. I don't think there is anything wrong with experimenting, just be smart about it and always use protection. And it all really depends on if the male anatomy turns you on. I have a gay male friend who HATES bottoming. He is a homosexual, but he hates to bottom. So it all depends on if the male anatomy turns you on. If you have any other questions that you would like to ask me, please feel free to. I check my account daily. I hope some of this has helped!
heyy im 18 and im about 6 inches long and like 2 thick is that considered big? or like enough to be satisifing?
It is considered average for USA. And so many people have so many different wants that you might satisfy some, overwhelm some, and underwhelm some. It depends on the person as to whether or not it will be "satisfying". It does also depend on how you use it, not just the size.
ok so i got this 60s dress from neldasvintageclothing.com. its totally 60s and nothing @ all like anything people would ever dream of wearing today. before i go on, i would like it if you could see the dress (so that you can see exactly what it looks like) and i shall tell you how you can see it. just follow these directions: first, go to www.youtube.com and type in the search bar this exactly: XBlondeRebellionX now scroll down until you see a little square with hello kitty doing a peace sign. click on that and it will take you to my channel. click on the video on the side that says MY NEW 60s DRESS! and watch that. i also believe that this video plays automatically once you get onto my channel. watch either part of the video or the whole thing to see the dress. Now that you've seen the dress, heres my issue: i really love this dress and i want to possibly wear it to school. the only thing is, i'm nervous people will make fun of me because it's so out there. i don't want guys to think i'm wierd or even girls for tht matter but on the other hand, they might really like it and i could start a trend and bring 60s style back and get to wear something tht is unique. please guide me in deciding if i should wear it or not. thanks so much! bless you! oh! by the way, please tell me what you think of the dress personally! I just love feedback! :D
I say that you wear it if you want to. I persoanlly think that it is cute, and that you will not get made fun of. I don't think that it looks as different as you think. I say wear it, and if people have something to say just ignore them. Rock your style. And if people think bad things about you because of this dress, then you probably don't need to be friends with them anyways. Hope this helps! :)
Ok, I am 13 and i just got this 60s dress and its very very different from what people wear today. i want to wear it but i'm afraid of the reactions of others. as you know, im sure, middle schoolers are horrible to each other. also, if you tell me that i should wear it, give me some burns and comebacks to say to people who tell me it's wierd or ugly.
I say, if you want to wear it to go for it. I cannot encourage bullying though. Just because somebody bullies you does not make it right to bully them back. It solves nothing. As long as you are proud of yourself, and you like it, then don't worry about what they say. If you are that worried about what people will say, I suggest not wearing it. But if it is your style then you should wear it no matter what anybody else says. I am sorry I did not fully complete your request, but I cannot encourage bullying.
i just met Nico this summer at a theater academy and from the first time i saw him, i thought he was cute :) then when we actually started talking and getting to know each other more, we became like, best friends. Even though thats true, i also noticed from the beginning that he could be gay. Two weeks after meeting him, he tells me and a few other friends about his coming out story, and i was fine with it, i didnt intend to actually like him more than a friend. it wasnt til after he told me about a girl that recently really liked him, and pretty much asked him to "switch sides" for her, that i found myself liking him as well. I mean, how cant i when we're always holding hands, touching each other, and talking about flirty, sexual things with each other lol. and whats worse, i find him being gay, kind of a turn on x) when we both talk about a hot guy at camp, i image him being with him, and how cute that could be xD but i still cant shake the feeling of liking him more than a friend. what should i dooo?
If he says that he is gay, you need to take that as him saying that you do not have a chance. I have plenty of female friends that I hold hands with, flirt with, talk sexually with, and the works. I have had so many people think me and whichever female friend I am with at the time are a couple.
The best thing you can do to resolve the situation, is to talk to Nico about it. None of my female friends ever would, but I know a lot of them had a crush on me at one point in time, because I had some of our mutual friends tell me. I actually lost a couple of friends because they had really bad crushes on me and couldn't handle being my friend anymore. And I know of gay guys who get with girls, and it usually leads to the girl getting burnt pretty badly. So do not go into this with the mindset that you can change him, because you cannot. It isn't a choice, I promise.
