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How do you make the page smaller on a computer?
When I make my page smaller it cuts things off and when its bigger at 100% I have to scroll and the page is too big. My page is too big for the screen on my laptop I so need help to make it smaller without using the zoom level thing , Thank you (link)
Try hitting 'Ctrl' and then the '-' together.. if you zoom out too far then just press the '+' instead .
Hope this is what you were after.
Good Luck


I've been on an amazing diet and i already lost 607 pounds
accept this morning i weighed myself and i gained a pound.
i didn't cheat or anything. i gained a pound and i am so upset.
what did i do? (link)
Congrats on the weight loss!!.. It might just be water weight. Depending on the time of day you weigh your self will impact the reading. Instead of being upset use continue and maybe use it to motivate you to stay on the diet and continue the great work your doing. If you are female another causes for the extra pound may be due to your period.. naturally you retain more fluid during that time of the month so its nothing to worry about. Hope this helped.. anymore questions feel free to inbox me :) good luck


Hi everybody, just a quick question about the pill;
I just finished a pack and am now on my period. My period should be over around Tuesday-Wednesday next week, however, because I have been so busy and distracted by uni, I didn't realize I have no more strips left.
The first chance I have to go to my GP to get a new prescription would be Wednesday. If I finish my period Monday or Tuesday, and only get the pills on Wednesday and take the first one form the pack that day, will it still be safe to have unprotected sex (Long term boyfriend, both tested, etc) or because I missed a day of taking the pill, should I be waiting?
I'd just like to make sure that things will be as safe as they should be on the pill.. because I know if you miss two or more pills it gets dangerous.

I hope this makes sense... please help me out! :) (link)
The rule my GP told me to go by when on the pill is the 7 day rule.. If you miss it you aren't protected for the next 7 days.. missing it can include throwing it up or taking it 12 hours later than your usual time as well as not taking it for a couple days..so I recommend using a condom for the next 7 days once you start your new pack..
Hope this helped :)


how do you give a good hand job? (link)
This might help..

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/hand-job?click=cos_more


I really want a boyfriend!! A lot of people I know have a boyfriend and I don't. I have heard someone say,"Just flirt." I don't want to though!! Please help me!

*h3rmioneg* (link)
I know that feeling well love, especially when everyone around you has a boyfriend. The thing is if you rush into a relationship ATM it will be forced and not the real relationship you see everyone else with. Plus being in a relationship has sooo many more responsibilities with it. So my advice is to embrace being single and when you stop worrying over having a boyfriend some guy will love your independence and confidence and you may find your in a relationship. I hope this helped. Inbox me if you have any other questions.
:)


Today I had to wear band-aids on my nipples to keep them from showing through my bikini and when I took them off tonight it took a little of skin off of my boob and it was reallllllly sensitive. When I finally felt comfortable putting my bra back on the scratch was covered in skin that was puffed up. It looked like a bubble made of skin. Why did this happen? Thanks. (link)
By the sounds of it i think it could be a blister. The plaster may have chafed or rubbed against the skin making the scratch. The way your body tried to protect its self was by causing a blister. This is just what i think it may be.. just keep an eye on it and just make sure it doesn't get any bigger or get infected. Hope that helped :)


Hello,

I was just wondering what age did you have sex and why?

Also if you're a virgin would you wait until marriage if so why? (link)
Hello,
I was 17 and a half. Why was because I had found a guy (who still is my guy!) who I felt I could take that next step with. I would not have done it with him if I didn't feel safe or if I couldn't be myself around him.
Hope this helped.
=)


anyone know of any tricks or things to help solve this, very annoying. about 1-2 minutes in and its done (link)
I heard if you pull on your balls it makes you last longer. also here is an article that may help:

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/delay-his-climax?click=main_sr

here is another one i found:

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/premature-ejaculation?click=min_sr

Hope this helped.
Have fun :)


So when it comes to my boyfriend and I's sex life I'd say it was amazing. I like to keep things new and fresh coming up with different ways to turn him on BEFORE even getting to the sex. The one that always works is when I trace my tounge on his lips and exhale, even he tells me "Babe I love when you tease me like that", but I feel like it's getting old and I wan't to try something new. ONLY TO TEASE THO! I don't think I need any help in the "sex" area. (link)
Place your hand on his thigh and gently rub your fingers back and forth. The sensation is increased because of the fabric and will turn your guy on immensely. The earlobe one works to, real well. Also play and kiss his nipples they have lots of nerve ending.That's what get my guy going. lol. But that's really the trick, find places that are sensitive and gently stimulate them with kissed and and licks.
Hope this helped. Have fun and good luck :)


Im 15 and a female and I have been worried about losing my virignity. I dont plan on it any time soon but its always been at the back of my mind. My first concern is "popping my cherry".

I know i bleed when this happens, but how much do you bleed? How long? and Why do you bleed? Does it hurt? I would feel embarrased if i bleed all over the guys sheets.

Second is the pain:

does it hurt that bad? did you cry when you lost it? How bad is the pain? and how can i make it less painful? I dont want to cry when he enters me.

Thx for advice (link)
Okay. You bleed because your hymen will break. This is a protective layer in your vagina. Everyone will bleed at different rates. I didn't bleed that much and it was only for a less than a day.
I have a high pain tolerance so i was able to stand the pain and keep going. I didn't cry. To make it less painful have the guy finger you so that your vagina stretches. I hope this helped. I found this website that may help. http://www.avert.org/sexual-intercourse.htm .Good luck :)


Hello,
My name is Kailey and i have looked ALL OVER the computer for my right kind of music but i am obviously not going to the right places. I am very interested in Alt.Rock, metal, but the slow metal not the screamy scary stuff. For example i really like the song Drive-incubus, Lifehouse, Default, puddle of pudd, raconteurs, seether, I dont like listening to new music the old stuff is what i think is worth listening to but i cant find any new-old stuff to listen to??

