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my boyfriend is a dad at 13 and i am not the girl that is pregnant
my boyfriend just found out that hes a dad but hes only 13.
i dont know how to fell about this he says he had sex with his ex way before we even like each other i belive him but im not sure not to think. he wants me to go to the irth and he will only go if i do. i dont think i want to though i want to be supprotive.
can you give me some adive on what i shoukd do please.
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You shouldn't have to go, it's not your child. This is probably not what you want to hear but you should stay away. He doesn't sound like the brightest crayon in the box...you might be next.
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At 13, its gonna be alot to handle. They say that a girl becomes a mother when those two lines show and a boy becomes a father when his child is born. He is most likely still in shock but thats his child and he should be there for their. Your young and if you dont want to go then sit down with him and talk to him. It gonna be a big decison for you being 13 deciding whether or not you still want to date a guy thats about to be a daddy. My advice is just be supportive if its as a friend or as his gf and convince to be there for his son/daughter birth whether you go or not,its gonna be a life changing experience. Im 16 and i kinda know whats going through your head so message me if you ever want to talk.
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If he's telling the truth, you should convince him he should go to the birth of his child. This is a life changing experience that he may need to have to make him more responsible.
If I were you, at thirteen, I would walk away from the situation. That's a lot more than you should have to handle at thirteen. But of course, if you don't want to feel that way, you don't have to walk away.
I will say again that it is important that he goes to his child's birth. Maybe he's scared and that's why he wants you to go. You could be a supportive friend,if nothing else, to him during this time.
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