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I really want a boyfriend!! A lot of people I know have a boyfriend and I don't. I have heard someone say,"Just flirt." I don't want to though!! Please help me!
*h3rmioneg*
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Just flirting with a bunch of guys gets you the wrong kind of guys, and that can lead to more hurt and pain than you could expect. Going into a relationship for all the wrong reasons (i.e. because all your friends have a boyfriend) doesn't usually end so well. Take your time, why do you have to conform to everyone else - what's the hurry?
Do things for yourself because you want to and you feel comfortable doing, don't do it to fit in, or for your friends. It's not worth it. Plus, in the end, it's your life!
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I know that feeling well love, especially when everyone around you has a boyfriend. The thing is if you rush into a relationship ATM it will be forced and not the real relationship you see everyone else with. Plus being in a relationship has sooo many more responsibilities with it. So my advice is to embrace being single and when you stop worrying over having a boyfriend some guy will love your independence and confidence and you may find your in a relationship. I hope this helped. Inbox me if you have any other questions.
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Hey there,
Firstly don't be in such a rush to get a boyfriend, I know it's hard seeing other couples but it will happen when it happens :) You don't want to come off desperate.
It can be frustrating but the right guy will come along when the time is right.
You have to put yourself out there though. It's scary and daunting and the fear of rejection can hold a lot of people back but if you don't try you will never know or get anywhere.
If flirting is hard for you just talk to guys. Get to know them. Ask them to hang out. Start texting or facebooking.
Maybe see if any of your friends boyfriends friends are single and you can maybe double date?
In the meantime don't get too hung up about not having a boyfriend. Enjoy being single while you can. Before the stress and commitment that comes with a relationship.
Good luck and I hope this helps
Much<3
Jess 18/f
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Personally, I understand that urge to have a boyfriend! Trust me, I've been through it. But you need to remember that the time will come and you just need to be patient. I know it can be hard, but you have to. There is no exact way to just get a boyfriend, but maybe get closer to a guy you like. Take it easy, and maybe things will start to fall into place. The last thing you want to do is seem really desperate. If there is a guy you like now, ask him out. The worst thing that can happen is getting a "no". So explore those options and just be patient. It's the best you can do. Hope I could help :) Good luck.
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