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just need a little something more
I am 17 years old and i have a boyfriend that is the same age. Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for 2 months now and i really love him. Here's the problem, i wanna have sex so bad. Ever since i popped my cherry the other day i just want it really bad. The only thing is with him livin so far, he can not satisfy me in that area. what should i do, i honestly want to marry this boy, its just that i want sex really bad but dont want to cheat on him. what should i do
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First, keep in mind that your brain is still developing and will up through the age of 25. So your feelings, sensibilities and thinking are going to go through several different permutations before you become a fully realized adult. So definitely don't think of marrying this guy yet. Heck, you might prefer a totally different kind of guy in a couple years time. And he might want a very different sort of girl.
I understand the sexual feelings. That's natural. Just make sure you're on the pill and use condoms. In addition, You have to realize that guys that age are very sexually focused and absence of a significant other often leads to doing some stuff on the side. It happens and isn't your fault, it just is what the situation is.
Too, you have to realize that you actually don't have that much experience with each other. You're basically just very occasionally dating. Dating someone and then living with them 24/7 are two very different propositions and then if you throw a kid into that mix that is a whole other ballgame. Do yourself a favor and wait at least until you finish college before settling down. Don't let your teenage insecurity get the best of you and make you do something rash you'll regret.
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It was hard for me too, but I did get through it without any special way. You should just wait, as in, really patiently wait for as long as he's gone.
Isn't it more satisfying if you do it after not doing it for a long time?
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honestly, masturbate or tell him he needs to come visit asap. thats your only option to not cheat on him. either that or go with out having sex.
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