And it is not abnormal for you to be attracted to him knowing that he is gay - one of the rules of humanity is that we want what we cannot have. But I can almost promise you it won't happen. And who knows, maybe he also does like girls some, I cannot judge the situation without having met Nico before. But like I said, the best thing for you to do would be to talk to him about it so that you and Nico can resolve whatever is going on. Hope this helps!
OK so I am 16/g and im gay. Ever since I came out to my father we have been ok and close enough but I feel uncomfortable talking about this with him, as well as some of my gay friends. My school doesnt have a sex-ed program and the community center doesnt have a course for gays/lesbians. I am confused on everything at the moment. Anything and everything anyone could tell me would be useful about now.
They changed it to lesbian because you put "16/g" which they assumed to be girl, not gay. I generally would just put "Age/Gender", and the question usually clarifies sexuality.
And basically you really just need lube. I have had sex with a couple of guys, and I learned that usually (depending on how big you are) if there is no lube it won't go in. And always use protection! I don't care if they have an STD or not. Always use it. You can still contract gonorrhea from anal sex. But the easiest way to have sex is doggy style, where one guy is on his hands and knees, and the other guys inserts his erect penis into his rectum. It is probably the easiest one to start out with. Another easy way is if one guy is laying down on his stomach, and the other guy does the same thing as before. There are also ways to have sex while looking at eachother though, and it is much more intimate and is not as much about the sex, it is also slightly more difficult because you cannot see the rectum and have to find it. The guy giving it (inserting) can be laying or sitting down and both partners guide the penis into the rectum. The reverse is also possible, but a little bit more difficult because legs can get in the way.
I hope this has helped. Inbox me if you need anything else!
And please remember, always always always use a condomn!
do boys like hairy pussy?
I am not an expert on heterosexual sex, but in most cases that I know of men do not like it to be hairy down there. They generally like for it to be shaven.
I am thinking about committing suicide. I've made some really bad decisions and feel that it would be best for everyone if I were gone. My family would get insurance money and would be taken care of financially.
Don't do it. If that is the reason, it will not help. Almost all insurance plans are nullified in case of suicide, and then your family would have to assume the debt. I did not see a clear question asked, but committing suicide is never the answer. Maybe they could help you to get back on track and get debt free. But suicide will not help anyone.
Can the boy feel pre-cum n can it make u pregnant?
No, the male generally cannot feel the precum leaving his penis, and yes it can make you pregnant. Some guys can feel it leave, but the vast majority cannot.
My son is 4 1/2 years old. He was just recently diagonised with ADHD. Where I live there isnt many children theripists. So were we go he can only get in once a month hes only meet her once and its been two months she rescheduled with us. So I am placing him on home therepy were they come in our home and help with behavioral problems and stuff. Well he seen a medication doctor he asked us a ton of questions and told us he had 7-10 symptoms and since the theripists are limited here they want to place him on medication a small dose to try. its called intruiv (i think i spelled it right) Is there anything else I can do to help my son. He usually talks like an adult but lately hes been talking like a baby (he hasnt started medicine yet it has to be pre autherized) I was also told to make an appt. with SSI since I have limited income and him being diagonised with this I could qualifiy for SSI?
I am ADHD myself, and I am nineteen years old. I stopped taking my medicine two years ago and have had a much happier life since then. The medicines I took (I took both Adderall and Vyvance) made me restless, made me have a poor appitite, and just made me so sedate. I know the point of them is to calm the ADHD person down, but the side effects were not worth it for me. When I stopped my medicine my grades did slip a little bit, and it was a little bit harder to focus on things - however, I felt like me. I do not know if you child has that sense of who he is yet, but I advice against the medicine unless you have to use it.
Lots of exercise and outside activities will help out. Being couped up inside is not the answer. Try to see if you can find a sport that he likes. And I had little descipline, so it is something you have to instill in him as soon as possible, or it will be hard for him to stick with anything. I am currently having that problem now because I have little sense of discipline unless I am EXTREMELY interested in the topic.
And do not give him extra special attention. If he acts out, punish him just like you would a child who is not ADHD. You do need to be a little bit more careful, but if rules are set they must be inforced. I know that I am not a parent, but I grew up with ADHD, so I know a little bit about it. I never went to any therapy at all for my ADHD, and am unsure of if it will help or not. I am sure that it will.
