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Thanks for your advice I'll try to forgive myself. But I can't talk about this to anyone because my family is pretty conservative that way and I don't have that close a friend. Is there any other way to make myself feel better other than venting out my feelings?
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You could write about it. Like vent on paper. Keep a journal. And no problem, glad I could help.
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I'm a 21 year old Indian female. For a few days now my past has been haunting me which includes the following: 1. I had a boyfriend for 2 years and he was a great guy and we were as intimate as is possible (which even resulted in something terrible which i think you can guess)so anyway we broke up a year back and now i feel very regretful about everything that happened between us...i mean at that time it felt right. The reason for my guilt is also the fact that in my culture and family such intimacy is not allowed, so every time i speak to my folks i feel like a criminal; 2.Since i was so sure of being with my boyfriend forever and i was the one who initiated the break up i have started hating myself as i could not keep the promise of commitment.And now i don't think I'll be able to handle another guy again. I'm really sad and disturbed please help me. (link)
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You past is haunting you because you haven't been able to come to terms with what happen, accept it, and forgive your self to move on. I'm guessing you got pregnant, what happen? I know how you feel because I went through almost the same with my ex and til this day my parents don't mention it and if they do it's a screw up or mistake I made. But you have to talk about it, you have to learn to forgive yourself and accept things the way they are and accept that things happen the way they did. But most importantly talk about it. If you need to vent or anything. Feel free to message me. I'll listen and help as much as I can.
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I really don't know what to do.
My boyfriend doesn't know I'm pregnant, and we
broke up about 3 weeks ago. He asked me out again.
My friends say I should tell him. How do I tell him?
I honestly don't know if I want to be with him.. (link)
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I noticed this question was posted a while ago but thought I may be able to help. I'm 17 and I've been in your position before. If you ever want to talk or need advice about anything. Just message me or contact me through my website for teen parents, its teenmotherstogether.weebly.com
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I am 13 and i am pregnant. I took a pregnancy test that I stole from a store and it was positive. I already know i am way to young for sex. But we did use a condom it just broke. I can't tell my mom because she doesn't even know that I like boys yet she still thinks that I think boys have cooties. Abortion is out of the picture 1. I can't afford it 2. I could never kill a child. But i am just so scared I didnt tell the dad yet and not my mom only my best friend. I don't know how to tell them so please just tell me what to do or give me potions or opinions but please don't lecture me on how stupid I am for having sex I will get that from my mom it has been 2 weeks. Thanks for the help (link)
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I know how you feel. I've been in the position. But it's important you tell your parents. Just sit them down and say it or write it. But you need to tell them soon. You have other option besides abortion. There is adoption if you feel like you can't raise a baby. If you ever wanna talk, feel free to contact me. I also have a website for pregnant teens with tons of information on your option. So check it out, it could help. Its teenmotherstogether.weebly.com
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what does it mean if your period is brown?
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It could mean a couple different things. I was told old blood cleaning out of your system. I suggest that if you dont get your regular period by next month, a trip to the doctor.
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my period came very light an then the next day was gone
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If you are having sex and you think you could be pregnant it could be spotting or implantation spotting/bleeding. It could be your period acting up due to bith control if you take birth control. It could be due to stress, a number of things including std's. Id talk to your doctor about it. If your scared to go to your doctor then try planned parenthood and your local clinic and rule out any possible causes like pregnancy.
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I am 17 years old and i have a boyfriend that is the same age. Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for 2 months now and i really love him. Here's the problem, i wanna have sex so bad. Ever since i popped my cherry the other day i just want it really bad. The only thing is with him livin so far, he can not satisfy me in that area. what should i do, i honestly want to marry this boy, its just that i want sex really bad but dont want to cheat on him. what should i do (link)
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honestly, masturbate or tell him he needs to come visit asap. thats your only option to not cheat on him. either that or go with out having sex.
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okay so i have a friend who is dating a guy that had warts and skin tags if she kisses him will she get warts or skin tags?? (link)
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to be honest i have no clue but i guess it depend on if its an std or infection thats transmitable by skin to skin contact so if your worried about your friend id let her know and get her to ask him about it. so she knows to be careful.
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my boyfriend just found out that hes a dad but hes only 13.
i dont know how to fell about this he says he had sex with his ex way before we even like each other i belive him but im not sure not to think. he wants me to go to the irth and he will only go if i do. i dont think i want to though i want to be supprotive.
can you give me some adive on what i shoukd do please. (link)
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At 13, its gonna be alot to handle. They say that a girl becomes a mother when those two lines show and a boy becomes a father when his child is born. He is most likely still in shock but thats his child and he should be there for their. Your young and if you dont want to go then sit down with him and talk to him. It gonna be a big decison for you being 13 deciding whether or not you still want to date a guy thats about to be a daddy. My advice is just be supportive if its as a friend or as his gf and convince to be there for his son/daughter birth whether you go or not,its gonna be a life changing experience. Im 16 and i kinda know whats going through your head so message me if you ever want to talk.
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Okay, so me and this guy I've known my whole life have been talking lately, just as friends. I kind of like him and he does me too,but until something as far as a relationship happens he wants to be sex buddies and I kinda want to too.. Is there anything wrong with that? (link)
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Take it from me, friend with benefits is never a good idea at any age. But the choice is upp to you, no one can make it for you. Just be careful and make sure you know his sexual history and if has been tested with in the last month or 2.
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im having a baby but i dont know if i should get an abortion. someone please help me (link)
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It really depends on you. I was 16 when i got pregnant, ended up miscarring but i was debating abortion myself and i watched a honest tell all video about it and changed my mind completely. Its all about if you can handle the emotionally and physical aspects of whats gonna happen after the abortion. And where you wanna go in life and if you can take care of a child.
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well me and my boyfriend love each other! and we slep together alot of times. but whenever we have sex i always get worried and afraid that im pregnant! but it always turns out to be false. well last time we slept together was in beginning of april. i took a plan B pill right after and got my period a week later when my regular period is supposed to be like... today? i took a pregnancy test 17 days after having sex and it came out to be negative. but i didnt get my period yet. i got a huge fever yesterday and so im really dizzy and headaches and cramps... i dont know im really worried. cause im really young and my parents would kill me! please help :/ (link)
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Hi, im new to this site and i saw your question.Ive taken plan b before and its effective if you took in the 72hrs your suppose to and it sounds like you did. Its gonna mess up your periods and hormone level for a while because of the dose of horomones in it. So id try to relax and not panic. If you dont get your next period or the one after that then id take another test and if its negative, go to the doctor.
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