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My dad won't let me date. Doesn't he trust me?
my dad wont let me date does he not trust me or what
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it depends on how old you are , but you know what , he does trust you ,just like others said he is scared to get you hurt, he doesn't want you to be hurt or get hurt by any guy, dont worry its nothing bad ,its totally normal when you have your kids you will understand what it means, dont worry about it it happens and he will he has to trust you and he does, he just doesnt want a girl like you to get hurt by those guys that decieve you easily
just be careful,if you really want to date show him the guy let him ask him questions and be more secure with it
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he just want to protect you
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well how old are you? Trust me I'm 20 and my parents hate the idea of me having a boyfriend.
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To answer this question I need to know how old you are.
I will tell you this though; no matter how old you get you will always be daddy's little girl. That is the double standard between boys and girls. Boys grow up to be men. Girls will grow up have their own families and still remain little girls in their fathers eyes.
This has been this way since just about forever. There is no man who is ever good enough for daddy's little girls and whoa on to the man that soils daddy's little girl.
If you are old enough to date the fact that your dad won't let you date has less to do with trusting you and more to do with not trusting boys. Remember at one time all us dads were boys who wanted to date girls and we remember what we were like.
Your dad is just trying to protect you. fighting, crying, yelling and screaming will not change his mind. What might change his mind is what worked with me. I don't have any daughters. But I helped my sister raise my nieces. When my oldest niece wanted to date she asked me to come over to talk. She crawled into my lap and put her head on my shoulder the calmly explained to me that she wasn't a little girls any more. That in order to grow she needed to be able to experience things, make her own mistakes and hopefully my sister and I would be there to fix the mistakes she made.
Now of course these are my words not hers. But her words worked and I spoke to my sister. We gave my niece a little more freedom with the knowledge that this freedom was given not earned. If she wanted more freedom she would have to earn it by not abusing what was given.
This worked out well for my niece. It might work for you if you CALMLY TALK WITH YOUR FATHER.
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How old are you love?? Im guessing your a girl. =) . Dads have an issue with allowing their daughters to date as they don't want their little girl to get hurt, also they seem scared to let their baby go out into the big world. If in different situations you can show him that you are responsible and mature then he may relax a little. My father was the same and still is very protective of me. I hope this helps. If you need someone to talk to im here =) . Good luck =)
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I doubt that he doesn't trust you unless you have done something for him not too. Depending on your age he is just protecting you. I wish my mom would have kept me from dating because that turned into a huge mess and boys are just trouble. Ask him whether or not he trust you but sit down and talk to him about it, and try not to fight with him because that is just going to make it worse. This kind of question is hard because we don't know enough about you for us to know if your dad "trust" you or not. Just ask him and see what you can do about it. Worrying about it, isn't going to get you anywhere.
Good luck!
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