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my boyfriend wants pictires
my boyfriend asked me "babe , can i have some porn pics of you? :\ "
do you think i should do it? and what exactly do i take a photo of?
im 13 by the way
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i was put in the same position at age 15, DO NOT DO IT! he wants them to show his friends and this will get you a reutation as a slag. Boys are dirty, but they gossip and enjoy causing trouble sometimes
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Tell him to get lost. First of all, if he had nude or sexual pics of you he would be guilty of possession of child porn. Furthermore, you have nothing, and I mean nothing, to gain by this. This country is really screwed up in its thinking about sex and even if the guy is the aggressor in stuff like this the girl inevitably catches the biggest share of blame by insecure busybodies.
Also, just for future reference, remember this:
All pics and videos of you that are of a sexual nature will end up on the net at some point. A lot of guys get their revenge by posting footage of their exes on amateur porn sites. And what is on the net is forever. So there is seldom any reason for you to agree to have immodest pics or video taken of you at anytime.
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You do not neede to do it. It is degrading to ask for pictures of the person you are dating. I have had to help a couple of friends with this, and all the guys see them as is "That girl who sent me the nudes." It's terrible, and they regret it. It is not going to help your relatioship at all, and it can only lead to trouble. I would not do it, and if he is persistant on it, I would dump him. Hope this helps!
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Don't do it, NEVER do anything if you don't want others to find out. Chances are your boyfriend will show the pictures to his buddies are sky high.
You are 13, You are a minor if your pictures were ever to end up in the wrong hands you could be in a lot of trouble as well as the person(s) viewing your photos. You trust your boyfriend but reality is sometimes boys tend to think outside the box and do it anyway. Your boyfriend could use the photo's when he is angry or upset with you as a way to seek revenge. Don't do it, Say NO
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no. Don't do it it's wrong an inmoral plus he will probally show them to all of his friends.
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No!!!! Never EVER send a guy naked pictures of yourself, no matter how much they ask you or how much they "love" you.
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Hi, I'm old enough to be your grandfather; hopefully the wisdom that comes with age and life experiences will be helpful.
I can't start to count the ways this is wrong. Lets start by how many people do you want to see you naked? Once you give a picture of yourself to someone you loose control of it. He is your boyfriend now, today. What about next week or next month. What happens when and if you break up and he decides to put that picture on facebook. Do you want all of your friends and his to see you in the nude? Can that happen, it has happened before, all of his and your friends friend can see your nude picture. In a matter of hours that picture can go viral.
Then there is the legal issues in taking and distributing nude photo's if you are under age. You can be charged with making and distributing child pornography! Your boyfriend can be charged with possession of child pornography and if he should in someway pass the photo on or around, he too can be charged with distribution of child pornography.
Yes, these are real charges and yes it may be your body and your photo of yourself. The law does not take that into account. That would be for a judge and jury to decide. Our society does not take well to child pornography for any reason. As such if you were to be charged I do not feel you would do well in court saying it is my body, my photo.
Grandfatherly advice: Never, ever give anyone a photo of yourself you would not want to see in the Society Section of your local newspaper. You can heed my advice and the advise of the other advisers who have given you similar advise. You can also do as you please, that is your choice. The facts are that to give your boyfriend the picture he wants is the wrong choice.
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There are several reasons why this is nothing but a terrible idea.
He's a teenage boy. The chances of him keeping the picture to himself are slim. The chances of that 'private' picture being circulated or shown to at the very least his friends are high. Do you really want to have to come into school knowing that everyone has seen you naked? You might find this article interesting:
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But that could well be the least of your worries.
At 13, you are a minor. If you take a naked picture of yourself and send it to your boyfriend, you could be charged with making and distributing a pornographic image of a minor. If your boyfriend keeps that image, he could be charged with possessing one.
That's child porn.
Don't believe me? Here are some links to pages and news stories about teens who have actually been prosecuted for doing exactly what you're considering:
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I'm chiming in because nobody has mentioned one of the biggest consequences.
If your boyfriend is caught with those pictures, he can be charged with possession of child pornography. That's a big deal. He would be branded as a pedophile and sex offender for the rest of his life. And you know what? So would you. There was a case recently where a girl was charged with making and distributing child pornography for sending pictures of herself.
You're playing with fire. This relationship isn't likely to last forever, and he's a teenage boy. They aren't the brightest, most morally upright of people. It's very likely that he'll pass the photos on to a friend, or show them to someone, and they could spread like a forest fire. You don't want to be changing schools because of this.
Don't do it. Just, don't.
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No, no, no! Of course you don't do it!
1. You are 13
2. Those pictures probably will get out.
"Porn pics" are tasteless and trashy.
Send him a nice, CLOTHED, pretty picture of yourself that only he gets to see. :)
and if he keeps asking for a "porn pic", tell him to either respect your wishes or to get stuffed, to put it nicely :)
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Do not do it. I don't care how hard he tries to talk you into it, don't give in. You can never get those back once you break up and they'll be in every guys phone. All guys tell you they love you and they would never do anything to hurt you but at that age, they do. I hope this helps and good luck.
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i wouldn't because you both are still so young and once those photos have left you and been sent somewhere else you lose control over the privacy of them. Ba careful darling :)
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