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I posted something along the lines before but it’s really getting frustrating the way they’re treating me now. I’m 19M in UK but my parents never let me go anywhere by myself- I always have to tag another family member along; maybe they think because I’m autistic, I need more support? But in actuality, with me being autistic, I prefer my own company. I have a hobby of just going to see TV shows being recorded but all the time I have to have another person along with me; who may find whichever show’s in question boring. As well as that, I quite like exploring the surrounding area which is pretty hard to do when you have another person joined at your hip. Also, I can’t drive (I’m dyspraxic so struggle with coordination) so usually either 1) my parents will take me, or 2) take public transport, but again another person always has to tag along- my parents think I need more “practice” before getting public transport alone- the only way to practice that is just to do it! But then of course I don’t have the money to pay for public transport myself, because my parents always try to talk me out of the jobs I’m interested in saying that they don’t think I’m ‘ready’ or that I can’t juggle both college and a job; even if I did have the money, I don’t have a bank account set up to store it in…. it’s like they don’t realise I’m an adult- whenever I explain how I feel they just say ‘well we’ve never dealt with our kids being an adult before’ as I’m the oldest- except they have dealt with me being an adult for the past year. I shouldn’t need permission for anything at this age- it’s rather creepy that they’re babying me really. But they don’t baby my younger 15 year old sister- they let her do what she wants and treat her more like an adult than their actual adult offspring. Maybe it’s because she has somewhat more of a social circle? Except the primary reason I don’t is my parents don’t want me going anywhere by myself or without their permission to the point that I can’t even form a social Circle. It’s also ridiculous that they’re so protective because what if I at some point want to start dating? I’m at that age now… I can’t be dragging along a relative everywhere then because that’s just invasive and will likely put potential dates off me for having such an overprotective family; And if I ever did have a date, I’d just tell my parents I was going to recording; Except that won’t work because they’ll try and force another family member to tag along- it’s ridiculous. And also I wouldn’t be able to make my own journey there due to no job= no money, and no money= nothing to pay for any transport with. Ifeel really infantilised by my parents- I feel like I need permission to go anywhere and then I sometimes go on walks but I feel like I ‘have’ to always go the same short route otherwise they get concerned as to my whereabouts - I’d like for once to maybe go a longer route but I know my parents won’t be too happy about that, aka they’re too overprotective of their adult son. It’s baffling because there are people my age with jobs who end up partying and drinking until 3-4AM- I’m not interested in that- all I’m interested in is being allowed out of my house without permission and getting a job. But my parents have no issue with my ‘party animal’ cousins who are the same age as me regularly going out til all sorts of hours of the morning… I don’t plan to go out anywhere that late as that’s more of an extrovert environment and I’m a more introverted person- I guess they’re more lenient with my cousins because they’re not their own kids? Just their siblings’ kids? But it is ridiculous- these cousins juggle jobs, college and hobbies (even if their hobby of partying is of no interest to me), and my parents don’t bat an eyelid- one of these cousins is even younger than me… so I wonder why is it when it comes to me, they don’t think I’d be able to juggle college, a job, and my hobby of simply sitting in a crowd and watching a show for by myself for a few hours? (link)
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What I suggest is try talking to your parents and telling them how you feel. Mabtye they just don't realize how their over protectiveness is making you feel.
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I am a 19 year old male if that helps with health advice- lately though when I poop, I notice a number of issues. Can I ask what these may mean?
- The texture is sludgy- not runny/diarrhea but not standard solid poop either- just sludgy almost like that colourful toy slime that kids buy..
- Only the tiniest little bit comes out at time
- despite the tiniest bits actually coming out, I can still physically feel the poop dangling out but it won’t physically come out no matter how hard I squeeze- eventually I end up giving up and just wiping but because of the excess amount of poop (which I know is there because I can physically feel it, and see it when I wipe, it just won’t come out when I squeeze)- I end up spending quite a while wiping too- I end up spending about 3 hours (not even an exaggeration) on the toilet due to the this, which isn’t ideal in a family household of 5, with only one bathroom… but it’s not my fault- it’s not as if I enjoy spending so long on the toilet but it seems my family get very frustrated by it.
