I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years. And we have a daughter together, along with a son who is on the way. We got together in December of 2007 but didn't have sex until the 26th. And it hasn't been painful from then till 2008ish. But since we've had our daughter we would have sex and as soon as I would orgasm it would start getting uncomfortable to continue, although I would always let him finish. After the sex was done, I would go to the bathroom and pee, and it would burn. We've tried lube and it would help a little, but it burns still. I haven't seen anyone about it, but I would imagine since I'm pregnant again, if they saw anything unusual or an std or something that I would be told because they test for that stuff when you're pregnant. I'm going to ask about it my next appointment, but what kind of things can I do to make it more comfortable? I am starting not to like sex anymore because I'm not looking forward to the pain afterwards.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? adviceman49 answered Friday August 26 2011, 8:02 am: I would suggest you say something to your OB/GYN. I'm not a doctor but, logic and common sense, tells me that something may have happened during delivery of your daughter or while the doctor was stitching you up that is causing you this pain. Just what may have occurred I can't say, but since you are about to deliver another child this is an opportunity for the doctor to correct anything that may have occurred during the delivery of your first child.
While it is possible that the problem was not caused by the delivery of your first child, again, common sense tells me this is probably not the case. Only your doctor can say for certain. So tell your doctor during your next prenatal visit and let the doctor start looking into it and take corrective action.
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