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umm let me think.... i just typed into Google (one of my favorite sites =) ) alt.rock bands. I found a site that just listed them. I don't know if you had found it but here is the link

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_alternative_rock_artists

i don't know if you know of these soft-metal songs but here's a list i found:

Changes - Black Sabbath
Solitude - Black Sabbath
Here Come the Tears - Judas Priest
Nothing Else Matters - Metallica
Dreamer - Ozzy Osbourne
Goodbye to Romance - Ozzy Osbourne
Alone Again - Dokken

I hope this helped. Good Luck and Happy listening =)


My girlfriend and me whenever we hang out she always just reaches her hands down my pants and she says she wants to give me a handjob...weve been dating for 7 months and i dont think that she will notice that im small since its her first handjob...i really want one but im afraid she will think im too small....what should i do?
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Relax darling. Size doesn't matter! as long ar u rock what you've got then its all good. If you have been together for 7 months congratulations and she likes you for you and not the size of your package. Just relax and be confident as she will be a little nervous if its her first time giving one. Good luck. Hope this helped!! =)


my dad wont let me date does he not trust me or what
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How old are you love?? Im guessing your a girl. =) . Dads have an issue with allowing their daughters to date as they don't want their little girl to get hurt, also they seem scared to let their baby go out into the big world. If in different situations you can show him that you are responsible and mature then he may relax a little. My father was the same and still is very protective of me. I hope this helps. If you need someone to talk to im here =) . Good luck =)


im 14 and yet i have a party to go to in a bit and go swimming and its a pool party and i stuck in a tampon but theres still cotton stuff outside my area dose that mean it needs to be further in? (link)
Yes,maybe. It might help if you start off with applicator tampons so you can get a feel of were it should sit. This will help you gain confidence with using tampons. Hope this helped. Feel free to asks me anymore questions. Good Luck :)


Hi! Im a 14 yr old girl and i play softball very often. when I play my pad usually moves all around and is so uncomfortable. how can i ask my mom to use tampons? i used one once in school because i forgot my purse which had my pads and the nurse gave me a tampon i like them much better then pads they are more comfortable.mom does not know i ever used a tampon. my mom is also very strict. she also had used pads all her life. i know a lot about tampons also. im afraid to ask to use tampons. im also not the type of person who likes to talk about my period like some others. can someone please help me on asking my mom to use tampons! (link)
I completely understand your situation. I got my period when I was 13. My mum always used pads and because that's what was there I used them. When I started to got to high school I became quite active and was playing netball and started rowing in the summer. So how I got tampons was by writhing a letter to my mum explaining my situation. If you tell her how you feel and why you want to use them she should understand. Make sure you leave the letter in a place where she will find it. If that doesn't work maybe ask another close trusted adult or friend to get you some. Hope this helps. Feel free to ask any other questions. Good Luck :)


What does it mean when my boyfriend pulls me towards him & places me on his lap? I don't mind this but I'm just curious though why he does it.
female 17 (link)
Nawww cute!... He wants to show that you are with him and he is proud of it... Its a very personal and affectionate gesture and it shows he is comfortable with showing it... I hope this helped... Good luck... :)


On Tuesday night really late I had I had unprotected sex. I just got off my period and I started taking birth control. I took it two days before I had sex. So I'd had only taken 2 pills I wasn't sure if he came in me or not. I went to the bathroom a little while after and saw that clear liquid was in my underwear sometimes when I've had sex before it was there but not this much. The day after it happened I didn't feel sick or anything. Now it's two days later and I'm still taking my birth control And my stomach hurts a little but its more like a hunger hurt cause I haven't eaten today. Could I be pregnant? (link)
You could be hun! . When on the pill always remember the '7 day rule.' Apply this rule when you have just started the pill, have missed a day, have thrown it up, or just when ever you are concerned that you may have missed 1. this rule will always help to make sure the pill is safely doing it's job and you don't get pregnant. Hope this helped. good luck :)


hi guys i need some help i bought a black couch with silver and black cushions on it but i cant seem 2 think of wat colour paint would go with my couch my sitting room is medium sized with good light comin in any ideas would really be taken on board. thank you. (link)
Any colour would look amazing. Try not to go for colours that are dull as it would make the room smaller and darker. Maybe just walk into a paint store and pick what ever colour you want as it will go with the black and silver. Hope this helped :) Have fun!!


She's been having nightmares for the last 3 weeks. She had dreams that she saw her best friend die. She's really scared she wakes up at night crying. She sometimes cries in the morning too. She doesn't wanna talk about them. What can I do to comfort her ? What should I say to her ? (link)
Just hold her and let her feel safe in your arms. Try not to pressure her into speaking about them, she will talk when she is ready. I don't think you need to say anything, just again let her know that your here to look after her. Hope this helps. Good luck to you both :)


Half my friends are freaking out about tomorrow and I just heard about this! Why is the world supposed to end tomorrow? Who is saying this and should I eblieve it?

Will the world end on May 21st 2011? (link)
Relax.. im in New Zealand and well May 21st has been and gone and im still here.. !!! :)




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