Do you know what any of this could mean? I had chronic constipation as a young child, but in this case, it’s not really constipation as the poop comes out- but only little bits at a time and it gets stuck along the way out despite me trying as hard as I can to squeeze it out- but when I wipe there’s still a bunch of poop there- what could this possibly be? (link)
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I am sorry ,but we are not qualified to answer this question. I would suggest you go see your family doctor and ask them to refer you to a stomach doctor. I hope this helps.
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Awhile back, I bought a package of white boys briefs on a whim. I dunno, I guess I was just curious to see how wearing them would feel. I found them to be really comfortable. I actually prefer them to panties and now they are all I want to wear.
My parents don't approve. They keep asking if I'm struggling with my sexuality or something. Grrr....it's ridiculous how uptight they're being over this. I mean, it's just underwear for Pete's sake!
I also bought them with my own money. I started working at my first ever job shortly after I turned sixteen four months ago. I bought the first package of briefs while out splurging after getting my first paycheck. They've always said I'm allowed to spend my own money however I like, so it feels kinda hypocritical for them to be acting this way.
What do you think? Is a girl wearing boys underwear really that big of a deal? (link)
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No its not a big deal. I also like mens underwear better than panties because of comfort and I am a female and not gay. I wear them for health reasons though. I don't think it's a big deal at all.
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Im in grade 11 and my class needs to think of something to organize for the high school on the last day of the semester. One idea was a student VS teachers soccer but we don't like that idea. We usually wear school uniform so we're having a civvies day, bake sale and we now need something to do. The day is about 3-4 hours. It's next week so we need to plan asap (link)
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Have you thought about a field day where all the students do different activities such as different sports like a egg and spoon race where you see who gets the egg to the end with out it breaking on a spoon. You could also do face painting,different crafts,they could also have snacks for the students to buy like sodas, chips, hotdogs and hamburgers. When I was school they did this every year on the last day of school.
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I'm 12 my mum and dad broke up 8 years a go don't try to stop me committing i want to end it i just want a painless way to do it (link)
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Please don't do this. Your mom and dad would miss you very much. I know it's hard because my mom and dad got divorced when I was 3. You have your whole life ahead of you. Try finding a teacher or someone you can trust to talk to.
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what effects do they have? (link)
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It just depends on the type of medicine you are taking every drug has different side effects because every medicine is different.
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I am 28 years old and have received SSI benefits since I was 12 and my mom is my payee would I be able to get my money out of my account if my name is on the account, but what would happen if my name is not on the account if something happened to my mom. I am really concerned because my mom's health is not the best anymore. Would my stepdad be the one to take over my funds for me if something happened to my mom or would I be able to be over my own money? (link)
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What is a payable beneficiary ?
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So I'm on a low-carb diet that allows a maximum of 20 carbs a day. This diet really seems to help me lose weight, but in the beginning I always have cravings for foods I can't have (obviously). I've been having things such as chicken, cheese, eggs, avacados, burgers things like that. So does anybody have any suggestions for different snack foods or even meals/recipes? Any feedback is appreciated =] (link)
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Peanut butter on celery
Raw vegies and ranch dressing. ( make sure the ranch dressing is low carb) cottage cheese . Chicken and tuna salad .
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Does anyone have good recommendations for healthy snacks? I often stay up late doing homework and get pretty hungry, and I'm getting tired of eating an apple or some crackers every night.
Just some notes: a) I don't like nuts or peanut butter. b) I would prefer if the suggestions were stuff we would likely have in the house so my mom doesn't have to go out and buy me snack food c) fruit is great, but it's expensive and not super filling, so I need some other ideas
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When you mom goes to the groucery store why don't you see if she will buy you some healthy snacks because we don't know what you have in the house already. Here are some suggestions
Carrot sticks or any other raw vegies with low calorie ranch dressing
Unsweetened applesauce
Cheese and crackers with the whole grain crackers
Pretzels but they do have a lot of sodium if you have high blood pressure
Chips and salsa with the baked tortilla chips and granola bars.
