I'm 14 and I'm pregnant.. How do I tell my boyfriend?
Question Posted Friday August 26 2011, 1:10 am
I really don't know what to do.
My boyfriend doesn't know I'm pregnant, and we
broke up about 3 weeks ago. He asked me out again.
My friends say I should tell him. How do I tell him?
I honestly don't know if I want to be with him..
Shan245 answered Friday September 16 2011, 11:35 pm: I noticed this question was posted a while ago but thought I may be able to help. I'm 17 and I've been in your position before. If you ever want to talk or need advice about anything. Just message me or contact me through my website for teen parents, its teenmotherstogether.weebly.com [ Shan245's advice column | Ask Shan245 A Question ]
Xui answered Friday August 26 2011, 3:40 pm: If you do not want to date someone you aren't happy with then break up with him. You may be pregnant and it may be his child but you are not entitled to live out of misery. This guy broke up with you and then he crawled back to you, If you aren't happy break up with him and leave it at that.
Honestly? At 14 years old I think you may want to really think about what is best for you and your babies future and adoption is always a great choice and if you aren't fully comfortable with the idea of not seeing the baby then you can do an open adoption where you would have visitation rights. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
annabanana answered Friday August 26 2011, 10:48 am: FOrget about him! you said you are unsure, you are probably right.
You will find a guy who will love and respect you -with a baby or not and this irresponsible guy will be irresponsible in the future and you dont need him. so.... move on and take good care of your baby, he doesnt even have to know.
You broke up with him 3 weeks ago for a reason i suppose and just hold on to the memory of that. you are stronger and know better than to be friends with him again after how he hurt you.
You dont need this stress especially right now so... move on and you will be alright with your family and true friends.
dont bother with this guy. It will be better i promise. good luck! ) [ annabanana's advice column | Ask annabanana A Question ]
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