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my best friend and i got in a fight but i dont know if its my fautlt
16/f
My best friend doesnt stay in the same city as me. Shes in my city on holiday with her dad and stays a street away from me. Today she asked me to go to this place with her and a bunch of guys we don't know so i said i dont want to. We then madr plans to go to her house tonight. Before i went she said no we must go to this guys house that i dont know so i said she can go, im tired anyway because i am really shy so i wouldve just ruined the vibe. She asked me to go to the beach with her tomorrow so i said okay bht whos going so she said that her dads going diving and i said " you lying" with a laughing face because yesterday her dad said he wont dive again in my city. Now shes mad atcme saying im childish anf stuff so i said " i really dont have energy for this tonight. Love you bye" so she said " dont have the energy for you ever but guess what" so i stopped replying. Now should i apoligize? Did i do something wrong? How do i sort this out - shes a really difficult person
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as pink girl said, she is in the wrong. Its not your fault she is mad. She is engaging in dangerous activity, going to guys homes and most likely when their parents aren't there. If parents are supervising its better. But no matter what reason, whether you are shy of guys or even like the guys, its best not to get in habit of showing up at guys homes and that way you can't get in trouble that date rape drug snuck to you. Your friend couldn't help you either if she was in same boat. I'd keep this friend at a distance and evaluate what you see as still being beneficial to both of you. Teen girls over-react with emotions due to hormones from puberty still wreaking havoc on the emotions. She can become either extra sad and weepy or more easily irritated or get too easily angry. Give her time and if she comes back, then be the best friend you can without caving in to what she thinks of as a fun time.
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You did nothing wrong and everything right . I wouldn't want to go to some guys house that I didn't know either. She was the one who was in the wrong and should apologize. She was being childish.
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