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are xxl and size 46 coat the same? (link)
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Yes they are the same size
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My best friend doesnt stay in the same city as me. Shes in my city on holiday with her dad and stays a street away from me. Today she asked me to go to this place with her and a bunch of guys we don't know so i said i dont want to. We then madr plans to go to her house tonight. Before i went she said no we must go to this guys house that i dont know so i said she can go, im tired anyway because i am really shy so i wouldve just ruined the vibe. She asked me to go to the beach with her tomorrow so i said okay bht whos going so she said that her dads going diving and i said " you lying" with a laughing face because yesterday her dad said he wont dive again in my city. Now shes mad atcme saying im childish anf stuff so i said " i really dont have energy for this tonight. Love you bye" so she said " dont have the energy for you ever but guess what" so i stopped replying. Now should i apoligize? Did i do something wrong? How do i sort this out - shes a really difficult person (link)
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You did nothing wrong and everything right . I wouldn't want to go to some guys house that I didn't know either. She was the one who was in the wrong and should apologize. She was being childish.
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My boy friend fucked me to in back hole yesterday..so i need to know can i have a chance to get pregnant
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No you can't. The only way that you can get pregnant is when a penis enters your vagania.
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My friend gave me a thing of Velveeta cheese today because she accidentally bought a second box of it when she already had some at home. I accepted it but I've never eaten it. I know it's a processed cheese, obviously, but what are some things I can eat with this Velveeta? (link)
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My mom uses it to make home made macoroni and cheese
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Hi. I am 18 years old and a female and as of the last 2 weeks I have started smelling really bad of BO. I literally just showered this morning and I stink again already and I don't even know why. I have tried different soaps and dont know what else it could be. Please help! (link)
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I have the same problem and recently i started using clinical deoderant it is expensive but it works
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If you had an c section are you able to have a natural birth
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Evdn though it is possible doctors dont like to
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Okay so I'm my great grandmas secret Santa. I don't know what to get her, but I don't know what she likes. She doesn't really do anything but lay in bed and watch the news. My mom told me to just give her money but she pulled me as her secret Santa (yeah I know, my family doesn't keep secrets very well) and the bugdet was $25 so if I just straight up gave her the $25 back (oh yea btw she gave me my gift early, we are really messed up) then it wouldn't really make sense. That's why I want to buy her something, but I just don't know what, please help!! (link)
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You could get her a pair of pajamas or a nightgown.
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We are hosting a babyshower but we do not have a lot of money. Of course we will have food, snacks and desert and cupcakes. We are now stuck on what to give for the thank you gifts. We bought these packet things and we ordered babyshower biscuits to put in and are putting in fudge. Please we need ideas the babyshower is in 4 days. (link)
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You could go to the dollar tree and make a gift basket . They have a pretty good bit of baby items there. Like baby wipes , baby shampoo. bottles, and much more.
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I am 13 and having my 4 child with my b/f my mom doesn't know i have being giving them up for adoption. my b/f hates having sex with a condom and likes it rough and aggressive he is the only person that loves me but i don't want a 5th child ( i live with him too)and my mom knows about that but i am afraid to tell him to stop bc sex is the only thing that keeps him happy what should i do
i'll rate 5 just help i can't get an abortion either i am 7 months pregeant (link)
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I dont even think this is a real question because ypur only 13 and you said you are on your 5th child most girls dont even start their periods until they are at least 11 . You would be pregant for 9 montbs with just 1 child . You would have to be 2 or something to be having all these kids this early but if this is a real qestion you need to get on birth control. Plus i dont even think you can give kids up for adoption without your parents permission at yoir age.
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can the guy get an std if you where a condom? (link)
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Condoms are 85% effective do yes if you wear a condom they can still get an std if the condom slips off or breaks but as longs as it stays on and dosnt break he should be fine.
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Hi im 12 and i masterbate is that bad?
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Hey there no its not bad
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