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Ok. I'm gonna try to make an insanely long story as short as possible. We'll call my ex J and my guy friend M. J and I broke up eight months ago. J was VERY BAD to me. Let that just be enough information. M helped me get over him and get over all the harm he caused. He basically became my best friend. He has always helped me through problems. I love him. I have basically always had feelings for him since last summer when J and I broke up. But he had a girlfriend and I was still broken and damaged from J so I knew it wouldn't work. Ever since winter break we've been texting everysingle day. He is the ONLY guy I have found that when I talk to him I don't think about J or want to be with J. Because even though he hurt me so bad, I still want to be with him... I told M this. Not that I liked him but that he was the only person I could talk to without wanting J. I said I didn't know why. M replied with "You can handle him yourself honey, you're not as dependent on me as you think. I know you can do it." But I AM dependent on him. He rarely texts me first anymore... and he seems more distant. He said something about a girl he thought was hot and the pain I felt... I never saw it coming. I didn't think I liked him this much but I DO. And now that my ex is trying to get me back I really need M. But I don't think he likes me... we do talk everyday but I start the convos but then he gets mad if I don't reply... he tells me I'm beautiful and he hates J and I deserve so much better than J. And he makes me smile. He geniunely makes me happy and lately that's something I haven't gotten much of. Happiness. I can't let this slip away. But I'm so scared if I tell him the truth it will ruin our friendship forever and that would hurt more than anything else. PLEASE HELP. I am fifteen, sophomore. M is 16, junior. T is 17, junior. (link)
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well, I am m/14, but I have liked one of my best friends when she had a boyfriend, so may be I could help you.
first, try to make sure he doesn't like you. if there is a chance he likes you, just tell him you like him, but tell him you don't want to stop being his friend if he doesn't like you.
if you are completely sure he doesn't like you, then just enjoy your friendship a lot, and try not to think about him as more than a friend. Some day you will wake up a notice you don't like him anymore, but you still LOVE him, as a friend.
I hope I have helped you.
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f/13 I am in the 8th grade,and I like this guy.Lets call him Owen. Ever since the very first day of school,I have liked him. I mean,who wouldn't? He is in revolution. He sings and dances.Its really sexy. The teacher asked the class what everyones favorite color was.and I said green. When it came Owens turn,he looked at me and said green as well. He smiled,in which I returned the smile. Owen is sooo sweet and shy and sensitive. He is everything that I looke for in a guy. He says "hey" to me all the time. He stares at me in math class,and when he realize that I notice,he he smiles then looks away and blushes. Its so effin adorable!!!! So do you think he likes me?Also.if so,can you give me some advice on how to get up the courage to ask him myself? Thanks alot -SilentShalee (link)
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I am m/14, so I think I could help.
the easiest thing is to ask him if he likes you.
if you are too shy for that, (don't worry, it's normal) try to become his friend first. then, become one of his best friends's friend, and ask him (his friend) to ask the boy if he likes you.
in my opinion, he likes you. usually, when a person likes other person, watchs them until the other person watches them. then, they both look to other side (that happens in all ages, as some studies reveal). if he watches you again after looking to other side, thne he probably likes you.
and don't worry if he doesn't like you, there are lots of boys, and you have a lot of time
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