Also, if he does need to take medicine do a lot of research before he starts taking one. Some have negative long term affects (I know that Adderall can cause heart problems later on in life, which is why my parents switched me to Vyvance). But the best advice I can give you is to just get out and have fun with him. I hope this has helped!
Is there anyway to make your voice sound better when your singing? I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm not the best singer but I'm deft not the worst. I just need help and advice. Thanks! :)
Practice, practice, practice! That is the only way to get good. Also, try to sing daily. It will exercise your vocal chords and it will be easier for you to warm them up, use them longer, and it should also help with trying to expand your range. There is also the choice in vocal lessons or school classes if you attend a school that offers chorus classes. Listen to a lot of the kinds of music that you would like to sing, and sing along with it. I hope this helps!
I just hit a fly on the wall. It then landed on my bed. But it wasn't squashed yet. I put it on a piece of paper to check it out. I put the paper on my dresser & began poking the poor thing with a pen that happened to be nearby. After a couple of pokes and pushes, a white goo-like substance slipped out. At that point I figured it was just the guts, until these "Guts" started moving. I was quite startled. There were multiple crawlers, they were white and seemed to have no body parts. I then grabbed a bottle of hand sanitizer and began pouring it upon these creatures, but they swam right through. I then took off to dispose of the crawlers. If any were to get loose, is there any chance that they can do harm to humans?
I belive that if they were big enough for you to see, white, and looked like they had no body parts that they were just the fly's larva (babies). And no, they will not harm you. They might feel odd if you step on one, but they wil not physically harm you. Hope this helped!
And for the added on part, it just depends on the fly. There can be a lot or a few. That is more of a question for an entomologist (person who studies bugs). I would like to be one, but I do not know the answer to your question. I would say that there could be a large number of them though. Hope this helped!
Can consuming Cum/sperms cause pregnancy?
No. It cannot. The only way to become pregnant is if the sperm fertilizes and egg in the uterus. I am not going to go into deep detail, but drinking cum cannot make you pregnant, cum must go into the vagina. It goes through the digestive system if it is ingested, which stays completely seperate from the reproductive system. Hope this helped!
where can the line be drawn for cheating as in sexual contact or just a simple hug or something else post your options
In my oponion, cheating is not always physical. I believe it can be purely emotional as well. Because when you are with someone, and they are even just talking too someone else, it can still be devistating to a relationship.
And as far as physical cheating goes, for me hugging is ok, but past hugging I do not agree with.
But it needs to be a mutual understanding. Both people have to set boundries, and know all of the rules that "cheating" implies for that particular relationship, because different people see things differently, and not having the same viewpoint can lead to huge problems. Hope this helps!
Hey. Im a homosexual guy, who is a virgin. i was wondering what is the safest and easiest sex position for me to be in during intercourse?
One that I have done before is I sat down on the couch, and then he sat down in my lap and it just went in. That one was probably the best, easiest, and most fun out of the times we had sex. Hope this helps!
I have an opinion question for you.....I masturbate 2-3 times everyday, sometimes I jack off like normal, in my room or in the shower and sometimes I lay on my stomach in bed and hump my bed. Do you think masturbating that much is too much and do you think it's weird that I hump my bed?
I don't think that you masturbate too much. I used to masturbate at 3-5 times a day before. I have slowed down a lot, maybe once a day now. But honestly, I don't think it is too much. And I can't really ever recall humping my bed, but I know people who do, so I don't think it is weird at all. It is all about what you like. I think I have been a lot more productive since I have quit masturbating so much, because I was not focused on sexual pleasure so much. I don't think it is weird and I am not saying you should stop, but for me, slowing down helped me a lot. And you're a guy, guys masturabte and hump a lot. I don't know how old you are, but I think bed humping occurs at all ages, and masturbation does for sure. My opinion is that you are pretty normal, and probably in very good company.
my boyfriend asked me "babe , can i have some porn pics of you? :\ "
do you think i should do it? and what exactly do i take a photo of?
im 13 by the way
You do not neede to do it. It is degrading to ask for pictures of the person you are dating. I have had to help a couple of friends with this, and all the guys see them as is "That girl who sent me the nudes." It's terrible, and they regret it. It is not going to help your relatioship at all, and it can only lead to trouble. I would not do it, and if he is persistant on it, I would dump him. Hope this helps!