Im 15 and a female and I have been worried about losing my virignity. I dont plan on it any time soon but its always been at the back of my mind. My first concern is "popping my cherry".
I know i bleed when this happens, but how much do you bleed? How long? and Why do you bleed? Does it hurt? I would feel embarrased if i bleed all over the guys sheets.
Second is the pain:
does it hurt that bad? did you cry when you lost it? How bad is the pain? and how can i make it less painful? I dont want to cry when he enters me.
Thx for advice
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? changecanhappen answered Saturday August 27 2011, 8:20 pm: Well, hopefully by now you haven't made the descion to break your virginity. It does hurt and at 15 I dont think it's a good idea.
I lost mine at 18, but still wish I had waited.
Only do this when you are complety ready and dont have any one pressure you, because the ones that pressure are never worth it.
Focus on school, it is hard enough without throwing complicated issues like sex in the mix.
Trust me, it can become very complicated and alot of emotions involved.
I would suggest that you wait at least until college. There is no rush. When you loose your virginity, you are just another girl in a sea of ordinary women. Dont be ordinary, be extraordinary!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [ changecanhappen's advice column | Ask changecanhappen A Question ]
Barbie7056 answered Friday August 26 2011, 6:39 pm: Okay. You bleed because your hymen will break. This is a protective layer in your vagina. Everyone will bleed at different rates. I didn't bleed that much and it was only for a less than a day.
I have a high pain tolerance so i was able to stand the pain and keep going. I didn't cry. To make it less painful have the guy finger you so that your vagina stretches. I hope this helped. I found this website that may help. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) .Good luck :) [ Barbie7056's advice column | Ask Barbie7056 A Question ]
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